So I been browsing these forums recently obv because I'd like to improve my game.
I've learned a good deal as it is but, I'll get to the point. I'll try to make it as short as possible.
So, there's this super hot (HB9.5?), super cool, girl that seems to have her sh1t together. Normally, I have no problem talking to girls, I seem to do pretty well without any knowledge of PUA. BUT! This particular girl makes me nervous for some reason, I don't know what it is. She's almost done with her Psychology program and I'm guessing that might have something to do with it haha.
Heres the deal:
- Whenever we see each other in class/coffee (Havent been on anything formal) she always shows IOI's, like...I'm positive this girl has a thing for me, she even told me she likes me.
- So, we seem to have a good time whenever were out. It becomes a little difficult when it gets to the texting part. She's VERY busy so she takes for farking ever to respond sometimes...I tell myself it's because she's a college athlete, school, work, etc...I don't really mind that she takes forever to respond sometimes but it just prevents me from actually having conversations/building more comfort/rapport.
- At another time I asked her out once on a formal date and she agrees but I didn't hear from her all week. I send her a text the day before to confirm the time (It was not set yet, I know my mistake), I didnt hear back so, MY MISTAKE HERE I text her "Do you enjoy leaving me in suspense?" still nothing. In an attempt to preserve value I say "Hey, didnt hear back from you so I went ahead and made other plans, hope you dont mind". - Her excuse "Phone was lost", she asked me how I was feeling? (Sh1t test?), I responded "Oh, im good" with a big as* smile. I just acted as if it didnt phase me.
- I'm pretty sure I've demonstrated tons and tons of dhv by now. I'm not being cocky but just so you guys get the picture...In our class together everyone really likes me, I get really good grades, I'm pretty fit, good looking, good job. I guess im charismatic...whatev er. Plus, some girls in there seem to want my balls. So, I know she knows I'm wanted.
But, my question!
WT FORK is this girls' deal? I know she got out of a long distance relationship around a year ago and told me she wasn't sure what she wanted...might have something to do with it.
But, I can't seem to escalate things...If were hanging out already, like in class, we usually end up going to have coffee, hanging out and talking in her car/my car. The problem is getting her on dates now that school is out...I did a Freeze Out for 4 days and she seems to be responding a little quicker to the texts...but still having trouble cracking this girl.
I have others im speaking to but this one is LTR material. What do?