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Thread: I don't love her anymore and want out, what should I do?

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    Unhappy I don't love her anymore and want out, what should I do?

    Hi.

    I have been with this girl for 2 years now. Everything was going smoothly until recently, we fought over something petty. I have a friend who is a girl and this girl is a really nice friend. I talked to her and told her my problem with my gf and since then we talk everyday and we got close. She is everything I hope for in a girlfriend. I fell in love with her and the feeling is mutual. I feel guilty because my girlfriend has no idea. My feelings for my gf is not the same as before and I want out. But the problem is, I don't want to hurt her. She's a very nice lady and very loyal.

    Should I just stick with her and try to bring back my feelings for her or should I start another relationship with my friend? Please help me.

    Marcus

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    Default Re: I don't love her anymore and want out, what should I do?

    It's really your call if you want to stick it out. Only YOU know when you have had enough.

    As for hurting her feelings..... I haven't heard too many stories about someone being happy during a break up. Breaks ups are always hurtful to someone and it's unavoidable. Stringing her along after you made a final decision will just make things worse and isn't fair to her. You are human and don't have to apologize for how you feel. People grow out of each other all the time and it makes room for new and interesting people. Being hurt is a part of life just like happiness. Again only you can make this decision and know when you are just DONE with everything.

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    Default Re: I don't love her anymore and want out, what should I do?

    Is it "Love"?? or just physical lust/ attraction, because she's kinda like the "possible" shiny new toy??

    I can't answer that part. But, if you think you have a real choice to make, then start researching the subject of "breaking up like a man" & as much other info as you can find.



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