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    Default odd scenario: she waited 3 days then offered to set me up

    Hey guys first post here!

    Long story short I am a host (greeter) at an Applebees. The other day a guy got up from the table he was at and asks one of my co-workers to talk to me. I go over to him and he tells me that his girlfriend's single friend is practically obsessing over me and he suggest I embarrass her for him.

    As they leave I call out the girl he mentioned and open with a reprimand for her trying to leave without giving me a hug (my openers need work...should have just approached before she was leaving)

    She started blushing and was all smiles as I basically got her name and then cut to the chase saying that shes cute and we should go for icecream the following night. I take her number down and she mentions leaving in 2 weeks for college. I say something cheesy like "then we'd best get to it!"

    I txted her the following night..expecting to arrange ice cream plans...

    me: "hey its derek from the big apple, hope i embarrased you good last night "

    Her: (she waits 3 DAYS...)

    "hey sorry it took so long to reply, but yeah, it was definitly a good laugh. Haha. Sorry my friend paid you to do that (guessing he lied. he didnt pay me..) but I'm not into the whole being set up thing, but if you want someone to talk to I know someone "

    Now based off what I've read here I plan to wait at LEAST a day before responding (since she waited 3?) I've never encountered something like this..though I have a feeling that her reaction is in part due to the brevity of the interaction and lack of any real comfort building (really just an attractive stranger to her).

    What do you guys think? Is this just an elaborate Sh1t Test or is that how she really feels?

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    Default Re: odd scenario: she waited 3 days then offered to set me up

    TRUTH?

    Personally.... I would blow it off & chalk it up as one of those situations where friends were daring each other to do stupid stuff in public.

    Nothing beyond that.

    Trust me; I know how easy it is to get that rush of adrenaline at slightest hint that, some amazing girl who totally out of the blue, is going gaga over me??

    It's never checked out upon further investigation... at least for me anyway.

    Let this one go.... I mean really!
    How much have you actually invested into this? (somewhere around "nothing" perhaps?)

    Add this event to your knowledge-base, so you recognize it if it ever comes up again.

    But start digging in here on the forums!
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    Default Re: odd scenario: she waited 3 days then offered to set me up

    It's possible that she was interested in the IDEA of you, but never actually thought it would happen. And then when it did you may have shown too much interest on your part without really getting to know her.

    I've actually had a few tastes on being on the other side and knowing that the woman wanted me bad. After reflecting I realized that they really didn't know anything about me so why would they like me so much. It literally made me feel like a "piece of meat." This became a turn off for me.

    Don't get me wrong though....most of the time I say fuck it and go with it Just understand that most women see things as such.

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    Default Re: odd scenario: she waited 3 days then offered to set me up

    Thanks a bunch for the in depth reply man. Your absolutely right.

    I'll take your advice and not put any more time into this one.

    instead...I'll focus on not hesitating the next time I'm pretty dam sure a group of girls is checking me out at work lol.

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    Default Re: odd scenario: she waited 3 days then offered to set me up

    Quote Originally Posted by BatMan View Post
    It's possible that she was interested in the IDEA of you, but never actually thought it would happen. And then when it did you may have shown too much interest on your part without really getting to know her.
    I didn't put 2 and 2 together... but This 100% sums up what likely happened.

    They had a good time joking around about me coming over and asking them on some dream date...but then when I actually did my over interest in her broke the illusions she had conjured and lowered my value.

    I guess its kinda like how if a hot girl opens you she instantly becomes a bit less attractive lol

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    Default Re: odd scenario: she waited 3 days then offered to set me up

    Quote Originally Posted by theonepercent View Post
    I didn't put 2 and 2 together... but This 100% sums up what likely happened.

    They had a good time joking around about me coming over and asking them on some dream date...but then when I actually did my over interest in her broke the illusions she had conjured and lowered my value.

    I guess its kinda like how if a hot girl opens you she instantly becomes a bit less attractive lol

    Exactly my thoughts. The best thing to do when a woman approaches you is to instantly start qualifying.

    Qualifying is best used after she is already attracted. When they approach you, then all the attraction work is already done for you and qualifying her solidifies that attraction so she won't get "buyers remorse."

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    Default Re: odd scenario: she waited 3 days then offered to set me up

    Quote Originally Posted by theonepercent View Post
    I didn't put 2 and 2 together... but This 100% sums up what likely happened.

    They had a good time joking around about me coming over and asking them on some dream date...but then when I actually did my over interest in her broke the illusions she had conjured and lowered my value.

    I guess its kinda like how if a hot girl opens you she instantly becomes a bit less attractive lol
    Yeah, kind of like that.

    I mean.... WAIT!
    One question first: Just how hot IS this hypothetical girl who "opens me" anyway??

    I'm honest enough to admit I can be quite shallow at times.... So, my initial opinion can sometimes be swayed by the proper techniques.....


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