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    HysteRicaL is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Attn! Suggestions for next move?

    Hmm weird. A bit of contradiction going on?

    I improvised a bit on the above and changed it to:

    Me: I have time for a snuggle and movie . Which movie do you want to watch?
    She: "name of move" HAHAHAHA
    Me: Sounds like a plan. Just try not to make out with me while in trying to watch the movie will ya!
    She: Excuse me, did I even say I'm gonna watch it with you??

    ............ ???? WTF just happened!!! LOL! Any comebacks for this?

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    Default Re: Attn! Suggestions for next move?

    I don't think she was serious about the movie , as she says 'HA" .
    So i think you took it literally and then went one step further by negging her made it worse. Maybe just be like 'lol?' so anyways, and do some funny story and come back to it. Just don't get needy AT ALL.

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    Default Re: Attn! Suggestions for next move?

    Quote Originally Posted by HysteRicaL View Post
    Hmm weird. A bit of contradiction going on?

    I improvised a bit on the above and changed it to:

    Me: I have time for a snuggle and movie . Which movie do you want to watch?
    She: "name of move" HAHAHAHA
    Me: Sounds like a plan. Just try not to make out with me while in trying to watch the movie will ya!
    She: Excuse me, did I even say I'm gonna watch it with you??

    ............ ???? WTF just happened!!! LOL! Any comebacks for this?
    I wouldnt have jumped the gun using the "make out" line you saw on someone elses post, because you just escalated that you are going to meet and snuggle now u escalate that your going to make out, is 2 quick escalations too fast. And she can easily worry that you would think she is easy and slutty.

    See how she said YES, by saying name of the movie but then instantly back-tracked when you bought up makeout...

    #1) The guy who used the makeout line already had a date seutp as a movie to get to know her, then MUCH later he escalated with the "make out" line.. ( single escaltion)

    #2) you escalated from just being friends to meeting and being close, and then re-escalated again with the makeout line.... (2 escalation's)

    * i personally didnt like his make out line in that format, or this context also . because most girls are going to get defensive*

    I think for you, just getting the feeling of her and slowly escalating would be the right choice..

    I would have said the movie/snuggle line, then she agrees.. then u talka bout the movie.. bla blah.. your couch, your tv, where to rent a movie.. something.. because its already she established she's willing to mentally meet you and watch movie with you....so you just continue the assumption and lineup things in that frame you made... that support the idea she is coming over for a movie...

    So now.. recovery.. FORGET you said that makeout line.. FORGET she said anything about making out... just totally ignore it, and go back to the movie title she mention... like " ohh i dont have that movie" or "bring $1.29 so we can go dutch on the redbox rental" .. "talk about how old the movie was" or how new the movie is... or WHY the movie will suck/be good... basically redirect to the time when she said YES and continue from there
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    Default Re: Attn! Suggestions for next move?

    Quote Originally Posted by Siedways View Post
    I don't think she was serious about the movie , as she says 'HA" .
    So i think you took it literally and then went one step further by negging her made it worse. Maybe just be like 'lol?' so anyways, and do some funny story and come back to it. Just don't get needy AT ALL.
    serious about the movie or not, is not the point.. Her saying "MOVIE NAME hahha" the haha is either about the movie.. haha im embarasssed i want to see it, haha im embarassed you have to watch it with me" or haha im little shy to admit to want to snuggle with you.. haha shy to admit i want to see a movie with you...... im 90% sure its either embarassed or shy.. or combo....

    when you pre-frame things its not that she is serious or not, its the fact your throwing around a idea to get light feedback so then u can turn it into a plan and make it serious...

    eg. hey, come to my house tmr @ 7pm for a movie! what movie do u want to see?
    reply: "movie name" haha << this is like serious because its a fixed date details

    but my example has no fixed date, time place, its just a suggestion so there is not serious plans in place yet...


    But I agree with the neg & looking needy...

    *plus the dont make out with me, sounds like standard game to me... im sure lots of guys use this in 1 form or another.. dont get too close, keep your hands to yourself, old yawn reach up n hug trick...
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