I told a few guys here that they should not be boring, or waste time with useless questions that don't build rapport or attraction. My advice is always just pretend you already know the girl, skip the intro and just get right into the meat of life....

So here is a girl UfB3 (UglyFatBlonde3) that opened me.. But I still stick to the same principals and steps, and always practice with anything that comes along!!!

Simple breakdown:

>> I don't say nice to meet you, how are you, where you from,w hat you doing, whats up.. because I honestly don't care.. but more importatly it just turns a perfectly good conversation into a boring first date online.. *SNORE*

>> My first goal is to act like I know her already, and just jump right into her life like we have ben friends for a while. After 20 messages, she will feel comfortable that she knows and likes me...

>> She said something about my bike... ill can use that as ammo later, no need to address it now. She basically says she's bored and it looking for a guy.. ( using mobile app, and ur a match, so i HAD to contact u).... so just be more friendly and fun that the other guys shes messaging right now, and shes all yours!

>> My first text.. Im at the pool being a lazy b*tch toomore or less.. i dont ask her what she is doing, i kinda throw it off as a statement so I back it up with do I need to call the police... because i like to imply im bad and she will get in trouble with me... and when good girls go with bad guys, they expect bad things to happen (surprise anal sex)...or doing something they shouldnt. so im preframing she will do bad things with me...

>> she says shes a good girl with a tounge emoticon... so now i bring up the bad boy directly and then i reinforce it with the fact that I have a record and could really go to jail for a long time.. haha... she 80% of the time will take this as a joke, maybe 20% will belive me.. either way, its fine... imagine if she thinks im being honest and then still meets me... its on like donkey kong!!

>> so now she replies that she is a angle because SQUARES are soo 1950's and people spelling went out in the 80's... but she gives me that same wink adn smile icon again.. u KNOW she wants to play, shes already hinted at it twice.. and now because i didnt ask her anything, shes tyring to create conversation.. so she brings up my bad boy.. so i know shes looking to play.. and then asks me when i go down to SD.. shes just trying to keep the conversation going somehow.. so I ignore that

>> I know she is playfull and clearly interested in something ... so perfect excuse for me to escalate.... by the way, it is NEVER too early to escalate things.. even if your only 3 messagaes into the conversation its ALWAYS a good time to escalate.. LOL
so I jump right into, use her angel / good girl tease back at her, and escalate.. i work in the word sin (do something bad according to good morals) and loosing her wings ( metaphor ) for her to loose her virginity.... I think its pretty clear innuendo for sex! That even a blonde will get it...

Now rather than wait for her to reply.. because she only has limited replies "ohh yes!" "i dont know" "your crazy hahah" "hahah" etc.... im 90% sure she wont reject me here, but she will play it off friendly wise.... so i already know her reply, so just jump right into the follow up... im going to tell her i KNOW shes bad, jsut as bad as me...almost like its a secret... now because im 90% sure shes not a real good girl, or doesnt way to be one.... she will reply something positive... "ohh is it that clear" "hey i act pretty good" "well everyone else still beleies it" " thats most likly going to be 70% chance of her reply....

>> thinking ahead... when she replies to this.. I am pretty sure were going to escalate into some preframed sex talk, or maybe making out ( prob not), most likely sex talk, then once we are talking about sex ( maybe 5th or 6th message) then if we plan to meetup.. clearly im bad, shes going to get into trouble, and we talked about sex.. Im pretty sure its clear whats going down.....

opened... interested...escalat ed... preframed....meetup. ...SNL...

* Yes, you could complain that she opened me and i didnt open her. That she is ugly not a HB10, that she is clearly interested and its not a uphill battle. this is just for reference on my stype of talking and escalting girls... I will try to post some more better examples as they come up . so learn what you can, imprive what you can, and ignore what you dont like *

* I know this is IM, but i would play text basically the same way *