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Thread: How long to wait before messaging back?

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    Default How long to wait before messaging back?

    How long do you guys think is good to wait before messaging back? I searched this forum for opinions on this but there hasn't been much discussion of this.

    Others have alluded to it being a function of the following:
    1- length of their response, in number of words
    2- thoughtfulness of their response
    3- how fast they are responding
    4- F it, just message them back fast and close asap

    other ideas..
    5- whether they are the ones that initiated the messaging or whether you initiated it

    Related question:
    I have a lot of oldish email conversations that turned pretty lame and the girls stopped responding. Is a month or two a good timeframe to re-open them with something playful/ flirty/ PUAish?

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    Default Re: How long to wait before messaging back?

    Reopening old sets is lame and nothing more than a distraction from opening new sets.

    First time you message a girl (upon # close) should be as you're walking away from her at the end of the conversation. "This is the cute guy you just gave your number to". Turn back, wait 'til she turns around and then smirk at her. Boom. Then carry on walking.

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    Default Re: How long to wait before messaging back?

    if you sent a message at 6:45
    she replys at 7:45
    you respond at 9:00

    these are games to gilrs they love playing them, it also gives you time to come up with a hectic response and looks like your busy
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: How long to wait before messaging back?

    Quote Originally Posted by Tyrone1991 View Post
    if you sent a message at 6:45
    she replys at 7:45
    you respond at 9:00

    these are games to gilrs they love playing them, it also gives you time to come up with a hectic response and looks like your busy
    ^ This, though add ten minutes to your reply time.

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    Default Re: How long to wait before messaging back?

    My personal approach to response time for texting is, just be unpredictable. Don't ALWAYS judge it by how long it took HER to reply.... mix it up.

    Sure, sometimes wait before replying; but it's also good to respond right away at times. (It won't make you look "needy" unless you ALWAYS give her a quick reply.)

    Also- it's OK to go into Rapid Fire Reply mode too. You can really build momentum & your connection with her that way.

    I guess it just comes down to your own style & preference... but I personally don't follow a "formula", as far as waiting for a specific amount of time after she texts me.... I just do it when it feels right.

    That's been successful for me, with the girls I message.

    I'd suggest trying different ways to see what you get the best results with.


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    Default Re: How long to wait before messaging back?

    i speak only from an australian experience, so test it only, if you get a response than great. if she is into you and you take ages, she will think your busy and you just got some free time so she may try and respond quickly after that. but who knows, all you can do is try
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.


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