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    Default Should I Stick with my girlfriend or risk it all?

    I have had a girlfriend for a little under a year now but recently meet a girl who I have known and had deep feelings about since I first met her 4 years ago, we dated a bit but nothing worked out back then partly due to my own insecurities and confidence issues(Which are fine now) and her not wanting to be in a relationship having just broken up from a bad one.

    We see each other around every 3-4months as she lives in the same area, every time this happens there always seems to be these moments between us but nothing came of it as I have pretty much always been in and out of other relationships since seeming to start a new one after not seeing her for awhile.

    The other night we met by accident but ended up talking for ages, eventually she admitted having feelings for me but didn't want to act on them due to my current relationship, after I admitted having feelings for her she kissed me...It felt amazing.

    I am now torn and cant think about what to do. Fact is this girl is going to collage in a few months, its 1-2 hours away and I work full time so making any kind of relationship would be tough I think. I have text her since but no reply I think she might be ignoring me feeling guilty about what we did.

    My current relationship was going well but I don't have the same feelings about my current girlfriend has I do about her. I fear that I will through away my current relationship over something that wont work with her. In the past she has had commitment issues.

    I know what I write sounds bad and will hurt my girlfriend greatly but I can't stop these feelings and every time I see her they come back, this time its worse and I need to sort this out so I can move on. What should I do?

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    Default Re: Should I Stick with my girlfriend or risk it all?

    That's not really a question any of us can answer. You need to make that choice on your own, based on what is most important to you.


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    Default Re: Should I Stick with my girlfriend or risk it all?

    Listen to guns and roses its a jungle out there ... wake up . Good relationships is tough to find.


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    Default Re: Should I Stick with my girlfriend or risk it all?

    Understand that you have not given yourself the chance to take her for granted yet. I guarantee there WILL be things that you will not like and will ruin the "perfect" image you may have for her. And if she does have committment issues then you are looking at possibly losing both women just because your loins were burning.

    You can't fall into temptation everytime you are in a relationship so practice self control. Even if it is someone you have known awhile and gives you this feeling of "it's meant to be" kind of thing. (Which I think is bs by the way. It's just backwards rationlization)

    Try to imagine the arguments you'd get into. If she is a party girl then think about how you will spend most of your time trying to tame and cage her which will only make her more rebellious.

    If she is a conservative type of woman then think of her trying to be controlling. Of how you should act, dress, or speak. That she will constantly be suspcious of you and not want you with other people that she feels are "bad influences."

    Just use anything that will Take Away the Halo Effect she may have on you at the moment. Because the truth is she is not perfect and there is a chance you will wonder why you even left your gf simply because you were too tempted. You are an alpha male and know you can get her anytime so whats the rush. It's not like she's leaving your life anytime soon.


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