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    Default Things went good, now shes not responding

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    - Had class with this girl for 7 weeks, finally hung out with her tues
    - Facebooked and texted for 2 days then i asked her out for drinks
    - We had drinks at 6pm and went back to my house
    - Hung out, went for walk, had some deep convosation, talked about past relationships, she said she had her guard up, I told her that things should move slow, she agreed
    - She knows i have a daughter, seemed cool with it
    - I had her laughing alot, we cuddled and playfully wrestled
    - She went home at 3am

    - On wed we texted a little throughout the day
    - Hung out after class back at my place around 8pm
    - Went for a walk, had conversation, kept her laughing
    - She picked her brother up, i met her father and brother
    - Stopped by the park and she met my brothers
    - Went back to my place, cuddled, wrestled
    - She left a 2am

    I kissed her on the head weds, sort of playfully, but i didnt want to rush trying to kiss her because we had a good time. Now, thursday, i texted her a little and she wasnt as talkative as usual so i said ill let her work and to text me later. She never did, so i texted her around 10pm just to see how her day went. She was short and to the point.

    On friday, I texted her around 11am and she didnt get a hold of me until i texted around 5pm and she said she forgot. So i asked her if she wanted to eat at my place sunday ( i was gonna cook) and she said she was busy. So i said it was cool. I asked her if she was excited for next weekend because shes getting a new tat and she didnt respond. So i didnt text her at all, sort of waiting for her to text back.

    Now, when we did hung out she said she was having a great time, bc if she wasnt, she wouldnt have stayed as late as she did. Now im just confused. I could go into more detail, but everything went great when we hung out. No awkwardness at all, and she was laughing and being really flirty with me as well. So, what should my next move be? I was thinking texted her monday and asking how her weekend went, and then seeing if she wanted to go get some more drinks, but i would say "Do you wanna get some drinks sometime this week when your not busy?" so that its open ended so she just cant say shes busy, if she does, i know shes not interested. Looking for more insight, thanks

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    Default Re: Things went good, now shes not responding

    So sort of an update. i texted her good morning and how her weekend went, and she just replied "great wbu?" So obviously she is sort of interested since she replied back, but it was sorta short and to the point. but where should i go from here?

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    Default Re: Things went good, now shes not responding

    Quote Originally Posted by Winkwee40 View Post
    So sort of an update. i texted her good morning and how her weekend went, and she just replied "great wbu?" So obviously she is sort of interested since she replied back, but it was sorta short and to the point. but where should i go from here?
    Have fun in your text, dont ask her questions. If she types 'LOL' and 'Haha' you are in.
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    Default Re: Things went good, now shes not responding

    If you're showing her that you're the "fun guy" when you're with her, you want to make sure your texts convey that same "fun guy" vibe too.

    If you're sending her the same old meaningless messages that anyone else would send her, then you run the risk of killing the attraction. Examples of those would be:
    "Hey, what r u doing?"
    "How are you?"
    "How was your day?"
    "Did u have a good weekend?" Etc...

    Instead of that, you want to send her texts that stand out & get her attention.
    Make up a nick-name for her. Make comments that are silly & a bit random when you first initiate contact for the day. (Or, even something you previously did, & make it fun/funny... like the "wrestling" you mentioned)

    "Hey, Queeny McSpunkenheimer! Wrestlemania 2 - for the title! you better start training.. "

    Or something to pique her curiosity, so she responds:

    "I just love it when the perfect idea pops into my head..."

    "Just thinking; we should bake cookies... or go grab a drink. Let's hook it up."

    Whatever your real personality is like & whatever style of humor you have that makes her laugh, use THAT in your text messages too. It'll remind her why she likes hanging out with you when you're NOT with her.



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    Default Re: Things went good, now shes not responding

    It's a shame that there isn't much room for nice guys anymore, beings that they usually finish last.

    I don't think you necessarily did anything wrong.....which is kinda the point. This may sound weird, but sometimes you have to screw up. Not anything extreme, but little things here and there. Why? Because this makes you unpredictable. To be a gentlemen one moment, then say or do something that makes you an ass. The magic is when you smile about and don't apologize for it.

    Her: You're such an ass!

    Me: Ya know....I've been getting that alot lately. I should put it on my resume.
    Or say
    Me: I DO have my moments

    This is perfectly debatable, but the more that I learn about attraction the more I feel that raw unhindered attraction, in it's purest form, is UNCOMFORTABLE. You generate security by building comfort. You generate attraction by creating DOUBT.

    Becoming her "rock" before she has become yours is a risky move. Only because it leaves the ball in her court since she knows that no matter what happens, she feels she can call upon you when she is in the mood for you. When you create that doubt, she will take you as someone who could leave her life in the blink of an eye, and that scares the hell out of her.

    According to Mystery Method you should focus on creating attraction first, then build comfort, which will allow you to seduce her. So maybe it's time to mix things up and stir the pot. Hope this helps and good luck.

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    Default Re: Things went good, now shes not responding

    Hey thanks guys for the response. Well, after she texted "great wbu?" I texted "it was good. Did you have any cop provoking expierences this weekend?" which was from an inside joke. Well she has t responded and that was at 815am and now it's 135pm. (I didn't receive your advice until after I sent it). So what's my next move? I know she was in to me by the way we hung out. There was nothing that went wrog. I just think that maybe she started to get feelings so she's avoiding me or something. I just know if I hang out with her again, I can close. But now it's just "how do I get there?" I haven't texted her back bc I don't want her to think I'm needy or anything. Thanks again!


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