I'm pretty new to gaming, so I'm just trying to collect the ideas discussed here and apply it accordingly. I got great reply rate so far on some of the openers I have found here... I'm on Badoo, where my main problem is that most women have only photos and nothing else. So it's really hard to catch into something.
I have approached only 7+ women. So far 2 out of 3 have answered. Then I have screwed with one of them, where would have you done different?
Here is the most recent HB7. (The conversation is in Hungarian, I translate back and forth)
I have opened:
If you would have been in the room with 100 other girls who looks the same, how should I know which one is you? How would you stand out from the crowd? Let's start for example telling me what is the ideal weekend trip for you, where would we go, and what would we do there? So I give it a chance that you are also interesting, and if yes, we might talk a little. You might even realize that you are talking to a funny, intelligent and cool guy, who is certainly the perfect man you were waiting for your whole life."
I was trying to be sarcastic at the end as all women wants the "same" in my experience.
For me the ideal, relaxing and ultimate trip is when I can watch the sky and the clouds at a field full of ponceaus and cornflowers.
But I would be also interested, that how many other girls did you copy - paste this message by replacing the names?"
" Certainly for 10000 other girls too, what else did you think? But for sure to 99 others, that's why I have asked how would you stand out?
But to be serious, the situation is not so great. If you take a look at this website as a man, you will see that I don't need copy - paste. I don't know if the situation is better from a female's perspective.
Let's get back to our little weekend trip... Are you an agricultural engineer? Ponceaus and cornflowers... You would look at the blue sky and laying around whistling, why you would send me harvesting? We are looking nice... We barely know each other and you already want to use me. I better watch out!
Now that I'm looking at your photos a little bit (she had no text), you seem to me a smart, kind and sophisticated girl. (That's why I have written. You have lived abroad right?
But now that I'm looking at your eyes in more details, you have a little daredevilish in you, and a little "Smarty pantness".
Then all she answered:
"Write like this: smarty pantness
So is she sh1t-testing me? Going to pinpoint something in grammar? Where did I screw up, and how would you rebounce from here. The suggestions are most appreciated. Maybe I was too long.