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Thread: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    Hey, T-Mal. Where can I download the android-version? Have I missed out the name/link on your opening-thread.

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    Shoot me a PM & I'll give you the download link.


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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    Done.

    So now I do the convenient responding, but what do I do if she strikes up conversations which we are said would be boring? Like about her car, school etc. Do I follow them or just change topic? Also is woman's game based on comfort building? I've never got so much personal questions like my scores, my decision concerning my major etc. from her. Sometimes during going out time on the weekends
    And yes I know texting is for meeting up. SHE starts or initiates these topics.
    And yes, the moment we both have a day off from exams I will go for the meet up. But if I am learning something want to understand and not just follow advices.
    If I am overthinking again and should just follow the conversations and end on a high note or set up the meeting, give it me straight

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    If a girl brings up the topic of work or school, answer her question & then switch gears yourself right afterwards.

    Texting isn't JUST for meeting up... it can be used as an effective tool for flirting & building attraction / escalating. It's another form of communication.

    You have to be precise with your words though, because you can't rely on body language or vocal tonalities to be incorporated.

    I have a thread of "magic texts" here on the forums, that is a list of messages I personally used to be fun, flirty & to get girls to respond... as well as a way to change the direction of an interaction if it started getting too "fluffy".

    You DO want to get to know more personal details about a girl... but you can easily achieve that by sharing little bits about yourself first.

    Example:

    "I don't know how it is for you, but for me, whenever I see a mama duck leading her baby chicks across a street, it always makes me smile..."

    or

    "Whenever I see a little kid playing hide & seek, it reminds me of when I was younger & would find the BEST hiding spots... at least I thought they were great, until someone found me. Then I would try make it tougher for them the next time."

    Those types of comments / conversations can build DEEP rapport, which is good, but only after you've built attraction.

    The magic of comments like those is, when a girl sees YOU opening up & allowing yourself to be vulnerable like that, it puts her at ease & she will drop her own defense shields & be open with you too... it builds a great emotional connection with them.



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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    Then there seems to be a different opionion in the pua community

    Your magic texts...are they building attraction?
    If not what would attraction building texts be?

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    Curiosity = attraction.
    My magic texts stand out from what most guys would send a girl... which makes her more curious about me... which equals attraction.

    And yes, I disagree with some of my friends here who say texting should only be used to set a meet up.
    It's a personal choice, and there's no right or wrong answer... but I figured it's better to use EVERY available tool in your communication arsenal.


    I text girls the same way I talk to them in person.
    I tease/banter with them... I joke with them & pick on them... I razz them & give them a hard time...

    So whether I'm WITH them or texting them, I'm able to make them react & respond.


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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    Thanks. Yeah that curiosity thing. Tell her you will tell her in a couple hours if she behaves and she will go nuts
    What advice can you give concerning texting if she is totally cool meeting me and another colleague (doesn't even matter who's this exactly) but doesn't seem eager one on one?
    Our texting is always funny, she always responds even when out with friends or family. And I don't miss an opportunity to tease, which always got her to qualify. Not different in person I guess. What be your first guess the problem could be?

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    You're better off getting her out one on one, but don't sweat it if she's more comfortable in a "group" setting at first.

    You can use that chance to express lots of social grace & proof. Some girls just need a little more comfort than others at first.

    You need to be prepared for any situation, so whatever comes up you have experience with it.



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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    T-male i've pmed you for a download link thank you
    PS:this is a new account i forgot my first :/

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    quick question that requires a quick tip.

    so a lot of times girls, they send me a picture of themselves dressed up, and they ask for your opinion? ofcourse, the expected response is "you look beautiful", and I'm sure the majority of guys say that. I want to be different, yet keep the fun vibe..so how will you respond to this?


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