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    CaptainCory is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default went on 1st date with hb9.. now what?

    Ok first off this is my first post. Ive trolled and read the game and dipped my toes into this new idea of social interaction. And it was awesome. Thanks to everyone who has given me information whether they're aware of it or not.. haha. Anyway i number closed a HB9 a few days ago and we hung out last night and it was great. Touching laughing and eye locks all night. When should i ask about a second date? Shes a really cool girl and dont necessarily want a fling. Thanks in advance for everyones help

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    Default Re: went on 1st date with hb9.. now what?

    Quote Originally Posted by CaptainCory View Post
    Ok first off this is my first post. Ive trolled and read the game and dipped my toes into this new idea of social interaction. And it was awesome. Thanks to everyone who has given me information whether they're aware of it or not.. haha. Anyway i number closed a HB9 a few days ago and we hung out last night and it was great. Touching laughing and eye locks all night. When should i ask about a second date? Shes a really cool girl and dont necessarily want a fling. Thanks in advance for everyones help
    If things went as well as described...There's no need to "ask".

    Just keep the same vibe going & invite her to come along with you on one of your previously scheduled engagements.



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    Default Re: went on 1st date with hb9.. now what?

    My guess is that you're coming from a place of "Things are going really well. I don't want to screw this up now." By thinking this you actually risk screwing up lol.

    You are doing fine my friend. Keep the Mindset of always assuming attraction and just be easy. Great job btw. Keep it up.

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    CaptainCory is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: went on 1st date with hb9.. now what?

    Thanks for yalls help guys ill definitely keep that in mind. Tbh before i posted the original post i kinda already asked if she wanted t ride with me to grab some food... since then no reply. Its been about 24hrs. Should i roll on to the next HB or is there any way to salvage this? Shes too smoking hot for me to wanna completely forget about her ha.

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    Default Re: went on 1st date with hb9.. now what?

    I don't think it's a lost cause at all.

    I've had plenty of girls that I've been talking to or hanging out with go silent for a day or two...maybe a week... and then they either text me out of the blue, or I'll re-initiate with a funny/interesting/playful text just to get her responding again.

    I don't immediately try to set a meeting up with her... I'll just "warm her up a little & get her back in the groove of communicating again & make her laugh & have fun.

    Then, when everything is clicking well, I'll mention something about hangin with me on such-n-such date.

    But for now, give it another couple days or so... and when you text her again, remember your first priority is getting her to respond & keep replying. (not the "date" right off the bat.)



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    Default Re: went on 1st date with hb9.. now what?

    Thanks a ton guys ill definitely be using this info.

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    Default Re: went on 1st date with hb9.. now what?

    Ok so i text this girl a few days later and she seemed cool at first then she said that she was going out with 'some kid from work' did i lose or is this a Sh1t Test?. Btw ive learned not to show as much interest. They smell that sh!t a mile away

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    Default Re: went on 1st date with hb9.. now what?

    Goin out for the night with this kid btw... not dating or w/e

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    Default Re: went on 1st date with hb9.. now what?

    Your optimal move is to just play things cool. If you show any jealousy or over-pursue her in a way that displays lower value, you have no shot. I'd say since your first date was fine, you might want to just ice her out for a week or two before even attempting to ask her out again. If she is attracted to you and wants to see you again, she'll contact you in those two weeks anyways, and at that point you should be in a fine position again.


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