Hey guys first post here!
Long story short I am a host (greeter) at an Applebees. The other day a guy got up from the table he was at and asks one of my co-workers to talk to me. I go over to him and he tells me that his girlfriend's single friend is practically obsessing over me and he suggest I embarrass her for him.
As they leave I call out the girl he mentioned and open with a reprimand for her trying to leave without giving me a hug (my openers need work...should have just approached before she was leaving)
She started blushing and was all smiles as I basically got her name and then cut to the chase saying that shes cute and we should go for icecream the following night. I take her number down and she mentions leaving in 2 weeks for college. I say something cheesy like "then we'd best get to it!"
I txted her the following night..expecting to arrange ice cream plans...
me: "hey its derek from the big apple, hope i embarrased you good last night "
Her: (she waits 3 DAYS...)
"hey sorry it took so long to reply, but yeah, it was definitly a good laugh. Haha. Sorry my friend paid you to do that (guessing he lied. he didnt pay me..) but I'm not into the whole being set up thing, but if you want someone to talk to I know someone "
Now based off what I've read here I plan to wait at LEAST a day before responding (since she waited 3?) I've never encountered something like this..though I have a feeling that her reaction is in part due to the brevity of the interaction and lack of any real comfort building (really just an attractive stranger to her).
What do you guys think? Is this just an elaborate Sh1t Test or is that how she really feels?