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    Default Re: Stuck on what to say!! Help needed asap!

    I can tell your style is Direct Game MobileAe. That's great and I see where you're coming from. You're right, its important to get them comfortable with the idea of sex with you. The tricky part is getting them comfortable. Assuming that Jayz10 hasn't had much Kino with her from the way she responded this would be jumping the gun and becomes one of those high risk/high reward situations. Its more ideal for him to say this line about the making out in the theater after he has reach a casual sexual relationship with her. In the meantime he doesn't have to hide what he wants. Just respect the idea that it's a process. Most women have the option already to make out with a guy in the theater so why him? That's where he has to separate himself from the pack. If she didn't take the bait (which seems like she might have not) then he has to retrace his steps and approach it differently.

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    Default Re: Stuck on what to say!! Help needed asap!

    hanks guys for both great indirect and direct responses. i had to answer her earlier then you guys anwered me to set up the time for tonight.. so this is a follow up of the convo:



    Me: im not saying you would ! its just a warning, i have been found to be irresistible haha...like those smoothiess. which you have to try cause theyre soo good!



    HB: mm you are just plain cocky. ya know, we dont have to go out if its too much of a burden for mr "irresistible".. .



    Me:its not a burden. on the contrary, it would be a good time. my friends who have seen batman said it was pretty good and the acting by christian bale was superb.



    HB:thats also what ive heard. and i have been meaning to see it. not to mention, i happen to find christian bale specially irresistible...so there.



    Me: have you seen the fighter? its ridiculous how much weight he had to lose for that movie..."



    HB: yes crack addict look not really my thing. that movie was okay..."



    Me:lol yea.im glad it isnt.. so movie starts at 7 30.. ill be there at around 7..."



    HB: youre glad crack addict isnt really my thing? how do you know you dont look like one? and ok, would you like me to also be there by 7?"

    me: haa. well, we'll just find that out soon enough wont we?...sureee. i mean, only if you want to buy the tickets with me and sit next to me, otherwise...its completely up to you! :P


    HB: freak. ill see you there.


    Me: <3





    i need constructive critisism from you guys. i know i went too cocky at first...and i think virgils response would have been the ideal one here. and i agree with batman as well

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    Default Re: Stuck on what to say!! Help needed asap!

    She responded positively for the most part so that's all that matters. You took the high risk and so far seems you have been rewarded so kudos. I think she has had enough filling of the cockiness for the day though Good job my friend. I'm sure she will show up so let us know how the movies go. (Great movie btw. At the end of it......everyone DIES! Lol)

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    Default Re: Stuck on what to say!! Help needed asap!

    Not too shabby there my friend!!
    You recovered really well when she tested you on the cocky thing! You basically brushed her comment aside & transitioned to discussing the movie. NICE!

    Her message "Freak I'll see you there" was a good indicator that she was having fun with the conversation... You can tell because of her previous message about the "crack addict" comment & "winky face".

    I WOULD recommend dialing the cockiness back just a touch now, & start being more "playful" & flirty. Try to keep a good balance... Once you get her hooked & she IS interested, you don't need to rely on the cocky stuff.

    But I'd say overall that was a job well done! (Again- the transition you made, after she challenged you on the cocky attitude was superb!!!)


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    Default Re: Stuck on what to say!! Help needed asap!

    nooooo...i hope you didnt just spoil the ending!...so i still have this Mindset of an 8th grader where if you go to the movies with the girl and dont make out with her... its seen as a failure. i need to be brainwashed in this particular part of the game... 2 questions:

    1ways to be flirtatious during a movie?(what happens with that arm rest?)



    2. biggest indicator if shes interested in the movie shes watching or kissing your soft lips.




    P.S. i want to nail this HB, not wife her up.( idk if that info is relevant lol)

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    Default Re: Stuck on what to say!! Help needed asap!

    The movies are a tough date to pull off beings that there is a distraction......the movie! And you picked a good movie so both of you will want to watch it.

    What do you do with the armrest? Fight her for it. Push her away with your elbow.

    Make fun of the previews and blurt out a "Woohoo" to your favorite one.

    Ever been to a movie and as soon as a preview ends and gets quiet, someone blurts out "AWESOME!" or "Boooo that sucks!" Guess what.....that someone is YOU.

    During the movie...

    Boldy grab her hand then hold it. Massage or rub it (That's what she said) then let go and check your phone. After you check your phone do NOT grab her hand again and just put it on the armrest for a few. Rinse and repeat.

    Then move to her knee. Place it there and rub it a bit. Then remove your hand and don't do it again for a few minutes. Same with the thigh.

    Throughout the movie make sure to look at her and catch her eyes, then smile then turn back to the movie before she does. By the middle of the movie you should be farking her with your eye contact, but always be the first to break it and re-intitiate on your terms. This is teach her to follow your lead and build Tension so when you go for the kiss it will be much easier.

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    Default Re: Stuck on what to say!! Help needed asap!

    golden. ill be doing work tonight.

    (oh btw at this particular theathre we're going to, the armrests are removable)

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    Default Re: Stuck on what to say!! Help needed asap!

    update, field report.- we met up half an hour before movies grabbed a quick dinner, chatted, build up some Kino and threw in some dhv. by the time we got to the movies i used batmans strategy through out the movie.(which works like a charm) her body temp raised. we kissed a little but i made myself look a bit more interested in the movie. after movies i took her to her car, hooked up for a good 15 min. she asked me to go over her place for a drink. i had to say no for other reasons. i left her wanting more... all in all it went pretty swell. kiss closed on first date.(could have been more) think shes going to invite me over today.


    should i text her today?or wait for her to text me...

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    Default Re: Stuck on what to say!! Help needed asap!

    Right on!!
    It sounds like you were calm & relaxed, so everything flowed as a natural progression.

    Leaving her wanting more is great for getting HER to pursue YOU. Not only that, it makes her invest more, creating value for you in her subconscious mind.

    Meaning- that will increase the attraction, and make it easier to escalate as you move forward.

    You played it just the way you needed to!


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    Default Re: Stuck on what to say!! Help needed asap!

    Quote Originally Posted by BatMan View Post
    I can tell your style is Direct Game MobileAe. That's great and I see where you're coming from. You're right, its important to get them comfortable with the idea of sex with you. The tricky part is getting them comfortable. Assuming that Jayz10 hasn't had much Kino with her from the way she responded this would be jumping the gun and becomes one of those high risk/high reward situations. Its more ideal for him to say this line about the making out in the theater after he has reach a casual sexual relationship with her. In the meantime he doesn't have to hide what he wants. Just respect the idea that it's a process. Most women have the option already to make out with a guy in the theater so why him? That's where he has to separate himself from the pack. If she didn't take the bait (which seems like she might have not) then he has to retrace his steps and approach it differently.
    All of my text replies are based on the fact that he has had no keno and no physical contact with her. I use those types of lines with girls I pull online WAY before I even meet them. I use the text to escalate and build attraction or sexual lust before we even meet. They are not very high risk, because they are not offensive and will not turn the girl off, if she takes offense, because they are soo soft u can easily recover with a soft/friendly followup.
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