So here's my dilemma: I've been using online dating for a while now, mostly successfully. I'm not meeting "wow factor" women, but that's a subject for another post. My situation is that one of my great strengths that attracts women also causes problems: I'm unafraid to speak my mind and don't play wishy washy, accommodating, passive aggressive mangina BS. I'm a straight shooter and a writer, so I do so with a little panache. Have you guys found that playing coy works better with women online, or being straight up?
Also, what dating sites (US) have you guys found the most attractive women thus far?