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Thread: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    So, I've been texting with this girl and I'm trying to figure out her new schedule, so I can suggest a good time to hangout for a second time. The problem is I already used both techniques you suggested me to use to get an idea about her schedule when I was trying to set a 1st date with her. The first one I used was "I trust your weekend full of fantastic plans already...?" and the second one I used already was the one along the lines "Ok, we totally need to grab ice cream this weekend! Let me know your schedule while I check mine to see what I have open. Then we can work out the details for our Hawaiian getaway...".

    So

    1) what do you suggest me to do. Is there another line to use?
    2) do you suggest calling her on the phone, so we can chat and ask her out, or maybe leave her a light funny voice message and tell her to call me back in case she didn't respond.
    3) or wait 2 days then text her: Hey (her name)! Hope your week has been good Feel like mine’s never going to end..!!
    and once we start a conversation, I ask her "we totally need to cool off school and work heat, what are you doing this weekend?"

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    I am kind of stuck in this conversation but now I see an oppertunity to see how such girls are tamed. Note that I never thought this would get a response^^

    Me: Your profile screams "fake profile"
    (She has just one picture, seems to except every male friendship request etc)
    Two days later:
    Her: and your face nutella
    Me: I don't see the disadvantage here
    Her: If you think so

    Every other guy fills up her profile on Facebook with "thank you for excepting" etc And I am writing her this. I think I sparked her interest. But how would you continue?

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    With another girl I've tried to set up a meet up, but she said, she had already other plans, ok, no problem. BUT just now, she is out with friends or so and texts me: "And are you having fun?"

    I've "seen" it, but I will not answer now, that shows that I am not having fun, so far I've learned But do you respond to something the next day? And if yes how? Answering her question or teasing her about her bad choice of activity this evening because she was obviously bored?

    Sorry for the double post, but the more I am engaging with women the more questions I am having.

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    Quote Originally Posted by Tow View Post
    I am kind of stuck in this conversation but now I see an oppertunity to see how such girls are tamed. Note that I never thought this would get a response^^

    Me: Your profile screams "fake profile"
    (She has just one picture, seems to except every male friendship request etc)
    Two days later:
    Her: and your face nutella
    Me: I don't see the disadvantage here
    Her: If you think so

    Every other guy fills up her profile on Facebook with "thank you for excepting" etc And I am writing her this. I think I sparked her interest. But how would you continue?
    I had a fantastic argument on cupid once because I mentioned her boobs were fake..good one to try

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    Great reading... Just got into this PUA world... amazing. Tmal is that download link still available?

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    so I want to invite this girl to come join me to a party. so I'm wondering if this text sounds good? (we always texts never talk on the phone):

    "hey (x), what are you doing thursday night. I'm going to the annual (name of my school) party, so come be my partner & get ready I might spin you non-stop "

    is it this a good message?

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    fredyyy ~ you just need to re work that a little try "Hey ( her name or nickname) Thursday night, (name of my school) party, be my partner & get ready I might spin you non-stop "


    I always thought what are you doing XXXXX night is pretty lame
    it's kind of like Hey how are you or Hey what are you doing

    GOOD LUCK

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    haha drgnsfire12 thank you. It sounds a lot better now.
    I just have 2 questions for you...
    1) what do you usually text a girl to know her free schedule?...I used what T-mal suggested me to do by saying "I trust your weekend is full of awesome plans...? " on a girl, but the topic changed quickly and she didn't tell me her schedule. So, do you have any other suggestion?

    2) do you usually text a girl after a date...something like "it was cool meeting you (her name)"? and when do you send her a message..after a day?

    Thank you

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    Quote Originally Posted by fredyyy View Post
    haha drgnsfire12 thank you. It sounds a lot better now.
    I just have 2 questions for you...
    1) what do you usually text a girl to know her free schedule?...I used what T-mal suggested me to do by saying "I trust your weekend is full of awesome plans...? " on a girl, but the topic changed quickly and she didn't tell me her schedule. So, do you have any other suggestion?

    2) do you usually text a girl after a date...something like "it was cool meeting you (her name)"? and when do you send her a message..after a day?

    Thank you
    I know you asked someone else but I can help you with this one. My style is definitely different from T-mals so I do things a little different.

    1. When I want to know a girls schedule I drop in this line during a high point in the conversation. "Tell me what your schedules like this week". That's it.

    2. I text a girl after a date. If I know how long it takes her to get home (like half an hour) I'll text her an hour later with "Hey (her name/ or nick name) I hope you made it home safe!" Women love this because it shows you care and that you're looking out for her.

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    DirectIsBest made a great point...
    He does things that fit HIS personality.

    You CAN follow my texting style exactly as I lay it out... & it'll work... as long as your personality is congruent.

    However; my point is use my IDEAS & find a way to spin everything to make it fit YOUR style/ personality.


    The only "WRONG" way, is the way every other chump would do it...
    otherwise, you're golden.



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