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    Larz is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Exclamation Need help with a reply from an HB 9

    I need a hand with how to respond, I opened with an opener I found on here and this is her reply...

    Well thank you! I don't have much in life to be proud of, but goddamn if I can't spell properly.

    To be honest, I can be extremely sarcastic. But my sarcasm is so dry that people take is seriously much too often. I always delight in finding someone who understands when I'm joking.

    I'm not sure I would go as far as a riot in real life, but I will take your flattery and keep it very close to me for a rainy day, so thank you.

    I also sense you have a great sense of humor, but yours is much more blatant

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    I'm having a bit of a hard time finding something fun to write back. Any help would be appreciated.

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    DandyLion is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Need help with HB 9

    Larz,

    Spark an emotion in her. Stand apart by saying something to her that makes her feel like you really care about what she's saying.

    You know, Dale Carnegie once said: “You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you.”

    Live by this.

    Regards,

    DandyLion

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    Default Re: Need help with HB 9

    You need to stick with the sarcasm here.

    She mentioned that people usually take her too seriously because they don't understand her humor; she's a good speller; and she doesn't have much to be proud of.

    When you have a live one like this who, sounds like she can take it AND dish it right back out, you can get away with being a little more cocky... just don't overdo it.

    Try something like,"Well, you at least have ONE new thing to be proud of now.... I liked your email well enough to write back a second time! haha! Also- it sounds like you need cooler friends, if they don't get your humor... just sayin. LOL!"

    This is a playful neg, but then a compliment to her sense of humor, by saying she's cooler than her friends.



    Need one on one private coaching? PM me for details.

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    Larz is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Need help with a reply from an HB 9

    I apperciate the help guys, I sent her a response fairly close to what you said, tmalonetn, but have not received a response in 3 days. Should I try shooting her another message or just cut my losses? I mean, I want to be persistent but not needy.


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