Re: Attn! Suggestions for next move?
I wouldnt have jumped the gun using the "make out" line you saw on someone elses post, because you just escalated that you are going to meet and snuggle now u escalate that your going to make out, is 2 quick escalations too fast. And she can easily worry that you would think she is easy and slutty.
Originally Posted by HysteRicaL
See how she said YES, by saying name of the movie but then instantly back-tracked when you bought up makeout...
#1) The guy who used the makeout line already had a date seutp as a movie to get to know her, then MUCH later he escalated with the "make out" line.. ( single escaltion)
#2) you escalated from just being friends to meeting and being close, and then re-escalated again with the makeout line.... (2 escalation's)
* i personally didnt like his make out line in that format, or this context also . because most girls are going to get defensive*
I think for you, just getting the feeling of her and slowly escalating would be the right choice..
I would have said the movie/snuggle line, then she agrees.. then u talka bout the movie.. bla blah.. your couch, your tv, where to rent a movie.. something.. because its already she established she's willing to mentally meet you and watch movie with you....so you just continue the assumption and lineup things in that frame you made... that support the idea she is coming over for a movie...
So now.. recovery.. FORGET you said that makeout line.. FORGET she said anything about making out... just totally ignore it, and go back to the movie title she mention... like " ohh i dont have that movie" or "bring $1.29 so we can go dutch on the redbox rental" .. "talk about how old the movie was" or how new the movie is... or WHY the movie will suck/be good... basically redirect to the time when she said YES and continue from there
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