So I stumbled onto something that I think would be great to share... I've been dealing with a flaky girl I'm gaming.. So here's the following conversation...
Me: Hey Trouble, What's the weather report saying? The sun coming out this week being good to hang out or cloudy with the strong possibility of rain check? (then added sentence about details of why we were getting together)
Her: Lol! I love love love how you put this... You probably hate hate hate me for the rain check :/ I sincerely apologize, we got back from our day trip (and then more excuses here..)
Me: Wow, talk about Trouble. Time to start tallying up all this bad girl behavior. Tempted to play the bored GF in the relationship leaving her boring BF. BUT I'll give you a chance to redeem yourself. Truth or dare?
Her: Lol!!!! Truth
Me: ...Truth: I'm assuming you've played this game before... Fack, Marry, Kill... So name 3 guys of the last 10 guys you've texted and tell me why.
Her: So it'd be-- (Insert names, sadly none of them were me.. which I'm sure I'll be able to shock and awe her next time I see her)
(FYI--my dare was going to be.. Text me a picture that you would never share on FB or Instagram)
... So what I wanted to share here is that I turned a flaky situation into a game in which she was really responsive to. It might have been posted on this thread earlier BUT!!! I realized texting games can be really exciting for the girl to play. What I found interesting is that I ended up texting less and she texted more.. So for the hour or so that we were texting--SHE was more invested in the conversation that I was. Hopefully this will help you guys where I've been stuck all week.
On a side note she's still flaky. Hahaha. I know that I failed in suggesting a day but I knew already this week was out of the question--I was really looking for a way to get her to think about me while sticking to a nickname I'm trying to build into her head--which I'm sure will help me k & f close.
hopefully this will help you guys getting that girl to respond more and investing in your text game.