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    Default Got her number but i cant get her to talk

    Ok , so i went to my friends house party didn't intend on getting any numbers i ended up with 5 don't know how i do it but when i drink i jus t learn to let go but back to the story i texted this girl HB8 opened with the STOP! text worked good i think , i then asked her what she ended up doing for the day and she said " work " , i fell asleep and woke up asked if she had any plans for the day - no response , need a little help with coming up with a plan.

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    Default Re: Got her number but i cant get her to talk

    Yo AnaxGrypos


    Text game is tricky. I had a chick try to have a “text-versation” with me last night and I just ignored it - she called me this morning to see if I was free.


    Because text is so passive the parameters of PU are throuwn waaay off: contact is established on HER terms – can't lock in properly, there is no way to demonstrate energy – which ought to be at about 115% the energy of the room, the only output is the literal word – no frames, no inuendo, no kino, no bodylanguage... imagine taking energy, kino, lockin, frames, inuendo, kino, bodylanguage, false time constraints, social proof, preselection and Isolation OUT of your game – what are you left with? Not a whole lot, and THAT is text game.


    I like Cody's post “The Intent of Texting: Doing it Right” (text exclusively to set up the next date), as well as “Texting do's & don'ts.. the “Conversational Bible” ” by Tmalonetn and “GunsnGlory's Ultimate Texting Guide” by Gunsnglory – all of these will help you understand what to do and not to do in text as well as WHY and WHY NOT respectively.


    As for this particular situation you're in, asking what she did and what she is doing shows interest – it's like placing the string right in front of the cat, rather than dangling it (Cat String Theory) Asking if she has plans can come off as either fishing for commonality (you want to MAKE commonality) or as fishing to make plans (you want to MAKE plans). An HB8 will be attracted by your alpha STOP opener, but can easily become disinterested is you show too much interest in her – she surely has a whole bull pin of AFCs to show interest in her – but not you, you're a PUA!
    DTF HB's omw 2 LTR


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