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    Post First Date With a very shy girl

    Last weekend I met a very shy but cool girl. We hang out a bit a she clearly couldnt stop smiling while we were dancing or just talking. Afther some report and flirting I suggested a date outside the festival we met at because the music is always very loud. She almost screamed out of happyness and gave me her number straight away.

    I know I could have easly kiss closed but Im pretty new in the world of PUA and I didnt know if I could handle the emotinal rollercoaster.
    I know that she is very shy and probably wont say much on the first date but shes pretty into me as far as I know (Friend and her sisther all agreed on this)

    I was planning to meet up at a bar she already knows somerwere around the city. So shes atleast in a comfortable area. Just have a few drink and see how it goes. Is this a good idea and if yes how can I improve her comfort with me and not just sit there looking at eachother.

    Last thing to add is that im a pretty "talkative" guy. It wont be hard to find shit to talk about but This can also be a danger for myself that Im talking to much and not listening enough.

    Thanks for the advice!

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    Default Re: First Date With a very shy girl

    Ciridan,

    Just try and play down your talkative nature a bit. Give her room to talk.

    I remember this type of girl from high school, and it really bugged the piss out of me, trying to figure a way around this complex obstacle that seems impossible.

    Any other suggestions I might have would just to try and make her feel comfortable, and maybe use a little more Kino then you are used to, because usually if you're already comfortable with her kino-wise, everything else will fall into place.

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    DandyLion

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    Default Re: First Date With a very shy girl

    Thanks for the advice man, During the party itself I noticed Kino is the way to go atleast she didnt pull back when we hold hands put my arms around her etc.

    Thanks again will update when the date goes down.

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    Default Re: First Date With a very shy girl

    A week has past with some very smooth texting from my side. The first date was oke could have been better but she is still a bit uncomfi around me. Anyways im not giving up because its still clear she likes me. We set the next date for comming satherday on the beach. Ill bring drinks and something like strawberrys. going for the mystery kiss close. pretty shure ill manage if I keep my head straight.
    -end of update-


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