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    Default Re: Text Message Fail with girl I met on Saturday night?

    I'm just not the type to send overly sweet messages, tmalonetn. I don't think it would be very congruent with me.

    The Gilligan text is pretty good, but I'm also the type of guy that gets irritated with flirting over text message. My text game definitely sucks. I try to use text to set up meetings and that's about it.

    I like the Sunday afternoon text, it's a final text and maybe it'll work. Or should I try and give her an actual call later after work?

    Also with the text I'm thinking of changing never hung out with again to never saw again. Makes it more poignant, imo.

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    Default Re: Text Message Fail with girl I met on Saturday night?

    Quote Originally Posted by Uppintheante View Post
    I'm just not the type to send overly sweet messages, tmalonetn. I don't think it would be very congruent with me.

    The Gilligan text is pretty good, but I'm also the type of guy that gets irritated with flirting over text message. My text game definitely sucks. I try to use text to set up meetings and that's about it.

    I like the Sunday afternoon text, it's a final text and maybe it'll work. Or should I try and give her an actual call later after work?

    Also with the text I'm thinking of changing never hung out with again to never saw again. Makes it more poignant, imo.
    Oh I totally get where you're coming from. I HATED texting for a long time. (Especially with the old "flip phone"!!)
    But I realized that the reason I hated it, was because it was pointless back then.

    I had NO idea what I was doing & was always pissed that I never got replies back.
    Or if I did, they were the usual "one or two word" responses.

    So I could never get enough interest built to arrange a get-together.

    You just need to find your style to match your personality. If it's more quippy/bantering stuff, then own it & go with it.


    I sort of incorporated a "buffet" of techniques into my style, so I have many options in my little bag of tricks.


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    Default Re: Text Message Fail with girl I met on Saturday night?

    So she responded (9 hours later) with "I'm in ____ this weekend sweet txt tho." Lost interest/Friend-zone?

    I'm thinking of responding with "I surprised myself. Not conventionally the sweet and sensitive type."

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    Default Re: Text Message Fail with girl I met on Saturday night?

    This is a perfect opportunity to use this:

    puaforums.com/pick-up-field-report/5439-bullet-proof-anti-flaking-technique

    Throw the friend zone yourself before she does, this will throw her off.

    Also, if she ever throws out the player tag again don't deny it, she basically DHVing you and throwing an ioi. Respond with "yeah, i see alot of girls but i'm waiting for the right one to calm down ". Every girl would love a high value "player" guy who she can put a leash on and control.

    Best of luck

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    Default Re: Text Message Fail with girl I met on Saturday night?

    I'm thinking of either texting "let's just be friends" or just not texting back until she re-initiates contact. For some reason, this girl has gotten way under my skin. Oh well, I'll go out tonight with my buddy and get a bunch of numbers. Probably should help the situation.


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