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    dazyie221 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Help With HB9 FB Msg!

    Hey guys,

    I wanted to show you all this conversation I had with this random girl I friended on facebook.
    This girl's 18 years old and is going to college next year, I'm 19 and going to be a sophomore in college next year.

    I'll give you the exact time of each msg sent as we all know the importance of timing with messages these days:

    9:00 Thursday- me: hey gurl
    4:15 Friday- me: you look like a thug from ur pics so i just had to say what up
    her: A thug?
    me: A bad bitch...
    her: Ohh haha
    me: haha yeaa goin to Wiz tonite?
    her: Hell yea!
    me: Gunna be hype
    9:30 Friday- me: Where you at? (at the concert)
    her: Im by d
    me: What u wearin
    her: Shorts and a crop top
    me: I'm tryin
    11:15- me:This lot is ridiculous! (found out via twitter she was "lost" or something, most likely causing her not to respond to this)
    Saturday 8:30- me: Nice job finding me....

    Okay, so that's where the convo has left off.
    My goal for this girl is just to hang out and close with her before I go to school in 3 weeks.
    Any thoughts on then next thing I should message her would be very appreciated.
    Also, she does have her number on FB, and I'm not beyond just texting her w/o her directly giving me her number.

    Thanks,
    Dazy

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    Default Re: Help With HB9 FB Msg!

    dazyie221,

    The more I read into your post, it kind of frustrates me. I remember these girls, the ones I would try so hard to impress and they wouldn't even give me the time of day, before I entered the world of pickup.

    Honestly I would say to just disappear for awhile, even if it's only a week or two. I don't think she really knows you exist, and you kind of have unrealistic expectations for wanting so much out of a girl that barely even responds to you.

    Regards,

    DandyLion

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    dazyie221 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Help With HB9 FB Msg!

    I get what you're saying Dandy and share a lot of the same views.

    But at the end of the day, I don't really have much else to do so if she's 1 of 50 girls I'm hitting up at the time, I can try to make the convo go as good as possible.

    I'm thinking my next move might be just texting her (she hasn't given me her #):
    and just saying, "guess who".. and see where it goes

    thoughts?

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    Default Re: Help With HB9 FB Msg!

    You're trying too fast to get into a sexual advance with her since she is a random add. The "what you wearing" thing should have come much much later. She probably looked at it after she woke up (sober) like wtf?

    The best way to fix this is to let it cool down or leave it all together... or you could... tell her you thought you'd give her a chance since she fit your tastes, but since she isn't really responding "bye".

    If you take the contact response, and she doesn't respond def. let it be.


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