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Thread: Did I DLV her too much?

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    Default Did I DLV her too much?

    On a holiday, I met this girl, we made out for 4 hours and exchanged facebooks and numbers.
    Well, appearantly no numbers because when I texted her, I got no response. Feeling a bit bold, I send this:





    Should I "apologize" in some way? I'm not sure how she took it

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    Default Re: Did I DLV her too much?

    Never apologize just for being yourself. Even if that rule didn't exist, I still wouldn't understand why you'd want to apologize here. She didn't seem to take it in a bad way at all. Look at that last message. It's very positive. You're on the right track.

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    Default Re: Did I DLV her too much?

    Quote Originally Posted by Kliko View Post
    On a holiday, I met this girl, we made out for 4 hours and exchanged facebooks and numbers.
    Well, appearantly no numbers because when I texted her, I got no response. Feeling a bit bold, I send this:





    Should I "apologize" in some way? I'm not sure how she took it
    None, dont apologize... just move the conversation along... dont let her pretend she was drunk and doesn't remember you or doesn't remember making out with you

    I think this is awesome, because obviously she down to have fun when drunk but is usually a good girl when not. I would instantly jump into "So I guess you don't remmeber making out with me and XXXX me also" the XXX should be like her grabbing you or biting you or something sexual that is slightly more escalated than what she did with you. BEcause once you confirm she kissed you or did something with you, its easy to return to that point or go from there.

    Example; if a girl kisses me when drunk, ill say she kissed me and grabbed my ass.
    if she kissed me and grabbed my ass, ill say she kissed me and put her hands down my pants. If she kissed me and put her hands down my pants, ill say she kissed me and forced me to put my hand down her pants...

    Because we already has sexual contact in a sense, and she was drunk and does not remember EVERY detail. I try to make her think she is more naughty than what she really was. Maybe subconsciously she will think she must of really liked you and start looking for those reasons, but mostly the fact she thinks she has already does something to you then it is much more likly to get her to do it again.

    Now the real point for going over this in the messages, is if you ignore it and pretend did not happen your bascailly de-escalating when really you always want to be escalating. So by talking about it because it did happen, she gets more comfortable talking about it and then your more likely to escalate to sexting~
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    Default Re: Did I DLV her too much?

    Quote Originally Posted by MobileAe View Post
    None, dont apologize... just move the conversation along... dont let her pretend she was drunk and doesn't remember you or doesn't remember making out with you

    I think this is awesome, because obviously she down to have fun when drunk but is usually a good girl when not. I would instantly jump into "So I guess you don't remmeber making out with me and XXXX me also" the XXX should be like her grabbing you or biting you or something sexual that is slightly more escalated than what she did with you. BEcause once you confirm she kissed you or did something with you, its easy to return to that point or go from there.

    Example; if a girl kisses me when drunk, ill say she kissed me and grabbed my ass.
    if she kissed me and grabbed my ass, ill say she kissed me and put her hands down my pants. If she kissed me and put her hands down my pants, ill say she kissed me and forced me to put my hand down her pants...

    Because we already has sexual contact in a sense, and she was drunk and does not remember EVERY detail. I try to make her think she is more naughty than what she really was. Maybe subconsciously she will think she must of really liked you and start looking for those reasons, but mostly the fact she thinks she has already does something to you then it is much more likly to get her to do it again.

    Now the real point for going over this in the messages, is if you ignore it and pretend did not happen your bascailly de-escalating when really you always want to be escalating. So by talking about it because it did happen, she gets more comfortable talking about it and then your more likely to escalate to sexting~
    Ah, the art of insinuation.....this is used very sparingly but can really accelerate your game if it is done correctly.

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    Default Re: Did I DLV her too much?

    Quote Originally Posted by MobileAe View Post
    None, dont apologize... just move the conversation along... dont let her pretend she was drunk and doesn't remember you or doesn't remember making out with you

    I think this is awesome, because obviously she down to have fun when drunk but is usually a good girl when not. I would instantly jump into "So I guess you don't remmeber making out with me and XXXX me also" the XXX should be like her grabbing you or biting you or something sexual that is slightly more escalated than what she did with you. BEcause once you confirm she kissed you or did something with you, its easy to return to that point or go from there.

    Example; if a girl kisses me when drunk, ill say she kissed me and grabbed my ass.
    if she kissed me and grabbed my ass, ill say she kissed me and put her hands down my pants. If she kissed me and put her hands down my pants, ill say she kissed me and forced me to put my hand down her pants...

    Because we already has sexual contact in a sense, and she was drunk and does not remember EVERY detail. I try to make her think she is more naughty than what she really was. Maybe subconsciously she will think she must of really liked you and start looking for those reasons, but mostly the fact she thinks she has already does something to you then it is much more likly to get her to do it again.

    Now the real point for going over this in the messages, is if you ignore it and pretend did not happen your bascailly de-escalating when really you always want to be escalating. So by talking about it because it did happen, she gets more comfortable talking about it and then your more likely to escalate to sexting~
    Nice, good one! I will remember this one :P
    Thanks for all of your responses!


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