Re: Need help with HB10 NJI on Facebook
Originally Posted by byetovice
Shes a hurt girl, just out of a bad relationship. Clearly any white lies like "ill be here for you" or "Ill help you" "you can trust me" are all the things she hates right now. Any mention of those, brings her mentally back to the guy that just broke her heart. So I would advoid that crap and actually focusing on showing her.
In my experience, the bad thing is that girls broken and in this state are going to take long time to response or to escalate with. Cause your fighting everything that is going on with her right now, which is a constant uphill battle.. and most likely long term battle as well.
When said she she didnt like chatting with you, you should have just transitioned right there.. Who cares why she doesn't, because it didnt sound like a joke. So avoid that topic and anywhere when she is thinking negative associations to you.
Seems like she doesnt belie in trusting other people (maybe jaded) but she believes in love and maybe fate. So I would stick to that angle, but not so direct as in telling her u are going to make it happen.. I think its too bold and not belivele. You cant tell people your amazing, but you can make them come to the conclusions you are and make themselves believe it.
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