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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    Alright... So from a previous thread and a long story short, texting with this chick whose my Muse for Art. I've already established a lot of ioi's previously, She failed the trust test--she loved the cube and where I'm at now is trying to address the eagerness on my part in the relationship. The text is as following...

    Me: Just had a great idea...
    Her: Do Tell...
    Me: Gonna require some team work. Let's just say you're going to be using your imagination. It's a surprise--and in return surprise me with a drink Thursday.
    Her: Lol lol Thursday Doesn't look promisingggg ! So now you're onna leave me hanging?!
    Me: Don't be a Dork Butt!I'd say call in sick and let's play hooky butttttt i don't think you would.



    I know I screwed up previously by offering drinks the last time we hung out (didn't buy drinks at a bar, she was over) and pretty much screwed up again in the text with that last response of mine. My question is though, how do you get them to be inspired to bring drinks say via text? I'm trying to get out of that zone of being too eager--looking for her to fall towards my way.

    EDIT: the last 2 text lines were updated as of recent because she just responded--and i felt too in the moment to put the phone down. looks like it didn't come across as too terrible. Still trying to get a better grasp at texting... prolly going to wait till i hear from you guys as to what i should respond with next.

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    man... i just re-read pages upon pages of this thread... so much much to learn... seriously need a how to on this as great as this thread is. your Push-Pull, Sh1t Test and creativity is ridiculous T-mal. great pointers--but it seems so hard to be able to connect what stage i'm in, in regards to texting and how to shift it.

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"


    DirectIsBest ~ TOTALLY AGREE with texting a girl like an hour after she gets home and asking her if she got home alright .... OR if it went really well you can go with "SO you kinda impressed me tonight and I don't get impressed very often ... Keep up the good work", either way it's a good way to cap the night off ..... Fredyyy as far as finding out a girls schedule, I like Direct's approach , it's simple, concise, and to the point , but I'm a T-Mal kind of guy so I would say something .... "Hey (name/nickname) my weekend plans include Jello, penguins, and power tools .... what do you have planned" …. ???

    But no matter what you do, remember what T-Mal says and just avoid the crap that AFC lame brains say and do and you’ll be golden

    GOOD LUCK

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    Thank you all...I totally agree with what you guys said. Always appreciate the advices that you guys give me.

    There is just one thing that most girls do when you invite them (at least that what they do to me). They like to play hard, not give you an answer if they can go out with you or not on that day, so they tend to leave me hanging. and I feel that's never alpha.

    For example, a girl told me that she's hasn't planned anything on friday and after I invited her in a funny way, she says " lol ok let me just make sure my accounting homework won't take long. I'm seeing a tutor that night as well". I feel this is a complete Bs.
    I told her: "work on it tonight...the time is clicking! unless you want to cook me a dinner to make up for not coming ". Is this kinda the cool vibe that you guys always wanted me to keep? or I should've in this case cancel with her and tell her maybe another time then". (because it's not alpha to keep myself hanging"

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    I think a lot of the issues most guys deal with, is that they don't have an abundance mentality... meaning; if one girl is flaky, you have plenty of other options.

    If one girl gets all indecisive & seems like she's not committing to meeting up, then make the same offer to another girl.
    Simple solution.


    BUT....
    most of the time a guy ends up in that situation, it's because he hasn't truly built up enough attraction.
    It sounds like a small thing, but it's crucial.

    ATTRACTION totally defines the way a girl sees you.
    Are you "friend material?'
    Are you "a loser?"
    Are you "plain weird?"

    Or, are you "The type of guy she WANTS to be with?"

    When the attraction is present, you'll almost never have trouble with resistance or hesitation.

    Remember that.


    Need one on one private coaching? PM me for details.

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    Thanks T-Mal, i was given great advice outside of the forums which helped me realized that if I think I'm friend zoned, I'm probably friend zoned--etc. it's helped to calm my brain down and move on. i realized that texting builds so much Tension because its only words and extremely hard to convey an emotional connection like you would with a face to face conversation.

    i do want to ask you though--on an average day when talking to a girl you're gaming, how long does that conversation go on average? or is it only a few lines for one day's conversation? i guess what i'm trying to get at is how do you know if the pace is too slow or when its too fast on both parties?

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    Quote Originally Posted by T-Mal View Post
    I think a lot of the issues most guys deal with, is that they don't have an abundance mentality... meaning; if one girl is flaky, you have plenty of other options.

    If one girl gets all indecisive & seems like she's not committing to meeting up, then make the same offer to another girl.
    Simple solution.


    BUT....
    most of the time a guy ends up in that situation, it's because he hasn't truly built up enough attraction.
    It sounds like a small thing, but it's crucial.

    ATTRACTION totally defines the way a girl sees you.
    Are you "friend material?'
    Are you "a loser?"
    Are you "plain weird?"

    Or, are you "The type of guy she WANTS to be with?"

    When the attraction is present, you'll almost never have trouble with resistance or hesitation.

    Remember that.
    that's really my new lesson to learn. THANKS A LOT!!!!

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    T-Mal, I would just like to say that your advice is a game-changer for me. I'm usually a fun, sarcastic type of person to be around but this guide has given me so many great ideas that women always respond to! I'm going on a date next week thanks to you!

    Also, could you please PM me a link to the Android app?

    Much appreciated man!

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    I always thought my text, email game was pretty tight. But after reading this there is still so much I have to learn. is there any chance I can have the link to the app?

    Thanks.

    Dandy.

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    This is a new situation that I recently encountered:
    I've been texting with a girl I met online. She is a busy girl who works non-stop and we were trying to setup a 1 st meet. So, I suggested a time, she apologized for having x and she can't make. I told her "that's a bummer, I need to have your free schedule in this case"..and she just give me one time during the week that I can't make.

    I need to have a good funny come back, so she gives me other free times without coming across too pushy..otherwise I'll tell her "I can't that day I finish at 8pm & don't want to see you while I'm half sleepy, you'll end up being my pillow :P" and leave it up to her from that point.

    What do you guys suggest?

    Thanks in advance


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