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Thread: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    Absolutely! Until you get sick of their shit! I've had to give em the boot before


    If the girl gets in your world (Comes around you), or at least acknowledges YOU or shows you interest, THEN acknowledge her feelings. You want her fighting for your acknowledgment, not vice versa..I hope that makes sense.

    After all she's conditioned for guys to chase the pussy.

    They determine if they will fuck you based on how well you 'relate' with each other.if you want her to relate with you, you have to create emotional involvement. Of course, for you its just getting more information, but for her its really that 'inter-connection' and how well you make her feel.

    Point out how 'good' she makes you feel when you are talking to her. Not directly but you get the idea.

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    when she asks or insulates you to call her... don't text, call. when you're on the phone, pretend shes standing in front of you--maybe even pretend you're already her boyfriend... think about how easy it is already. she just wants to kill some time. don't over think things. be calm. if anything, slow down your pace of wording, tone down your voice--women find this to be sexier in a man because it doesn't sound feminine or high pitched. if you think about it--the ear is very sensitive too so you're practically flirting with her already. if you call her, you already have her attention unless she's driving or doing something. if thats the case just tell her to call you back when shes not wasting your time or be nice about it. lol.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    if you want her to relate with you, you have to create emotional involvement.
    that's a cool response, but how do you create emotional involvement though?

    I really like this girl now and we've texting since more than 3 months (not continuously), so that's why I'm trying to be careful with my steps now and ask questions, so I don't ruin anything

    me: bla bla bla
    her: maybe you need to call me sometime becuase I never understand what you're saying to me lol
    me: I can call you it doesn't matter, but people here speak super fast on the phone so I don't understand what they say lol
    her: ok

    I feel she was disappointed by my response, so I'm thiking to send her: " this time I'll make an exception for you and call you can you talk now?"


    for my case, is that a good response?

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    Don't make a big deal about texting / responding.
    Use common sense.

    It's TOTALLY OK to reply immediately when a girl texts you. Just don't ALWAYS do that.

    Mix it up.

    Also- there's nothing wrong with actually TALKING on the phone either. You should be doing that as well as texting.
    Some girls aren't much for texting, but LOVE to talk. Others may not be much for talking, but are avid texters.
    It depends on the girl.

    A really simple rule to remember is: Reply when it's convenient.
    Meaning; you don't have to drop what you're doing to answer a text if it's not a good time. (like when you're driving, or in the middle of something at work or school, etc..)

    Always try to be clear when you text. It's OK if a girl misses a joke from time to time, but if she constantly seems lost or confused by your texts, then you need to fix that. THAT much is totally on you.

    Learn to communicate clearly & effectively.

    Being funny / witty / bold works well for me personally. But I'm also careful to make sure that what I say is understood in the context I intended it to be.

    Another thing to keep in mind is, the more you do something, the better you become at it.
    So, the more you reply / interact with women, the easier it will be to keep the energy & interest going.

    One of the things I teach my clients/ students is to quit waiting to reply, just for the sake of waiting.
    Some guys think you have to wait to respond... but you don't.

    Making a girl constantly wait for a reply will cause her to lose interest.

    As far as what to talk about when you call? ANYTHING.
    In the stage of attraction, it doesn't matter what you say. It's how you say it & how you present yourself.

    Just have fun!

    I always talk about stupid, meaningless stuff from my day... like little crazy events that happened to me.

    Like, "I went to lunch today & ordered a club sandwich with fries & a Coke. The waitress brought it to me & I was all excited to tear into it, which wasn't a good move because... I knocked my glass over & made a HUGE mess on the table & floor. Talk about making a spectacle of myself! That's right! I'm a klutz, baaay-beeee!!!"

    Or

    "OMG! I was sitting in my car at a stoplight today... the song "Let It GO" from Frozen came on. So, here I am wailing away at the top of my lungs... and a lady in a minivan pulls up next to me with 3 kids in the back. Then I hear one of them yell with excitement "Mommy! He's singing Let it Go!"... That's when I realized my windows were down. Oh well, at least I made a car full of strangers smile today. Hahaha!"


    She'll be laughing... you'll be laughing... and THAT equals FUN.
    Laughter is an amazing tool for making people feel relaxed & lowering defenses.


    The thing is, girls LOVE to talk about little stupid things like that. And when you can share parts of your own life & experiences, you're gonna hook her.


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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    Thanks, T-Mal. It's just because it has occured so many times the last weeks that I was afraid to fall into her loop so she gets thinking again that I would "jump when she says". Also I am endangered of falling back in texting to much again, so I needed a second/an expert sight on this. Now everything's clear:
    Don't make a big deal out of it, meaning don't wait on purpose and never stop my life just because of a text.
    Thanks again.

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    @Tow it sounds like you just need to calm your self down a bit and listen to yourself. when you know you're over thinking things and you're next to her or texting her TAKE A DEEP BREATH maybe even close your eyes as you do this--reset yourself physically and emotionally to be there with her so you can enjoy it. if she ever points it out that its weird simply say the honest thing "Yeah, it's a breathing exercise. It helps me focused and present when I'm over thinking things."

    you have to treat yourself as the most important thing you've got to maintain in order to share your moments with a woman. if you can't you're not really being honest with yourself in my opinion. i think when it comes to a straight forward question about you having to qualify yourself to her you should be honest about whats going with you especially if you're attracted to her unless you're doing some weird indirect mindgame thing.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    Thanks artandale. You are right, that I tend to overthink. It gets better, though. And it's not just with this girl/girls, I tend to overthink everything. But how I said, I am working on it and a female friend is helping me with this overthinking problem, so I think with that and you guys on here I am helped perfectly on this journey to conquer it^^

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    Hey T-MAL, great work man! You know your shit!
    Also wondering if you have the apple version of the APP?

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    Unfortunately, creating the iPhone version requires a lot more hoops to jump through.

    So, it's still currently only available on Android devices.

    I'll definitely update if I'm able to get it rockin the iPhone though.


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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    Really Awesome!! Has it really helped me with online conversations!!


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