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    I'm sure you all can guess what message i started off with

    HAHA hands down, best message ever. thank you for the very long dazzling message it was funny to read!
    as for our road trip we may want to hold off, at least until you've realized im not a basket case/man

    Now i'm assuming this is just a sh1t test so I'm thinking of going with something like this

    What can I say, I'm a charmer :P
    I agree but you forgot the biggest deal breaker of them all...boring me to sleep!...so tell me a crazy adventure you've had!

    p.s. this is a solid HB9...usually the highest i get is HB 8 or 7, as this is several points up from my own level of attractiveness I'm generally happy but its time to make the step up and take the game to the next level.

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    Now i think i may add something like this to the end,
    One of my own involves Vietnam, a bus, live chickens, and a less than ideal border crossing.

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    Default Re: POF help

    I 'm not sure about that follow up message.

    I'd keep the idea of the "crazy adventure" & drop the rest.... but also re-word the way you bring the adventure subject up.

    Try something such as: "Thanks! However; I'm still slightly hesitant at the moment... why don't you describe a crazy adventure you've experienced, and tell me how it made you feel. Then I'll be able to form a more accurate opinion on whether or not "basket case" is fitting. (or possibly an understatement??)
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    I like it except the how it made you feel part. Generally I try to stay away from emotional side of things on a second message.

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    Also I'm not sure about your first part as it is HER pointing out that we don't know eachother as of yet. So saying i'm still slightly hesitant kind of comes out of left field...What about something along the lines of Thanks however; now i'm slightly hesitant.why don't you describe a crazy adventure you've experienced, and tell me how it made you feel. Then I'll be able to form a more accurate opinion on whether or not "basket case" is fitting. (or possibly an understatement??)


    p.s. i like your grounding there very well done :d

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    That's the thing to keep in mind...
    Girls make decisions based on their emotional brain... not logical.

    What seems weird & kinda cheesy/awkward to us guys, is what women swoon over. That the sh1t that "sweeps them off their feet & gives them "butterflies". (another emotional description for the "feeling" in their stomach.)

    You have to remember that you're not writing messages to impress other dudes & look cool. You're trying to make this chick melt!

    That does require you to tap into rarely used portions of your brain/creativity.

    Ask yourself: would I rather write something my friends think is badass? Or would I rather sweet talk this girl out of her clothes?


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    I usually avoid it cause the girls are 20, but i will give your message a shot. I'll keep you updated. Last time i went with the I'm a charmer line and it worked well for me. # closed
    It works with my sarcastic/and a wee bit cocky personality. But as they say if your not willing to try new things you'll always be stuck in the same place

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    Hey, if it's working for you, then keep the momentum going!


    When I find a new technique or phrase that starts getting results, I keep using it.

    The most difficult thing to know at first is, what is THIS girl going to respond to.
    They're all different. So what works with one girl, may not work with another. But that's what keeps this "game" interesting I guess.

    There's always a new challenge to take on...


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    Agreed, I went with yours though, in it's entirety i'm curious to see if I get a somewhat emotion filled response. Mine is geared toward straight laughter, which is why I've been able to attract 8's fairly consistently. I have always struggled number closing with 9's and 10's when using the same approach, so perhaps the new approach will let me break through that little barrier. Its all about learning, you can never be satisfied.

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    Default Re: POF help

    Quote Originally Posted by brewface View Post
    Agreed, I went with yours though, in it's entirety i'm curious to see if I get a somewhat emotion filled response. Mine is geared toward straight laughter, which is why I've been able to attract 8's fairly consistently. I have always struggled number closing with 9's and 10's when using the same approach, so perhaps the new approach will let me break through that little barrier. Its all about learning, you can never be satisfied.
    Definitely all about learning & always looking to improve.


    I'v been geting good at snagging numbers from 9's & 10's recently, & even getting things going well over text & even an actual phone call.

    BUT... I'm experiencing a weird phase where they suddenly go dark for no apparent reason. (the most recent possible discovery I've made COULD BE that, I don't want more children.
    (Actually, I can't have any more because I had a vasectomy 8 yrs ago). And after looking back, several of these mega-hott girls DO want children....

    THEN, I also have to consider that I might be saying something to make them think "Ooooops, no thanks!" & I'm just not realizing it.

    Oh well... it's all a learning experience.


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