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Thread: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    Number 2.........

    ME: Hey Charlotte who's 26, 55 kilometres away and pretty! That's all I know about you! So you best not be annoying!

    HB: lol! Depends what you find annoying! So where you from?

    ME: mmmmm I don't find much annoying if I'm honest, so you'd do well if you managed it! I'm from (...my town...) how about your annoying self?

    HB: lol! I'm from (....her town..) and yea I am still annoying

    ME: damn....your from (....her town...)? This sucks your really cute and I was just starting to like you but now I have to break up with you, I'm keeping the dog lol

    HB: lol! Good I don't like dogs, to much work! Quickest break up ever. I will remember it always!

    ME: Haha! You ARE annoying aren't you? I love it!! So your more of a budgie lady?

    HB: No I like turtles there alright, the little ones

    ME: really? Turtles are awesome!!

    That's the end of that convo........I gotta admit I think I started to run out of steam which I think really is my big problem! She fired back a few decent replies especially the one in reference to the fake break up, I was going for a bit of push/pull here as I've been reading up about it.

    The turtle reply I didn't see coming, didn't really know what to put was gonna fire back a funny turtle fact at her if I could find one but thought that might be a bit to "try hard" so I kinda played it safe........

    once again I seem to start well, but the further along I go I seem to run out of steam! Surely there has to be a point when I switch to bit of normality and ask her questions to get to know her.........these are all girls from tinder so I know nothing about them other than their pics and maybe a small caption of info!!

    Once again any feedback good or bad is appreciated!

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    Here are a few "go to" phrases whenever you get stumped momentarily...
    You can use these in almost any situation when a girl says something that sorta catches you off guard.

    How did I know you were gonna say that?

    Are you totally sure about that?

    Yeah... that's what they ALL say!

    You're only saying that to try to impress me!

    Now you're just flirting with me... but it's cool, I like it.

    How did you know I think the same thing? Have you been spying on me for a while?

    Wow... that's freaky!! I was just gonna say the same thing... or the complete opposite; whichever would be funnier.

    Awwweeee, you're trying to get on my sweet side by mentioning that, aren't ya!


    Seriously...
    anytime you find yourself a little lost, confused or stumped, make a general statement like these... they're flirty & can pretty much be plugged into any context.






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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    Hahahahaha!! Nice one T-mal they are awesome will definitely use those in the future and I will also try to think of a few similar ones myself!

    Needless to say I haven't heard back from either girl for 3/4 days now so I am guessing they are a lost cause!!! seems to be a bit of a pattern developing here!!

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    Hi T-mal,

    So, I remember you told me that you don't recommend having a serious conversation over texts. But this time, the girl feels shy to talk on the phone (even though I met her the other day and things went well). For some reasons, she start becoming cold to me recently by just replying with one word (This did not happen right after the date). So, you recommend play the jealousy card by posting a picture on fb of me with couple girls or asking her something "what's wrong? why you're not talkative anymore..is there anything you need to tell me". If she said she's not interested, I'll tell her it's cool...good luck in your life. ..

    It's just funny that she saw that I don't follow her anymore, yet when I went to her profile, I found her still following me. And when I posted a picture today, she checked my profile immidietely, but she didn't comment or anything even though many girls liked it and wrote comments on it

    What's your advice? Thank you for reading T-mal

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    I personally try to avoid using jealousy... but for some guys it's effective.

    Instead, if I find a girl is showing less interest & not investing as much as she used to, I go back to the beginning stages of gaming her again. Build attraction & express a confident, alpha persona.

    What worked when I FIRST met a girl & caused her to be attracted to me is what usually works for RE-ATTRACTING her.

    It's easy to slip into old habits & start slacking once you get the girl... but you have to continue gaming her all the time.
    That's cool though because it's FUN!

    Go back & re-read early messages from when you first met.
    Notice how the interaction was going & what it was that you were saying. What style of communication were you using?

    Chances are, that's all you need to do again.



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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    I'm really glad I checked with you. I was about to play the jealousy card. But what you suggested make more sense. I went over the old messages and I noticed we started naughty messages. (she's very sarcastic and go with the flow type of girl). Can you give me a funny naughty line opener. I know how to continue the role play, I just want the first message that set the frame. Thank you )))

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    I've used something like this before:

    Heya sweet face, I've been thinking... YOU make me want to let you do naughty things to ME. (And vice versa!)

    Or, "Yeah, I'm a little crazy... perhaps a bit nuts. I mean, if you were a squirrel, I'd be in your mouth... that's how nutty I am! "


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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    lololollll ok I will try them. thanks man

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    so your advice is going great so far, I threw couple naighty lines and jokes and she was laughing. But she hasn't said a word yet.
    The last couple messages were:
    Her: haha
    Me: ok if you reach +3pt, I'll have a proposal for you...
    Her: lololololol

    So, you think it's the right time to ask her out. I don't know her schedule, so I'll tell her: "So I trust you will be done from work the next couple days after 7 " once she tell me her schedule I'll say: ok get ready pick you up 7:29 to see the most beautiful view on earth " does that sound right? or I should not ask her out yet and wait until she ask me what I'm up to?

    Forgive me I'm asking many questions, but I really do like this girl, and I don't want to mess it up as I always do.

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    Don't ask her out yet, she's not totally hooked.
    You're getting her attention though. But you need to get her engaged in the interaction more. Don't rush into it.

    Spend some time getting her to open up & be playful WITH you... not just "lol-ing" at your texts. There's a difference between the two.

    FLIRTING is such a fun phase to be in, so don't be in a hurry to blast through it. It's the part of the attraction process that allows you to set yourself apart from the average chump.




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