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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    So I stumbled onto something that I think would be great to share... I've been dealing with a flaky girl I'm gaming.. So here's the following conversation...

    Me: Hey Trouble, What's the weather report saying? The sun coming out this week being good to hang out or cloudy with the strong possibility of rain check? (then added sentence about details of why we were getting together)
    Her: Lol! I love love love how you put this... You probably hate hate hate me for the rain check :/ I sincerely apologize, we got back from our day trip (and then more excuses here..)
    --Next morning
    Me: Wow, talk about Trouble. Time to start tallying up all this bad girl behavior. Tempted to play the bored GF in the relationship leaving her boring BF. BUT I'll give you a chance to redeem yourself. Truth or dare?
    Her: Lol!!!! Truth
    Me: ...Truth: I'm assuming you've played this game before... Fack, Marry, Kill... So name 3 guys of the last 10 guys you've texted and tell me why.
    Her: Lol!!!
    Her: So it'd be-- (Insert names, sadly none of them were me.. which I'm sure I'll be able to shock and awe her next time I see her)

    (FYI--my dare was going to be.. Text me a picture that you would never share on FB or Instagram)

    ... So what I wanted to share here is that I turned a flaky situation into a game in which she was really responsive to. It might have been posted on this thread earlier BUT!!! I realized texting games can be really exciting for the girl to play. What I found interesting is that I ended up texting less and she texted more.. So for the hour or so that we were texting--SHE was more invested in the conversation that I was. Hopefully this will help you guys where I've been stuck all week.

    On a side note she's still flaky. Hahaha. I know that I failed in suggesting a day but I knew already this week was out of the question--I was really looking for a way to get her to think about me while sticking to a nickname I'm trying to build into her head--which I'm sure will help me k & f close.

    hopefully this will help you guys getting that girl to respond more and investing in your text game.

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    Quote Originally Posted by fredyyy View Post
    Thanks dandy01...that's another lesson to learn!

    I need to re-intiate texting with a girl...is there any cool non-sexual flirty message that you guys find effective. T-mal suggested some GREAT openers in the 1st page, but I feel they're more for initiating with a new girl. I've been texting with this girl since a while, so I'm wondering if you guys know any good flirty openers??? For example, I just know this one: it's very classic one but always worked for me: "so is it hot today, or is it just you"

    That text is like a cheesy "pickup line".
    BUT... those can actually be funny & effective at times.

    However; check out this thread for a TON of ideas of re-initiating an interaction with a girl.

    Many of these were ones I came up with just for that exact purpose.
    It's my "list of magic texts".


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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    hahaha that was Hilarious! Thanks man....I looked online on different forums all the texts they suggested suck. Yours are on a totally different level

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    So I really need an advice.

    quick background: I met her from okcupid, but haven't met her in person yet. We've been texting since a long time, but we both were busy to meet. I recently suggested time to meet, she couldn't make it. then She suggested another time that doesn't work for me. Also, recently I should mention that she put back her profile online again (after she deleted for a month or so)

    me: (around midnight...we usually text around this time): Finish washing dishes, then squeeze yourself beside me it's our pillow talk time...
    her: OMG lololol
    me: it's a time where even silly jokes become super funny
    her: (at 6:30am) YES Agreeeeeed
    me: the long "eeeee" in agreeed shows me how much you're my type
    her: I've been your type since you knew I was a woman
    me: If if all women were like you...likfe would be heaven
    her: "don't get agead of yourself, I'm a psycho
    me: I never felt this way, so I don't agree...maybe mysterious yes
    her: oooo kinkkyyy
    me: I might be...but it's just a reflection on how you make me feel...always flirty & down to earth
    her:hehehehehe
    me: It's true though lol I just don't have any picture of you to put in my conatc
    her: (no response)

    it's been 3 days for this conversation. It's either I wait for her more to send a picture or re-initiate, or I somehow I need to say something funny and re-initiate myself then suggest a time to meet. I really don't know what to do

    Also, any comment about my texting style so far? lol

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    Asking for pix might not have been a smart move. I think you could have flirted your way to reality. Make it seem like shes too good to be true.

    My advice is hit her up starting from scratch--don't drop the ball. Try to shift everything towarss meeting up after a few emotional spikes
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    is it needy to ask for a picture in general? lol

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    Dont ask. Either insinuate or tell her to.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    I've always said something along the lines of "Hey, send me a pic you want me to use for your contact icon in my phone. "

    I also would say that when the interaction was at a peak & we were having lots of fun & she was totally in the moment.

    Never had an issue of getting a girl to send me pics.


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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    IN AN EFFORT TO HELP YOU GUYS GET GIRLS, I AM POSTING MORE LAME AFC SHIT THAT WE SHOULD ALL AVOID

    I have a girlfriend who has a profile on a dating site and has to deal with lame shit all the time. She recently put up a picture of
    herself from last Halloween where she was dressed as a butterfly. Here are some of the lame comments from the AFC crew


    Pretty BUTTERFLY!!!! : ]

    Pretty, but should that be Butterflygurly?

    Gorgeous girl

    You are sooooo hot

    You are sexy little butterfly

    "A flutterby!!!!!!!" awesome... ( how very witty )

    Very Beautiful ;-)

    Awww I found a beautiful butterfly ;3

    Fly this way!

    If only I had a large net

    I would love to make you fly away on a cloud of delight

    lets set the world aflame

    It's hard to pick favorites with features like yours

    You really are stunning xx

    Let's play hit me up.

    SO SEXY

    very nice curves...


    My OH My, Nice Body, You Are Beautiful!


    very nice body indeed


    Very nice .

    There's a girl who needs a spanking ( WTF??? )




    SO GUYS, PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE DON'T EVER SEND SHIT LIKE THIS ..... BE FUNNY, BE ORIGINAL, BE RANDOM .... AND DONT BE LAME, BORING, AND PREDICTABLE ..... GOOD LUCK !!!!!

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    Here's a question on a situation that I encounter sometimes.

    sometimes, I'll send a girl a text message that is supposed to be funny, but because of my bad grammar, the girl who's receiving the text message won't get the joke. (English is not my 1st language). So, the girl will respond to me with something like "??" or "I didn't get what you just said". So, if it I try to explain the joke, it will ofcourse become boring. I don't want to come across as boring in text.

    What do you guys suggest me to do in this case in the future. Is there any cool funny comeback I could use if this happen to me in the future? :/

    thanks in advance


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