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    Question Text and run.. was this a test?

    Guys I'd been talking to this girl online off and on for a couple weeks, just mostly shootin the shit and her telling me she's trouble basically lol

    So I hadn't talked to her for awhile, and shot her a message a few days ago, sayin hey long time no tomfoolery (inside joke), and suddenly last night she emailed me:

    'Hey do you have any plans tonight? Text me at *number'

    I was like whoa?! It's not always this easy heh. So I texted her a little while after, just was shooting the shit some more about my day, fixin my bike in the rain, whatever, then said wat u doing watchin the olympics or anything? Just makin small talk talk cuz she didn't seem that rowdy or anything I don't know.. so after a few messages she dropped off.

    I know, it could be a number of things, her cat got sick, her phone got turned off, etc., or could this be a shit test? Like how am I going to react, but I mean it was rather spontaneous to just say hey wat r u doing text me- or should I have been more bold and asked her out quicker? I'm thinking maybe that's it

    So now I dunno, should I text her again today, or play it off cool? I was thinking of the old 'hey what happened to my little friend..?'
    She's one of the girls I'm more attracted to on there, and I told her initially I was going out to dinner with a friend- who's actually another girl I had a date with online

    I dropped those plans with the other girl, not completely for this girl, but partially so.

    Any tips? Text back or drop it for now? Since it's the weekend I normally would, just thought I'd get some input from u fellas, thanks!

    Game on..

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    Default Re: Text and run.. was this a test?

    In my experience when a woman messages you so boldy it usually means she didn't have any plans or her original plans fell through and she had nothing to do. Then by the time you responded and showed you were willing to make plans, plans came up for her. So most likely she has something to do now even though she was genuinely interested in making plans with you. People tend to choose the more "guaranteed fun" type of plans.

    My suggestion is that next time she jumps the gun like that don't just take the bait, but be a bit more challenging about making those plans. Accuse her of trying to get a booty call and that you aren't that type of guy.

    For now I would not try to make plans with her. Behave as if you already have plans for your Saturday night and that if she wants to come along, she can, but you will have fun regardless.

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    Default Re: Text and run.. was this a test?

    Ah you know, I think you're probably right, thanks man.
    That was rather sudden of her, and yea I pretty much took the bait, I admit it..
    but at least I told her I had plans and wasn't about to move to her at the drop of a hat

    And it just occurred to me now, there is a lot of more witty responses I coulda came up with, like i dunno "why, did ur car break down", naa, or "why r u going to a raffle party or something", ect., maybe someting about bailing outta country for a crime or something, agh! Or ur booty call line probably woulda worked haha
    oh well, I guess it was a fluke somehow. She probably lost plans, then made others like u said.

    I guess I'll ignore her for now, if she texts me later or something I'll probably be out doing something anyways, but she can tag along

    If not, I'll work the text game a little more and try to make some plans, at a later date. Thanks batman, cheers!

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    Default Re: Text and run.. was this a test?

    A little status update here, this girl is really spacey with texts..

    She replies with hardly any interest, little character, and my usual style of 'thread-starters' just hasn't wound up much good convo with her. I dunno, maybe she doesn't like beating around the bush, and I should just get to the point?

    Here's kinda how it went, as I tried to rehash it last nite:

    Hey watsup, did u go to the dragon boat race last weekend (just to relive around the last time we spoke) ?'

    Her: no
    I bet it was pretty fun

    Me: ya I was gonna go but my friend bailed and dragged me to this party blah blah

    Her: oh that's not cool

    Me: ya oh well, how are ya

    Her: I am good

    So I think wat the? That's all u give ok, I don't reply til just now, this evening:

    Me: heaya happy Friday

    Her: hey
    I'm going to * bar

    Me: oh that's some pub around here huh, I'm actually working this Friday, I'm not used to it haha (I really didn't til this week recently)

    Her: wat do u do again?

    Me: ninja web support (clownin, sorta)
    Ill guess wat u do

    And no respnse for awhile, I'm wasn't gonna guess til I get some feedback..

    So I dunno, wat ya'll think? Is she busy, not much of a texter, or should I quit messin around and just ask her to tag along on my next outing or whatever?

    Not sure wat to do, appreciate ur input thanks

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    Default Re: Text and run.. was this a test?

    It's really hard to tell for sure, without knowing more about her personality.

    It's entirely possible that she's hoping you'll "man up" a little more (so to speak) & show some assertiveness.

    But another thing that comes to mind is that, maybe she's more of the "intellectual humor" kind of person.
    If she mentions "The Big Bang Theory" as being one of her favorite shows, then you really need to be creative & stimulate her mind.

    The girls I've been putting my focus on lately, are the smart / brainiac types. They always appreciate cerebral humor & are the most accepting of sexual innuendos!! (As well as progressing to a more intimate level of conversation!)



    So try to find out what her favorite genre of books/ movies /TV shows & overall entertainment are. That can help you figure out how to construct the perfect style of texts.



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    Default Re: Text and run.. was this a test?

    This is alittle trick I learned. It's a bit screwed up, but it works.

    If you are having trouble flaking on a woman then do it when you are working. It makes it easier. I work overnights and sleep during the day (that's not an intended pun at being Batman) so sometimes I will get invited out during the week and I get like "Don't they know I work. Wtf?!" So instead of telling them that I can't because I'm working I just STRONGLY imply that I am going. "What time? Who else is going?" But never actually say I am going. So when the time comes that they expect me I just don't show up and ignore their texts and calls.....since I'm at work. Creates a bit of value chasing. But I digress....

    Seems she is responding, but no real emotional investment. As if there is no real excitement at the idea of seeing you. This is usually after two people flake on each other for a few months and becomes routine. Or it could be something else. She did tell you which bar she was going to without asking you to come. Sounds like another one of those "I'm bored so I'm just gonna invite you and hopefully someone else shows up in time." So that makes you the BACKUP PLAN. That sucks!

    You can try my little trick to help her chase you. But overall you have to find ways to build your value/attraction. Get her reaching for MORE of you. Push/pull is a great way to build attraction over text and phone.

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    Default Re: Text and run.. was this a test?

    Thanks guys, I moved a bit further with using ur input.
    Also found out she runs her own skin care type of place.

    She asked me when I get off work, I told her, fluffed interest about the bar she was at, and traded newer pics. Not sure we're on the right page still, but I'll throw in some Push Pull, peak interests, and go from there.

    Have a feeling this one might fizzle but I got more room to work still

    Cheers


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