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    sonicino is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default The Right Frame by sonicino

    This was posted 3 times... original post here:

    http://www.puaforums.com/ask-expert/...uld-i-use.html

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    Default Re: Whats The Right Frame of Mind, That I Need?

    I feel you man, I used to have the exact same problem! What really helps is to treat girls like guys when you first meet them. It makes them feel comfortable with getting to know you and shows that you have a high social IQ (not to mention that it’s awesome at combating Approach Anxiety). You can also do it in this situation, like what would you do to start talking to her if she was a guy?
    Be like her guy friend (NOT like her gay friend) and throw in a compliment like “You have very nice lips” and gauge her reaction.

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    Default Re: Whats The Right Frame of Mind, That I Need?

    Perhaps your bar for IOIs is a bit high. Maybe your waiting for her to ask you for your name or touch your arm. It's perfectly alright to give her an ioi and show a basic interest in her. Just calibrate to her, but also lead her through the interaction. Always assume attraction and have the frame that you are the prize she is trying to win over. This should help you loosen up a bit.


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