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Thread: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    Freddy, if that was me, I'd respond with something like this "(her name), jeez, that's a real shame as xxxxxxx evening is the only time I can't do, as that is the night I have my weekly shower/wash my hair cut my nails, (something stupid like that), I'd then ask what her schedule is like for the day time, as she can't be busy everyday.

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    Thank you dandy01! that was good a funny yet straight to the point!

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    a girl asked me to send her a picture: so i did, and she replied "like a G6" which I found hilarious.

    Is there any funny lyrics quotes that describe how beautiful a girl is I can use when she send me a picture lol

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    I wouldn't take the root of looking for a way of complimenting her looks as that'll be giving her higher value and probably what she is used too. Remember you need to demonstrate higher value.

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    Perhaps try fluffing around the subect, say something like "hey, its funny you say that, in my spare time, I take part in a far east movement tribute band" I find sarcasm a great way of building rapport with a girl.

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    Quote Originally Posted by dandy01 View Post
    Perhaps try fluffing around the subect, say something like "hey, its funny you say that, in my spare time, I take part in a far east movement tribute band" I find sarcasm a great way of building rapport with a girl.
    I LOVE your style & approach!


    I just wouldn't call that "fluffing around". THAT is how you express a fun, silly vibe that girls notice.
    It's different than what most other guys would do... so it's more likely to get her attention.

    Expressing confidence & humor is like "chick crack".
    They get hooked immediately.
    Even the "cocky-funny" stuff is effective. (Which is something I rarely advocate, because guys have a hard time knowing when to stop... but it can melt panties faster than a blow torch to butter)

    It took me about 2 years of solid gaming / studying / working at this stuff, to totally know when to use "cocky-funny" & when to dial it back.

    The reason it works is simple... it expresses confidence.
    MOST guys don't have that. But too much "cf" game, will get you tagged as an ass / jerk / player.

    That said, I have to say that dandy01 definitely has some solid advice.


    Need one on one private coaching? PM me for details.

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    Quote Originally Posted by dandy01 View Post
    Perhaps try fluffing around the subect, say something like "hey, its funny you say that, in my spare time, I take part in a far east movement tribute band" I find sarcasm a great way of building rapport with a girl.
    lol that's a great come back! But dandy01 what do you mean by demonstrate higher value?

    Also, T-mal you introduced a great point. I 100% agree with you about the cocky funny. But unlike you, I haven't figured yet where to stop using it. I'm still in the calibration phase. I try to use cocky-funny in my interactions, but as you said. It's can amazingly make girls willing to meet, or it could make me come across as a jerk and the girl will leave.

    I still don't see the difference between "chick crack" and "the cocky-funny" style? and is there any advice will you give me to calibrate and know where to stop using the cocky-funny? (Iknow tricky questions this time

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    Thanks T-mal, yeah, I know what you mean by my use of the word Fluff, I only used it in wanting for another word. It has taken me a while to get results and it doesn't work every time, but then this isn't exact science is it! For example I met a girl on Saturday afternoon whilst out with a friend, after some spontaneous conversation I got her number. I text her that evening, in an upbeat manner to which she replied yeah, you too. After that I send her some great witty meassages, to which I got one word answers. I'll persevere though, hahaha. I'll have to leave it a while.

    Freddyyy, any beautiful woman, has a value, a sense of worth, which programmes her brain to assess any guy subconciously on meeting as a potential mate, obviously the average looking guy she will disregard as "not good enough for her" this is where Witt and spontaneous thinking come in. If you think about all the times you have complimented a woman on her looks e.g. you are beautiful, gorgeous, you have incredible eyes, she will be getting that from every single guy she meets and will be 100% boring for her. This is where demonstrating higher value comes in, whether it be a neg, I.e. nice dress, though you have a trailing thread there, your make up has run there, or I like your hair, but you have a few split ends e.t.c. a trick of some sort, or make a mysterious comment that she has to think about and wants to know the answer too. Now this isnt what she is used to, it'll take her back as she is used to guys sleazing all over her, there by lowering the value she has of herself and increasing yours, building interest.

    I don't go much on the cocky funny thing, as you say its easy to step over the mark. I just prefer to be witty, sarcastic and nonchalant. Particularly the last one. One of the best methods I have found when talking to a beautiful woman is to pretend not to pay her your full attention by looking around at other girls where ever you are, making sure to compliment the girls you are looking at too her, again she will think why ist he looking at me? What's wrong with me? It takes guys to do it and i have seen it bomb on several friends, but hey it works for me.

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    Thank you for this guide! It is very concise, but covers a whole lot of bullet points. Bookmarked!

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    Quote Originally Posted by dandy01 View Post
    Freddyyy, any beautiful woman, has a value, a sense of worth, which programmes her brain to assess any guy subconciously on meeting as a potential mate, obviously the average looking guy she will disregard as "not good enough for her" this is where Witt and spontaneous thinking come in. If you think about all the times you have complimented a woman on her looks e.g. you are beautiful, gorgeous, you have incredible eyes, she will be getting that from every single guy she meets and will be 100% boring for her. This is where demonstrating higher value comes in, whether it be a neg, I.e. nice dress, though you have a trailing thread there, your make up has run there, or I like your hair, but you have a few split ends e.t.c. a trick of some sort, or make a mysterious comment that she has to think about and wants to know the answer too. Now this isnt what she is used to, it'll take her back as she is used to guys sleazing all over her, there by lowering the value she has of herself and increasing yours, building interest.
    Thanks dandy01...that's another lesson to learn!

    I need to re-intiate texting with a girl...is there any cool non-sexual flirty message that you guys find effective. T-mal suggested some GREAT openers in the 1st page, but I feel they're more for initiating with a new girl. I've been texting with this girl since a while, so I'm wondering if you guys know any good flirty openers??? For example, I just know this one: it's very classic one but always worked for me: "so is it hot today, or is it just you"


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