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    Question Girl ignored my text

    Hi everyone:

    I was at a restaurant and this decent looking girl dropped me a coupon with her number on the back. So I gave it 2 days and texted her on the 3rd. This conversation ensued:

    Me: Chick? Any guesses who I am

    Chick: Uhmmmm its chick but no who's this

    Me: You dropped me a coupon at JJs mmmm Im name btw

    Chick: Ahaha oh you found that eh nice to meet you kinda aha

    Me: Do I get to properly meet you then?

    Chick: Surree I guess we could do that

    Me: How does grabbing a coffee sound? Im free this saturday or sunday after 3pm

    Chick: Perfect that's when I get off work ahah never given my number like that before I felt pretty badass

    Me: I bet you're lying, looked like you were a regular at doing it haha

    Chick: No I swear I thought u saw it and just didn't wana text me I was sad not guna lie!

    Me: You're lucky I turned the coupon over! Do you live in Xtown?

    Chick: Lucky me! And yes how about you?

    Me: Geee I live in Btown, we'll have to figure something out!

    Chick: Oh nooo! Why venture to JJs in Xtown?

    Me: I was hanging with friends, I used to live close!

    Chick: That's sweeeet I've lived in Xtown my whole life

    After this I didn't say anything until the following day when I asked

    Me: Hey I was thinking sunday we could meet up in Btown at 4ish?

    Btown is halfway between us both. She hasn't responded, I sent her the text last night. After some internet creeping I've discovered that she seems to be a fairly popular babe as far as social networking goes, I don't know if that means anything. Where to go from here?

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    Default Re: Girl ignored my text

    Quote Originally Posted by landlboy View Post
    Hi everyone:

    I was at a restaurant and this decent looking girl dropped me a coupon with her number on the back. So I gave it 2 days and texted her on the 3rd. This conversation ensued:

    Me: Chick? Any guesses who I am

    Chick: Uhmmmm its chick but no who's this

    Me: You dropped me a coupon at JJs mmmm Im name btw

    Chick: Ahaha oh you found that eh nice to meet you kinda aha

    Me: Do I get to properly meet you then?

    Chick: Surree I guess we could do that

    Me: How does grabbing a coffee sound? Im free this saturday or sunday after 3pm

    Chick: Perfect that's when I get off work ahah never given my number like that before I felt pretty badass

    Me: I bet you're lying, looked like you were a regular at doing it haha

    Chick: No I swear I thought u saw it and just didn't wana text me I was sad not guna lie!

    Me: You're lucky I turned the coupon over! Do you live in Xtown?

    Chick: Lucky me! And yes how about you?

    Me: Geee I live in Btown, we'll have to figure something out!

    Chick: Oh nooo! Why venture to JJs in Xtown?

    Me: I was hanging with friends, I used to live close!

    Chick: That's sweeeet I've lived in Xtown my whole life

    After this I didn't say anything until the following day when I asked

    Me: Hey I was thinking sunday we could meet up in Btown at 4ish?

    Btown is halfway between us both. She hasn't responded, I sent her the text last night. After some internet creeping I've discovered that she seems to be a fairly popular babe as far as social networking goes, I don't know if that means anything. Where to go from here?
    You have (or had) some interest from her in the beginning for sure.
    I think you were being too casual & keeping the chat in "Fluff mode" with too much small talk.
    Also you weren't coming across with any confidence, but rather, a little timid & unsure of yourself.

    Fortunately though, it doesn't look like anything went horribly wrong and you can most likely recover just fine.

    What you need to do is re-initiate contact, but you're gonna need to kick it up a few notches & make your text FUN!!

    An example of what I might use would be: "Hey little coupon Queen, I'm having caffeine withdrawals. Let's do that coffee thing ASAP! "

    THIS would be much more interesting & entertaining for her,that "Hey, do you think you might wanaa get coffee soon? that is if you're not too busy.. just let me know how that sounds."

    OR you could try something like, "So sleepy...must... have... coffee... soon!! "

    Whatever you send, just make sure it's not the usual lame texts that every other guy would send her.



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    Default Re: Girl ignored my text

    Holy f*** she texted right back...

    Me: Yo coupon queen, im having caffeine withdrawals take me up on the offer

    Her: Well I'm shopping right now with my mom and I can't drive what shall I do! And ironic name I'm Jewish ahaha


    I don't get why she thinks I mean now when the previous text I said sunday.. What to say next poster ^

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    Default Re: Girl ignored my text

    You're doing fine. Your material is actually good. I'd say something like "I mean on Sunday loser!" and track on something funny with it. Her irony joke was kind of poorly placed to relieve what she seemed to interpret as a possibly awkard situation. Dont forget shes the one pursuing you.

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    Default Re: Girl ignored my text

    Quote Originally Posted by landlboy View Post
    Holy f*** she texted right back...

    Me: Yo coupon queen, im having caffeine withdrawals take me up on the offer

    Her: Well I'm shopping right now with my mom and I can't drive what shall I do! And ironic name I'm Jewish ahaha


    I don't get why she thinks I mean now when the previous text I said sunday.. What to say next poster ^
    I'd stick with a little humor about her shopping / driving, then let her know you're still thinking Sunday.

    Something like "Hmm girls shopping? I don't believe that! LOL! BTW, I meant coffee Sunday. "


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    Default Re: Girl ignored my text

    Quote Originally Posted by landlboy View Post
    Holy f*** she texted right back...

    Me: Yo coupon queen, im having caffeine withdrawals take me up on the offer

    Her: Well I'm shopping right now with my mom and I can't drive what shall I do! And ironic name I'm Jewish ahaha


    I don't get why she thinks I mean now when the previous text I said sunday.. What to say next poster ^
    It doesn't really matter that she thinks to meet you today... If shes assuming now, you can easily blow her off while resetting the date and be a little playful

    "Slow down girl! Today is my "busy" day, your going to have to wait until Sunday."

    Because most of your first text's were pretty boring chit chat, I would use this time to escalate. Shes occupied shopping with her mom, so shes bored and wants to get out but cant. So you could start setting up some situations for her to dream about and build some attraction.

    "Too bad~ I just bought this BUCKET of ice cream that I have to eat TODAY! My mom always told me that ice cream expires within 24 hours so you have to act fast. Whats your favorite flavor?

    Thats just the transition, the next few messages I would maybe ramp it up and see if I could go sexual some how...

    She responds .. doesnt matter what she says "blah blah love chocolate" "blah blah im alergic" "blah blah OMG i want some right now"

    You "Ohh last time I "used" ice cream and it made a huge mess and I had to shower it all off~! 0_o anyways... so what are you shopping for? "

    Good chance she will dig in there and ask you about it, and now its her initialting some sexual related topic and not you initialting with her... thus making it easier to talk about it.
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