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    RehRey is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default How Do You Not Show It, When She Flakes

    What do you guys do when she flakes on you, like what reasons to show that you give a crap.

    What do you do when you wanna flake on her? What reason do you give? When do you break the news? Do you reply the next day and stuff?

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    Default Re: Flakes

    interesting also. Who can give right advice?

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    Default Re: Flakes

    I'm not fantastic when it comes to her flaking. Usually I don't care enough to fight it, but here is one scenario that might help.

    Also, if you want to flake, just be honest. I've told girls before that I didn't want to hang out with them because they were boring. It pissed them off at first, but they later made an effort to be more fun.
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    Default Re: Flakes

    I've never flaked on any girl. If I don't like her I don't ask her out. If a girl flakes once - fine as long as there is a genuine reason. Second time if she flakes I have already moved on and I ignore her. It will have to be up to her to make up for it and I'm not going to go meet her anywhere if she tries to arrange a third date. She will have to come to my place or make it easy for me because I'm not going to risk waiting around a third time. Irrelevant of whether your a guy or girl it's just poor manners, rude, disrespectful and every good relationship I've had always went smoothly so i avoid flake risks as much as I can. Women are also notoriously late and I have a low tolerance for that too. 1st date I will hang around up to 30min waiting with a text or call at 15 min. I'm gone if she doesn't arrive within 1/2 an hour unless, again there is a genuine reason and she is constantly in contact (traffic, storm etc). If she is late for second try at a date I will wait no longer than 10 minutes. Luckily this has only happened once or twice in my life. Most girls are punctual and don't flake and I tend to avoid girls with mythical 'no time in my schedule' excuses. I just don't bother with them and usually they have issues anyway. Life's short I'm not spending it waiting around at the crossroads. If you can pick a girl up in your car from her place is always fairly safe.

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    Default Re: Flakes

    So a really hot girl flaked on me the other night. Id call her a 10, probably a 9 in a bigger city than mine. We had hit it off so great w hen we met, she kept on laughing and acting so awe struck as I ran the cube test on her. She even at one point said "your so cool" and was totally into me, I mean totally. We set a date for the next day later over text. And I stopped texting her. On my way to the date I touched base with her and she said she couldnt make it cause she was working late. I told her I was already out at the bar and was playing darts and would order some food and hang out with people there and to just come when she got out. She got out of work and let me know she was getting ready to go out, but when she went out she didnt go out to the bar i was at, she went out with her sister to a gay bar. lol so idk what happened, maybe she got nervous, maybe she got peer pressured by her sister, maybe she is lame, maybe she didnt think our plans mattered, who fucking knows. But I liked the girl. I didnt like her as much, but I figured, m aybe I can get passed it, or maybe I continue to be mad about it but can at least fuck her. Or somewhere in between lol. Either way I looked up what to do about flakes and read that you should say I think your cool and want to get to know y ou but lets just be friends. So a couple days later I said that to her, got no response, but knew she had read the text. Then today, I came up with a really great thing to say after that!!!

    So last night was a big festival in my city. A big drinking and concert fest for people in theri 20's. Those who dont go are either lame or too cool for it. I am too cool for it, but people like her would only not go because they are lame, because its the average popular crowd type thing. So I know if I said I was there, and she wasnt, shed be like oh man this guy has more fun than me. SO here is what I concocted: I texted her saying, "Hey I saw you at the east end fest last night! sorry I would have said hi but I was out with a girl! Hope you had as exciting of a weekend as I did!"

    You can see what I did there, I'm sure. ANd it worked like gold. She said she wasnt there. I said oh hahahaha, thats so funny, can you imagine if I had approached the girl I th ought was you? So she then laughed back and I said "well you laugh but I actually had that happen once before and the girl and I really hit it off, I just remembered that! hahaha" Then I told her i was tired cause I had been out all night and needed to take a nap, and she said goodbye all cute and girly with a winky face which is an obvious flirtatious sign that I am back in with her. So we will see what happenes but I plan on gaming hard and mercilessly at this point. I mean if someone is being a flake that is really rude, and they may be a decent person once they know you are worth it, but to get there you will obviously have to be a true player.


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