Re: do women use facebook as an out, when you first meet them?
No. If you're not planning on attempting an F-close upon meeting her, at the least you go for the number, every single time. Find Kino's 95% Number Close strategy on this site or use this, I picked it up from David DeAngelo. Ask her if she has a phone. When she say yes, you tell her to give it to you. When you have her phone in your hands.... you then call your phone. As your phone rings, you take your phone out of your pocket, look at it as if you're surprised to be getting a call, chuckle and hang up. Give her back her and phone and say "Alright, cool, that works" and grin at her. It's playful, fun, and original. For this to work in my opinion, you'll have had to already established the persona of an upbeat, fun, confident guy from the get go. Congruence congruence congruence.
Isolate. Escalate. Penetrate. Again and again.
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