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    Smile Need help with HB10 NJI on Facebook

    Hi guys, i've met a HB10 and thinking i really fell in love.
    But didn't do stupid things listening to my heart. (hope so)

    We've been talking on Facebook for 5 days. I'm got Number Close with that girl. Our conversations were about fun things first day. The second day, i've applied the techniques in GunsnGlory's Guide. Future projecting and dhv etc.

    It has been about fun, sometimes sexy things, and now today we had a conversation like this :


    +mmm, so do you enjoy chatting with me?
    -sometimes no,
    +why sometimes not?
    -cause i'm used to being alone for some time. I had myself get used to being alone. (but she really is beautiful, and i think she doesn't want people to be around her)

    +sometimes being alone is good. but you'd better get used to not being alone, because i'm going to be with you even if nobody else is.

    -these kind of sentences are likely lies to me. simple and old fashion i think. i can't rely on anybody other than my mom.

    +i hate whoever made you think so. that's why i can't say everything i feel inside sometimes.

    -i think only the man that will change whole my life can make me think better about people.

    +hey, i have 4 more years to be an ensign, how can i wait?

    -(i think she didn't understand what i mean't and said)
    i have 4 more years to be free, how can i?

    +its gonna be hard, but when i change your life, you will remember this talk.

    - silly, you can't change whole my life..

    + oh, yeah i can and everybody is gonna envy our love.

    - perchance.


    now what do you think about it guys? what are your suggestions? thanks in advance

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    Default Re: Need help with HB10 NJI on Facebook

    Quote Originally Posted by byetovice View Post
    Hi guys, i've met a HB10 and thinking i really fell in love.
    But didn't do stupid things listening to my heart. (hope so)

    We've been talking on Facebook for 5 days. I'm got Number Close with that girl. Our conversations were about fun things first day. The second day, i've applied the techniques in GunsnGlory's Guide. Future projecting and dhv etc.

    It has been about fun, sometimes sexy things, and now today we had a conversation like this :


    +mmm, so do you enjoy chatting with me?
    -sometimes no,
    +why sometimes not?
    -cause i'm used to being alone for some time. I had myself get used to being alone. (but she really is beautiful, and i think she doesn't want people to be around her)

    +sometimes being alone is good. but you'd better get used to not being alone, because i'm going to be with you even if nobody else is.

    -these kind of sentences are likely lies to me. simple and old fashion i think. i can't rely on anybody other than my mom.

    +i hate whoever made you think so. that's why i can't say everything i feel inside sometimes.

    -i think only the man that will change whole my life can make me think better about people.

    +hey, i have 4 more years to be an ensign, how can i wait?

    -(i think she didn't understand what i mean't and said)
    i have 4 more years to be free, how can i?

    +its gonna be hard, but when i change your life, you will remember this talk.

    - silly, you can't change whole my life..

    + oh, yeah i can and everybody is gonna envy our love.

    - perchance.


    now what do you think about it guys? what are your suggestions? thanks in advance

    Shes a hurt girl, just out of a bad relationship. Clearly any white lies like "ill be here for you" or "Ill help you" "you can trust me" are all the things she hates right now. Any mention of those, brings her mentally back to the guy that just broke her heart. So I would advoid that crap and actually focusing on showing her.

    In my experience, the bad thing is that girls broken and in this state are going to take long time to response or to escalate with. Cause your fighting everything that is going on with her right now, which is a constant uphill battle.. and most likely long term battle as well.

    When said she she didnt like chatting with you, you should have just transitioned right there.. Who cares why she doesn't, because it didnt sound like a joke. So avoid that topic and anywhere when she is thinking negative associations to you.

    Seems like she doesnt belie in trusting other people (maybe jaded) but she believes in love and maybe fate. So I would stick to that angle, but not so direct as in telling her u are going to make it happen.. I think its too bold and not belivele. You cant tell people your amazing, but you can make them come to the conclusions you are and make themselves believe it.
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    Default Re: Need help with HB10 NJI on Facebook

    understand. but still couldn't decide what to do next.
    i can see my mistakes now but i can't undo them.
    What kind of topic should i talk about from now on? and what should i do other?

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    Default Re: Need help with HB10 NJI on Facebook

    Quote Originally Posted by byetovice View Post
    understand. but still couldn't decide what to do next.
    i can see my mistakes now but i can't undo them.
    What kind of topic should i talk about from now on? and what should i do other?
    You don't have mistakes, because even my suggestions could blow it up on you. Its just advice I offer

    I think your doing good, just continue on with your own style. Advoid the negative things, and try to stick with the fun friendly things you had the first 1-2 days.
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    Default Re: Need help with HB10 NJI on Facebook

    thank you a lot man! helped me a lot..
    but i think i have one more problem. She hasn't initiated a conversation so far. what should i do ?

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    Default Re: Need help with HB10 NJI on Facebook

    It seems like she's playing you just a bit.
    She's using these "past experiences" to pull you into her frame, which is "She is a victim".

    What you need to try to do is, not comply... and not even acknowledge that entire game.

    Change the topic. Don't be too over-confident / cocky, but "man up" & re-direct the conversation to something else.

    ANYTHING... as long as it's lighter & can have some humor mixed in.

    You don't want HER to lead the convo about the negative reasons she has for not wanting to get together or whatever. You need to be the leader & stop being fazed by her "victim" role.

    Move on & let her see that you are the FUN guy.... the INTERESTING guy.... the guy who is NOTHING LIKE the other boneheads she's gone out with.

    Basically she's giving you a VERY SNEAKY "Sh1t Test". It's sneaky because it's more indirect than the standard ones girls usually put out there.

    Don't fall for it.


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    Default Re: Need help with HB10 NJI on Facebook

    tmalonetn said it exactly right. My advice is the same as his.
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