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    Default Please help a noobie with super hot/busy girl

    Hey guys

    So I been browsing these forums recently obv because I'd like to improve my game.

    I've learned a good deal as it is but, I'll get to the point. I'll try to make it as short as possible.

    So, there's this super hot (HB9.5?), super cool, girl that seems to have her sh1t together. Normally, I have no problem talking to girls, I seem to do pretty well without any knowledge of PUA. BUT! This particular girl makes me nervous for some reason, I don't know what it is. She's almost done with her Psychology program and I'm guessing that might have something to do with it haha.

    Heres the deal:
    - Whenever we see each other in class/coffee (Havent been on anything formal) she always shows IOI's, like...I'm positive this girl has a thing for me, she even told me she likes me.
    - So, we seem to have a good time whenever were out. It becomes a little difficult when it gets to the texting part. She's VERY busy so she takes for farking ever to respond sometimes...I tell myself it's because she's a college athlete, school, work, etc...I don't really mind that she takes forever to respond sometimes but it just prevents me from actually having conversations/building more comfort/rapport.
    - At another time I asked her out once on a formal date and she agrees but I didn't hear from her all week. I send her a text the day before to confirm the time (It was not set yet, I know my mistake), I didnt hear back so, MY MISTAKE HERE I text her "Do you enjoy leaving me in suspense?" still nothing. In an attempt to preserve value I say "Hey, didnt hear back from you so I went ahead and made other plans, hope you dont mind". - Her excuse "Phone was lost", she asked me how I was feeling? (Sh1t test?), I responded "Oh, im good" with a big as* smile. I just acted as if it didnt phase me.
    - I'm pretty sure I've demonstrated tons and tons of dhv by now. I'm not being cocky but just so you guys get the picture...In our class together everyone really likes me, I get really good grades, I'm pretty fit, good looking, good job. I guess im charismatic...whatev er. Plus, some girls in there seem to want my balls. So, I know she knows I'm wanted.

    But, my question!
    WT FORK is this girls' deal? I know she got out of a long distance relationship around a year ago and told me she wasn't sure what she wanted...might have something to do with it.

    But, I can't seem to escalate things...If were hanging out already, like in class, we usually end up going to have coffee, hanging out and talking in her car/my car. The problem is getting her on dates now that school is out...I did a Freeze Out for 4 days and she seems to be responding a little quicker to the texts...but still having trouble cracking this girl.

    I have others im speaking to but this one is LTR material. What do?

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    Default Re: Please help a noobie with super hot/busy girl

    You see her all the time so use class and those informal coffee dates to escalate. Don't rely on texting if she can't. No one is too busy to text. In fact most busy people text the most out of people I know. So it is not her busy schedule that prevents her texting it is how she expresses her personality via phone. Some people can't live without their phone others can. Concentrate on escalating the conversation and Kino when you see her after class. Touch her here and there initially and then try take her somewhere else after a class on an Instant Date 'let's grab lunch in town, im tired of campus food' or 'let's have a drink, we finished our assignment today'. If she flakes move straight on and start dating other girls who truly 'have got their sh1t together'.

    If she got out of a long distance relationship recently don't make your relationship long distance via text either. Make it happen right in front of her and be persistent in what you want and convince her it is what she wants too. Write a message or cute note in her study book when she goes to the bathroom, anything you can do to inspire her life and be different.

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    Default Re: Please help a noobie with super hot/busy girl

    Quote Originally Posted by whitedragon View Post
    You see her all the time so use class and those informal coffee dates to escalate. Don't rely on texting if she can't. No one is too busy to text. In fact most busy people text the most out of people I know. So it is not her busy schedule that prevents her texting it is how she expresses her personality via phone. Some people can't live without their phone others can. Concentrate on escalating the conversation and Kino when you see her after class. Touch her here and there initially and then try take her somewhere else after a class on an Instant Date 'let's grab lunch in town, im tired of campus food' or 'let's have a drink, we finished our assignment today'. If she flakes move straight on and start dating other girls who truly 'have got their sh1t together'.

    If she got out of a long distance relationship recently don't make your relationship long distance via text either. Make it happen right in front of her and be persistent in what you want and convince her it is what she wants too. Write a message or cute note in her study book when she goes to the bathroom, anything you can do to inspire her life and be different.
    Hmm...Good stuff man, thank you.

    Only one problem; We won't be seeing each other at school anymore. We only had one class during summer classes together but we belong to different campuses.

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    Ahhh...so you are kinda long distance too in a way. Don't worry just send her the odd funny text or photo to keep her thinking of you and concentrate on other girls. Don't be too hung up on asking her out like it is the killswitch - try to gain more attraction so SHE is more tempted to initiate meeting up. I wouldn't be afraid to pay her a few compliments - you don't have to be AFC but you could say something that gets an emotional response like 'I miss your sexy...(dress)' or 'Your image in my memory is fading...but I can't get the imagery of your cute dimples when you smile out of my soul'. Or if she is more playful personality 'Ive found out your address and am on my way over to say hi to you' (even though you're not and are just kidding it will get her heart racing). Sometimes when you don't care anymore and shift your attention elsewhere or get a little more daring in what you say girls come full circle back to you.

    Some canned lines can work too. I used the vampire one not long ago to re-initiate a girl.

    me 'OMG you will never guess what is happenening?!'
    her 'what? tell me!'
    me 'you sure you want to know?'
    her 'yes please tell me now, what is up?'
    me 'There are vampires in my house, will you help me take them out?'
    her 'hahaha'
    her later 'will you turn me into a vampire if you become one?'
    me 'I will not be able to stop myself from kissing and biting your neck...but we will live without aging in our own castle - it will be worth it don't you think'
    her 'hahaha...I think I like the vampire life, maybe not so bad'

    So the conversation went from being frozen in time to making her laugh, about kissing her and living together in a fantasy world that gave us both a rich dialogue.

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    Default Re: Please help a noobie with super hot/busy girl

    Quote Originally Posted by whitedragon View Post
    Ahhh...so you are kinda long distance too in a way. Don't worry just send her the odd funny text or photo to keep her thinking of you and concentrate on other girls. Don't be too hung up on asking her out like it is the killswitch - try to gain more attraction so SHE is more tempted to initiate meeting up. I wouldn't be afraid to pay her a few compliments - you don't have to be AFC but you could say something that gets an emotional response like 'I miss your sexy...(dress)' or 'Your image in my memory is fading...but I can't get the imagery of your cute dimples when you smile out of my soul'. Or if she is more playful personality 'Ive found out your address and am on my way over to say hi to you' (even though you're not and are just kidding it will get her heart racing). Sometimes when you don't care anymore and shift your attention elsewhere or get a little more daring in what you say girls come full circle back to you.

    Some canned lines can work too. I used the vampire one not long ago to re-initiate a girl.

    me 'OMG you will never guess what is happenening?!'
    her 'what? tell me!'
    me 'you sure you want to know?'
    her 'yes please tell me now, what is up?'
    me 'There are vampires in my house, will you help me take them out?'
    her 'hahaha'
    her later 'will you turn me into a vampire if you become one?'
    me 'I will not be able to stop myself from kissing and biting your neck...but we will live without aging in our own castle - it will be worth it don't you think'
    her 'hahaha...I think I like the vampire life, maybe not so bad'

    So the conversation went from being frozen in time to making her laugh, about kissing her and living together in a fantasy world that gave us both a rich dialogue.
    Damn, good stuff. I'll definitely try that vampire thing.

    So, keep my distance but occasionally show her some interest?

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    Default Re: Please help a noobie with super hot/busy girl

    Quote Originally Posted by whitedragon View Post
    Ahhh...so you are kinda long distance too in a way. Don't worry just send her the odd funny text or photo to keep her thinking of you and concentrate on other girls. Don't be too hung up on asking her out like it is the killswitch - try to gain more attraction so SHE is more tempted to initiate meeting up. I wouldn't be afraid to pay her a few compliments - you don't have to be AFC but you could say something that gets an emotional response like 'I miss your sexy...(dress)' or 'Your image in my memory is fading...but I can't get the imagery of your cute dimples when you smile out of my soul'. Or if she is more playful personality 'Ive found out your address and am on my way over to say hi to you' (even though you're not and are just kidding it will get her heart racing). Sometimes when you don't care anymore and shift your attention elsewhere or get a little more daring in what you say girls come full circle back to you.

    Some canned lines can work too. I used the vampire one not long ago to re-initiate a girl.

    me 'OMG you will never guess what is happenening?!'
    her 'what? tell me!'
    me 'you sure you want to know?'
    her 'yes please tell me now, what is up?'
    me 'There are vampires in my house, will you help me take them out?'
    her 'hahaha'
    her later 'will you turn me into a vampire if you become one?'
    me 'I will not be able to stop myself from kissing and biting your neck...but we will live without aging in our own castle - it will be worth it don't you think'
    her 'hahaha...I think I like the vampire life, maybe not so bad'

    So the conversation went from being frozen in time to making her laugh, about kissing her and living together in a fantasy world that gave us both a rich dialogue.
    Very cool. Girls LOVE vampires again, thanks to "Twilight"...
    I can totally see how this would be effective!

    This is a great example of how to take something that's currently popular, and use it to initiate some playful text convos.

    Brilliant... simply brilliant!


    Need one on one private coaching? PM me for details.

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    Default Re: Please help a noobie with super hot/busy girl

    Update:

    So, I sent her a text along the lines of...

    ME: Hey lazy are you awake? (it's 2 PM, its kind of a joke cause her friends posted a pic of her sleeping @ 1PM some other day so i was just referencing)

    HB: Hahaha!!!! -.- I'm awake!

    ME: I wasn't sure so, wheres this ___ place at? (something we had talked about earlier)

    HB: ___, it's in Oregon.

    ME: WTF? You're in Oregon? Haha, I had no idea. I don't know how I feel about a long distance relationship...I think we need a divorce and I'm keeping the dogs ; ) (She's one of those dog lovers, i thought this line would kill -.-)

    Didn't respond so I went back to Freeze Out mode. Thoughts guys?

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    Default Re: Please help a noobie with super hot/busy girl

    Sorry for the double post but I think I should add this.

    As I was doing a bit more research on this site I think I noticed a mistake I might have made...It didn't seem too bad when I said it but Im feeling it could have been, you guys let me know:

    She did a Sh1t Test on me and I think i failed...She rescheduled 2 dates in a row, the 2nd time she did, I told her "Yeah, I think you're interesting and I'd like to get to know you more but, I'm busy so if you don't wanna go out just tell me cause I don't wanna waste my time".

    What do you guys think?


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