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    Default Are you able to crack this

    Guys, firstly wicked idea with the forums site. Its actually becoming addictive and I think I'm treating this site like a bible. Anyway!

    This girl I'm speaking to online is an 8-9, and have been for about 5 days. I'm having trouble with her opening up. It's actually making me kinda sound like a n**b. anyway I've thrown a couple negs in there but she isn't budging and I want to get the convo more exciting before we actually start to meet up. I'm still new to the ideas with negging and how to demonstration higher value and she is just smashing me here. Give me some pointers, examples.

    B.T.W I can't go back to far so this is 3 days worth

    Me
    7/24/2012 5:36:42 PM
    This site must suck for you. Why are you still here? I make my own luck

    online chick
    7/24/2012 7:19:26 PM
    Haha I ask myself the same thing

    Me
    7/24/2012 7:30:32 PM
    Well you see I'm having more luck here because I started speaking to you not the other way around

    2 days of silence


    Me
    7/26/2012 1:16:33 AM
    Forgot to pay your internet bill?

    online chick
    7/26/2012 4:12:02 AM
    Haha no chance.....

    Me
    7/26/2012 5:00:43 AM
    What's your name, by the way?

    online chick
    7/26/2012 5:29:15 AM
    Hehe I'm Cass....

    Me
    7/26/2012 5:34:02 AM
    Nice to meet you Cass, is that my cue to introduce myself? I'm Toby. Has it always felt awkward greeting people online, it has for me!

    online chick
    7/26/2012 1:27:44 PM
    Mmmmm yeah cause u say nice to meet u when u haven't meet me

    Me
    7/26/2012 4:37:44 PM
    Well, where are you living at the moment?

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    Default Re: Are you able to crack this

    I'd say you did a good job getting her to respond. That can be the toughest part of all.

    But now that you have her attention & she's receptive, you need to start making the convo more fun & engaging.
    The small talk is just about to play itself out, so you'll want to shift away from that & start getting her to open up & talk about herself.

    Don't just ask her questions though... make some "guesses" about her. Like: "You know, you seem like the kind of person who is a little shy at first, and maybe some people mistake you as being stuck up... but I don't think that's the case. I bet once you get to know them a little better, and they get to know you, they discover you're actually really cool & one of the most loyal friends they'll ever have. That's my first impression anyway. "
    Those kind of "cold reads" are like a double-frame that portray her as being a certain kind of person. In this case you've given her 2 options: One as being stuck up; and two- as being just a little shy, which you assumed to be the case.

    Either way she's going to answer back & of course pick the more positive option.



    Then you can pay attention to other things she brings up & ask her about them, as well as how they make her feel.... etc.



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    Default Re: Are you able to crack this

    online chick
    7/26/2012 1:27:44 PM
    Mmmmm yeah cause u say nice to meet u when u haven't meet me

    I like this chick, she is intellegent and logical. your going to have to change your game abit buddy.

    Try talk about her(to her) rather than just too her, find out some more information through conversation then there is only one way from there buddy.........SEDUCE !!!! ( if she hot she will get flirters all the time, try go abit deeper into her first) usually you flirt to get rapport, mabie try it the other way around.

    And tmalonetn said, Very valid points

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    Default Re: Are you able to crack this

    Quote Originally Posted by Tobz45 View Post
    Guys, firstly wicked idea with the forums site. Its actually becoming addictive and I think I'm treating this site like a bible. Anyway!

    This girl I'm speaking to online is an 8-9, and have been for about 5 days. I'm having trouble with her opening up. It's actually making me kinda sound like a n**b. anyway I've thrown a couple negs in there but she isn't budging and I want to get the convo more exciting before we actually start to meet up. I'm still new to the ideas with negging and how to demonstration higher value and she is just smashing me here. Give me some pointers, examples.

    B.T.W I can't go back to far so this is 3 days worth

    Me
    7/24/2012 5:36:42 PM
    This site must suck for you. Why are you still here? I make my own luck

    online chick
    7/24/2012 7:19:26 PM
    Haha I ask myself the same thing

    Me
    7/24/2012 7:30:32 PM
    Well you see I'm having more luck here because I started speaking to you not the other way around

    2 days of silence


    Me
    7/26/2012 1:16:33 AM
    Forgot to pay your internet bill?

    online chick
    7/26/2012 4:12:02 AM
    Haha no chance.....

    Me
    7/26/2012 5:00:43 AM
    What's your name, by the way?

    online chick
    7/26/2012 5:29:15 AM
    Hehe I'm Cass....

    Me
    7/26/2012 5:34:02 AM
    Nice to meet you Cass, is that my cue to introduce myself? I'm Toby. Has it always felt awkward greeting people online, it has for me!

    online chick
    7/26/2012 1:27:44 PM
    Mmmmm yeah cause u say nice to meet u when u haven't meet me

    Me
    7/26/2012 4:37:44 PM
    Well, where are you living at the moment?


    First dlv "[YOU] Well you see I'm having more luck here because I started speaking to you not the other way around" doesnt say or ask anything from her. Its just a statement and your saying your lucky she talking to you.

    When she said "[SHE] Haha I ask myself the same thing" it would be great place to DHL and neg her a bit. "You got the smile going on, but those pants/top/hair might need a little improvement" or "HAH! your feeling down cause all these other guys bore you to death. I think your luck has just changed now that you met me...blah blah blah.."


    My preference would be when "[SHE]Haha no chance....." i would say something like... Ohhh you stealing the neighbors... Great, now I have some dirt on you to blackmail you with :P "


    As for the names, I rarely ask for them.. I make the girls text me first, and 75% of the time they ask me what my name is in the first text they send to me. I never waste time with names, unless she asks...


    The intoduction.. She didnt ask you.. and then you state that you are awkward online and when meeting people.. kinda DLV yourself there....

    I would stop with the boring pleasent cr*p that every other guy is using and dig in.... I love to just pretend we are best friends and starting talking!

    reply: maybe when she says "[SHE] Mmmmm yeah cause u say nice to meet u when u haven't meet me " you could be witty... "ohh we havent??? Well I have a lock of black hair and some photos that say otherwise... wahahaha" << very important that the hair color u mention is NOT the same of hers, that gives her the chance to say "ohh thats not my color" and you cna follow up, "OMG, your not that asian girl I have been following around all week..Time I will never get back " *note* i persoanlly love the stalker innuendo, I typically try to bring it up early as possible but you can choose a different topic...*


    Asking her about where she lives, Thats kind of a privacy issue and i would advoid it.. The trick to being a covert-spy is to get the enemy to voluntarily divulge all the important information without them suspecting.. eg. "Ohh I just moved to the east side of town, and its crazy over here they drive like we live in mexico!!!" then she will reply about something about her side of the town or her area... this way u get the info without her thinking ur really gonna stalk her...


    Sorry to be soo direct about everything, but I don't think that type of convo is really going to get any girl to open up... It will more likly get them to close up and talk less.... use some of my examples above on the next girl, or even wait a few days or a week or a month ( my preference is just wait a solid 2 months! ) and then cold re-open her with some of those lines
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