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Thread: Challenge: How to smoothly talk to a Ex's friend you know on facebook?

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    Lightbulb Challenge: How to smoothly talk to a Ex's friend you know on facebook?

    Ok... so I used to go out with this girl like a year ago and she introduced me to all her friends (Very interesting batch btw). A few weeks later, I broke up with her subtly until we managed to stop talking.

    Today, one year later, I see one of them posts in her wall and I really wanna get together with her and hang out.

    You guys got a smooth way to add her on facebook so that it doesn't feel weird for her? I'm sure she'll remember me if we meet in person, but I can't trust she'll remember me just by the profile pic.

    Ideas to start something up with her that doesn't seem desperate or weird?? Thx in advance!!!

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    Default Re: Challenge: How to smoothly talk to a friend's friend on facebook?

    Everything after I successfully contact her I can manage... I just can't figure out how to casually talk to her and start something up... and I definately can't ask the girl i used to be dating to present her to me!

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    Default Re: Challenge: How to smoothly talk to a Ex's friend you know on facebook?

    Just man up and add her. Be like "You're Katie (I'm assuming that's her name, dunno why) friend right? We met at the (wherever you met)."

    If she doesn't remember, no harm no foul. If she does, go on about how it was a great night and it was nice to meet all of Katie's friends.

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    Default Re: Challenge: How to smoothly talk to a Ex's friend you know on facebook?

    Also Rob, just out of sheer curiosity does the name "Jason Freeman" mean anything to you?

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    Default Re: Challenge: How to smoothly talk to a Ex's friend you know on facebook?

    ROFL!! No that doesn't sound familiar at all hahaha who is he! Does he have like a similar story ? hhahah

    If nobody has a better tip I'm gonna try the direct thing you're saying... I'm not much of a facebook/online pro cause i always think it might sound creepy lol

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    Default Re: Challenge: How to smoothly talk to a Ex's friend you know on facebook?

    Quote Originally Posted by robguerra View Post
    ROFL!! No that doesn't sound familiar at all hahaha who is he! Does he have like a similar story ? hhahah

    If nobody has a better tip I'm gonna try the direct thing you're saying... I'm not much of a facebook/online pro cause i always think it might sound creepy lol
    He's a guy I used to know. Him and a guy (who underwent many aliases, including Rob Guerra, hence my asking) used to be real tight.

    Honestly mate, direct action is probably your best bet. Just add her. It's facebook. Worst case scenario, she thinks you're weird and doesn't accept your add. Next her and move on.

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    Default Re: Challenge: How to smoothly talk to a Ex's friend you know on facebook?

    tell her you saw something and it reminded you of her. pretty AFC but could work
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: Challenge: How to smoothly talk to a Ex's friend you know on facebook?

    Quote Originally Posted by Tyrone1991 View Post
    tell her you saw something and it reminded you of her. pretty AFC but could work
    Does Facebook use Suggested Friends still? Try and play that off.

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    Default Re: Challenge: How to smoothly talk to a Ex's friend you know on facebook?

    So you guys say just Add, and when she accepts be like "Heyy was talking to (girl i was dating) and it reminded me of you how are ya" and thats it ???

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    Default Re: Challenge: How to smoothly talk to a Ex's friend you know on facebook?

    Quote Originally Posted by RuthlessRuckus View Post
    Does Facebook use Suggested Friends still? Try and play that off.
    ahhh true! That could also work... and then be like "Saw u on suggested friends and i thought it might be you..."


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