Re: Attn! Suggestions for next move?
Originally Posted by HysteRicaL
You talked to her at a social, got her facebook, then talked online and got her number. She clearly has some interest in you.
#1. Just because she doesnt reply for a day does not mean anything. I reguarly go AWOL for 1-2 weeks without replys to anyone. Its easy for people to have a busy day and just not have time to reply, so only a day is not always going to have a reason WHY.
#2. Ignore the "haha" they are jsut filler is she is always using them. Just mentally replace the HAHA with "so"
#3. Please do give us more of your text's. I would love to see more of your side of things. BEcause based on these 2 text's your not really doing anything in them. Not building interest, not building repport, not asking her, nothing.. just flat line..
For example look at your last text..
pretend you have this fat girl and shes ugly with bad sense of humor but for some weird reason she has your number and is texting you, and you dont have a interest in her but you dont hate her either.... What if she texted you this: "Haha keep it to yourself and hope that it would be forgotten! To be forgotten is forgiven !"
Its a statement, nothing for you to HOOK onto and reply. Nothing interesting in it, nothing your curious about. Just a boring sentence. You will read it and in your mind you will say "ok" and never reply it........SO why would you expect her to reply to it.
Go back and read all of your texts from that point of view and think, would I reply to it? This should give you a lightbulb moment of "AHHH" and hopefully your next texts are more intriguing..
Another rule of thumb is avoid negative subjects or topic or things she might complain about. Today a girl texted me some crap about her and this drama she had with another guy and I said "I dont know this fellow your talking about and whats upw ith him. I am your pimp not your girlfriend!" You dont need to say that, just keep that in mind... That your hunting her not trying to be her best friend or girlfriend.
Don't freeze her out, go back over your old conversations and find out where she had interest and what topics you were talking about like when u first met her, when she gave you her phone #, etc. Then the next text you send her refer back to them and get the conversation back on those old tracks she had positive interest in,,,
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