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    Default opening a lil direction please

    hey guys so im new to online dating and joined up with plenty of fish, not getting many replies but i was just putting hi and being boring, after checkin on here i decided to beef my opener up a lil bit haha.. heres what a womens put on her about me: and although i doubt iv got a chance because i dont own a car and am under 25 i thought itd be good practice anyway ..

    is a 25 year old woman - Right!... Where's my man?After not having nothing on here for a while, I have realised I am just leaving my inbox open to all sorts!

    So, please don't send me a message...

    If you consider yourself to be weird in any sort of way

    If you have a girlfriend or a wife

    If you don't have a job

    Don't have a car

    Is under 25

    If you smoke weed or you are an alcoholic

    If you have a dungeon or you are a swinger!

    Or if you think I am out of your league (If your thinking it, I probably am!)

    And finally if you don't like what I have written! It may sound like I'm being abit stuck up but I can't help what I am attracted to, there's no point in wasting your time or mine.


    so anyway .. heres my message to her, im not too bothered about this because i dont expect anything to happen but like i said bit of practice and fun


    So im reading your profile .. and it hit me BAM ! .. Sounds like shes looking for me ..
    abit about myself, i have a wife, love to get high and go to aa meetings, get the bus alot because im constantly at the jobcenter and i LOVE to swing ... BUT !.. I definitely DONT own a dungeon
    well .. alright you got me, i own a dungeon
    im jack by the way :P


    anything i maybe couldve improved that with .. like i said ima try loads but itd be good to know if i was too full on or whatever , thanks guys

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    Default Re: opening a lil direction please

    Quote Originally Posted by 23begin View Post
    hey guys so im new to online dating and joined up with plenty of fish, not getting many replies but i was just putting hi and being boring, after checkin on here i decided to beef my opener up a lil bit haha.. heres what a womens put on her about me: and although i doubt iv got a chance because i dont own a car and am under 25 i thought itd be good practice anyway ..

    is a 25 year old woman - Right!... Where's my man?After not having nothing on here for a while, I have realised I am just leaving my inbox open to all sorts!

    So, please don't send me a message...

    If you consider yourself to be weird in any sort of way

    If you have a girlfriend or a wife

    If you don't have a job

    Don't have a car

    Is under 25

    If you smoke weed or you are an alcoholic

    If you have a dungeon or you are a swinger!

    Or if you think I am out of your league (If your thinking it, I probably am!)

    And finally if you don't like what I have written! It may sound like I'm being abit stuck up but I can't help what I am attracted to, there's no point in wasting your time or mine.


    so anyway .. heres my message to her, im not too bothered about this because i dont expect anything to happen but like i said bit of practice and fun


    So im reading your profile .. and it hit me BAM ! .. Sounds like shes looking for me ..
    abit about myself, i have a wife, love to get high and go to aa meetings, get the bus alot because im constantly at the jobcenter and i LOVE to swing ... BUT !.. I definitely DONT own a dungeon
    well .. alright you got me, i own a dungeon
    im jack by the way :P


    anything i maybe couldve improved that with .. like i said ima try loads but itd be good to know if i was too full on or whatever , thanks guys
    Your basic idea is actually pretty good!
    Just keep in mind that this is a coin toss type of message. It's definitely more effective than saying "Hi how are you?"
    OR "I think we have some things in common, check out my profile if you want"... etc.

    SOME women WILL respond positively to this, because it can be kinda like a Sh1t Test of sorts.... Others may respond because they thing it's a funny message, if they have a sarcastic sense of humor.
    & some will just ignore it completely.

    I DO recommend you keep messaging all kinds of women & lots of them. Because after a while you don't even care if they message back or not.....

    You'll either have a bunch of girls you're chatting with already, or you just become immune to fact that they didn't reply back. When you realize that it didn't "hurt" when they never responded, there's no fear anymore.

    Also- with some women, you have to dial back sarcasm & cocky a bit, and go for more of a "conversational" approach... while making it interesting.

    "Hey, I read your profile & HAD TO say it was the most original & refreshing one I've seen so far. You expressed yourself so clearly that I was able to get that mental picture in my head. Thanks for making me smile!"

    I've had good success with messages along those lines.... depending on the girl. (Like if she sounds well grounded & mature)

    For the younger, hipster, tattooed girls, you can be more playful & tell them they look like they're up to something.... or like they get into mischief.... and are probably a sassy, smarty-pants kind of girl...

    But after you've messaged a bunch of them it becomes a lot easier to tell what sort of approach to use.

    Overall I gotta give you props though!
    I think you're on the right track, so just remember what works & what doesn't.

    The you can personalize you messages even more & start creating your own style.


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    Default Re: opening a lil direction please

    apprichiate the help tmalonetn i actually read your post on how you shouldnt say lame things like how beutiful they are blah blah, its total AFC and i dont know why i started doing it, its just like real life.. anyway she ( bit of an update ) replied ! ..

    this girls a solid 9 btw, beautiful .. anyway she replied with

    "U missed one! Ur under 25 haha x"

    now what wouldve been a great follow up to that? , should i have ignored that ? ( probably ) and changed subject seeing as i had conversation ... or something else ?

    what i did was .. well .. i put this :/

    "Alright then .. Well if your still 'fishing' in a year and a half .. Get back to me x"

    .. i dont know if thats a terrible reply or a good one, on one hand im acknowledging the fact im under her prefered dating age , on the other im acting as if it doesnt phase me ..

    what would you guys have put or even better whats the aim here on a situation like this ? .. so i can apply it in the future to these sort of sh1t tests ?

    thanks in advance guys your all awesome

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    Default Re: opening a lil direction please

    You could've said, Good eye! I was trying to test your skills of paying attention & you totally passed with flying colors. Impressive! ;-)

    Just something to look like you expected & were prepared for her to throw something challenging out there.



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