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Thread: Met a girl, invited to nude shoot, then she says she has a BF?! Confused?!

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    Default Met a girl, invited to nude shoot, then she says she has a BF?! Confused?!

    Met this girl in a club at school, we were both on the exec board of a club at my university. I flirted with her, and after a while it worked and we text pretty much all day.

    After about a week or so, she invites me to join her and one of her photographer to come take nude pics of her for her portfolio because she likes to be an amateur model. So of course, I keep my cool and accept. She later tells me she changed her mind because the other girl might feel uncomfortable with me there.


    She's really receptive, and we went out on a date last Thursday. We walked around downtown looking at stuff and talking, then she took me to eat a restaurant where she knew the owner. I didn't pay anything cause the owner let us have the meal on the house, just left a $10 tip.

    One notable thing that happened during the date was that she went through my macbook which I had in my car, and saw a picture of me and an attractive ex of mine kissing. (Stupid iphoto). She laughed at it and teased me for being a player and asked me questions about it, which I didn't really answer. Then later on during the drive home from the restaurant, these girls (my neighbors that wanted to give me cookies) kept calling my phone and she noticed, but I didn't answer to seem cooler. lol.


    I text her the next day, and we're talking and chatting. Out of the blue she breaks out with "I gotta tell you something... I have a boyfriend, you just never asked me." I told her I didn't care at all, pretended to be sad really sarcastically and then asked her to hang out again next week... which she agreed to.

    She seemed a little taken back by the fact that I nonchalantly brushed it off and we didn't text for a little bit. She hits me up at around 8 pm and tells me that she needs me to come over and help her get her frisbee down from the roof. Which I feel is a complete lie considering her house is pretty small and I've seen her climb up there on her own before.

    I agree to it because I felt I owed her for the nice dinner and say that I'm only coming once I'm done with my friend who I'm doing the insanity workout with. I call her in 20 minutes and she tells me she doesn't want me coming over there covered in sweat and making her smell bad with a "" at the end.

    So I'm like okay whatever.



    What are the chances she made up the story with the boyfriend in order to dhv herself after seeing pics of me and seeing girls call me?

    We talk all the time, I leave her alone for one day on the weekends when I'm hanging out with my friends. So unless she has a BF that chills with her only on Saturdays, I can't really see her having that serious of a relationship.

    I figure shes full of hot air, because no way she can invite me to a nude photoshoot if she has a BF, he'll most likely know about it and want to be there. And calling me to go get a Frisbee that she can do herself in less than 5 minutes? complete BS


    Where do I take this from here? Please help me, I'm completely confused, I can't read this girl at all. I just know that she must like me to give me a free dinner, talk to me all day, and drive me places lol.

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    Default Re: Met a girl, invited to nude shoot, then she says she has a BF?! Confus

    You're confused because you aren't taking control of the relationship (not like a relationship, but a continued interaction between two people.)

    You also didn't owe her anything, regardless of the meal. I don't really know how to explain this well, but Virgil would. It's Alpha Male Theology and that's his area of expertise.

    She still wanted you to come over. The smell thing was a shit test directed at your self esteem.

    She sounds like a boss, and if that's the case you need to step up. Sounds like she's been waiting for it for a while now.

    Whether she does or doesn't have a boyfriend is completely irrelevant now. She has given you the green light. Go for it.
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    Default Re: Met a girl, invited to nude shoot, then she says she has a BF?! Confus

    Sounds like she just wanted an excuse for you to come over. Better she ask you than some other guy at 8pm. She wont flat out tell you she wants to bang but shes giving you some hints here. Besides you dont want her to have that much control anyway. Also, she invited you to a nude photo shoot but then said no bc of her friend. Wheres youre private shoot bro?! That was an opportunity. Make me proud...


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