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Thread: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    Wait and calibrate is a theme that I always get from you. I'll try to open her up by talking more. I'm going to say:
    "you're giggling but not saying anything...what's going on. Last time you did that, I found that you broke my computer "

    OR

    "you look at your phone and giggles, are you always like that or just with me "

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    Question. How do i redeem myself with girls I've tried texting but rather ended up as one of those contacts she hardly interacts with? Or have i already lost these battles?

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    Quote Originally Posted by CharlieCheez View Post
    Question. How do i redeem myself with girls I've tried texting but rather ended up as one of those contacts she hardly interacts with? Or have i already lost these battles?
    T-mal for sure will give you his opinion. But, if I were you, I would go to the 1st page of this thread, T-mal posted some great examples of re-openers you can use. Get the pattern, then use the same fun format on your interaction (use an inside joke you had with that girl if possible). If she didn't respond, then move on to the next girl

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    Quote Originally Posted by fredyyy View Post
    Wait and calibrate is a theme that I always get from you. I'll try to open her up by talking more. I'm going to say:
    "you're giggling but not saying anything...what's going on. Last time you did that, I found that you broke my computer "

    OR

    "you look at your phone and giggles, are you always like that or just with me "
    never mind I texted her how was your day. I thought if she's interested she will invest and say something. All she said is "good". So, I guess this girl is not interested or she is bored and wants me to ask her out. I'm confused of what to do. I'm thinking about not texting her anything anymore, so fi she interested she will come back. Right?

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    Quote Originally Posted by fredyyy View Post
    never mind I texted her how was your day. I thought if she's interested she will invest and say something. All she said is "good". So, I guess this girl is not interested or she is bored and wants me to ask her out. I'm confused of what to do. I'm thinking about not texting her anything anymore, so fi she interested she will come back. Right?

    "How was your day?" is something you should NEVER ask...
    Instead, say "I trust your day was full of awesomeness! " or something similar. It's more fun & flirty, and will help set you apart from every other guy.

    Her response is perfectly fine, considering your question.
    You need to get more creative & make texting with you FUN!

    She probably IS slightly bored, because you're slipping into the "usual guy" category. But the fact that she replied is a good sign. All is not lost yet...

    Get more playful & interactive.




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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    Quote Originally Posted by T-Mal View Post
    "How was your day?" is something you should NEVER ask...
    Instead, say "I trust your day was full of awesomeness! " or something similar. It's more fun & flirty, and will help set you apart from every other guy.

    Her response is perfectly fine, considering your question.
    You need to get more creative & make texting with you FUN!

    She probably IS slightly bored, because you're slipping into the "usual guy" category. But the fact that she replied is a good sign. All is not lost yet...

    Get more playful & interactive.


    I'm trying my best to become always playful and fun in texts, and overall I'm improving, but I don't know how I forgot about it when I sent that average message "how's your day". Today I used your line she laughed and put some smiley faces. Then I told her "you seem very happy...what did I miss " my goal was build some connection with her. But she hasn't responded yet. I feel she's either bored.... or she wants me to ask her out??

    Also, this girl checks my profile every day, so I'm trying to take advantage of that. Do you still believe not to post a picture with couple cute girls lol I thought that would spice up the interaction. or I'm thinking maybe deleting my account will give her a sense that I don't really care, and will make her chase if she's interested. (she has my number, so she could text me outside of that app). What's your opinion?

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    Some great tips here. I seem to be OK at getting a woman's number, but am finding that the texts kinda fizzle out. Any hints on keeping the magic going? How many texts should I send before I escalate and 'request' a date ?

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    The magic should mostly done from the real interaction. As what I learned from T-mal recently that text should be cool, light, and fun!
    Don't have serious conversation over texts. The first page of this thread has great examples of good openers

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    Hey T-Mal!
    I've got a match on tinder with a quite cute girl. But her profile doesn't say more than "live, love, laugh!". There are no interests shown, nothing. May be a boring girl or just doesn't want to give too much to strangers. Anyway, what tips on the opener can you give me?

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    Sometimes you have to take a chance & guess about a girl's personality.

    My current GF had almost nothing in her profile... And I ALMOST passed her up because of it... but I took a chance & made a comment about her being spunky / sassy AND probably as big a nerd as I am...

    She replied back enthusiastically, which meant she was definitely my type. When in doubt, phrase your messages in a way to attract the type of girl you want, while weeding out the ones you don't.



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