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    Default Texting an ex!

    Ok so I won't go into details, but long story short, I messed up with this girl and was a whiney, clingy wuss! I was just wondering if you guys had any ideas as to how to open up dialogue with her again through texting, with the chances of having her back in my life again.

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    Default Re: Texting an ex!

    The best thing to do right now is to cut contact for at least 3 weeks. This is more general advice since there isn't much detail about your situation. But more often than not, you will have to cut contact completely.

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    Default Re: Texting an ex!

    I think the biggest thing about text, is it can carry soo many meanings and emotions that you need to spot. I don't think there is any generic text game that is going to work. You need to build up good reads, and good replies for a range of situations. So without details, no one really knows what went on or why or how to fix it.

    So any replies guys will give you here to re-open are just going to be random guesses and it will be 50/50 whether she replies or not.
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    Default Re: Texting an ex!

    Basically, we haven't been together for 2 years. So I'm just wondering what to open with

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    Default Re: Texting an ex!

    Depending on how long ago this happened, will definitely have a lot to do with your options.

    If it's been several months to several years, then it could be possible.

    However, if it's only been a couple weeks, then trying to initiate contact will have the opposite effect of what you're hoping for.

    Also- if you haven't made any personal changes & still have the potential of becoming that same whiny, clingy wuss; then you're only going to make yourself more miserable.

    The BEST thing to do is, let it go for a while & make sure you're doing everything you can to achieve the necessary personal growth & self-improvement.

    Then get your social life cranked up. Start having fun & doing the things you really like to do. (also beneficial for personal growth)

    Then, when you're not even concerned anymore about whether or not you can get her back, she's going to notice a difference in you.

    You'll exude more confidence & over-all attractiveness, which will affect her natural triggers.
    (Attraction is not a choice; it's a subconscious, emotional reaction. After all, you're simply attracted to whatever you're attracted to. It's hard-wired into your personal genetics.)

    When that happens, YOU will be the one with the "power/control" so to speak. It will become YOUR choice whether or not you REALLY want to be with her again.

    At first thought, the hardest part seems like it would be the "letting go" in the early stages; but it isn't. The most difficult part is when you actually HAVE the choice that determines the outcome.

    But that, my friend, is a great problem to have.

    Because, when YOU are in control of your life & your choices, it establishes a leadership ability that will help you in ALL areas of your life.

    OK, I realize this got a bit deep, but I just wanted to make sure you actually know the details involved, so you can access your situation honestly.


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    Default Re: Texting an ex!

    I couldn't have said it any better myself.

    Barney Style: Step out of your comfort zone. Make one change in your life at a time ~ whether it's learning a new language, learning a new skill like cooking, getting out more(if you're mostly inside), doing more physical activities such as sports, walking, running, dancing, anything that makes you sweat!

    Eventually, you will see a difference in your lifestyle ~ a much more positive one. The only person you should be thinking of impressing is YOUR-SELF.
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