So, I had a first date planned with a girl I met on Saturday night. I think she got The Vibe that I was a huge player, even though I denied it. We made plans to go out on Wednesday night--she texted me a time that worked for her on Monday, and then called me on Tuesday to change the location, but we both said we were excited. Then last night I had this conversation:
Her: Yeah I've changed my mind let's not go cause you don't know me that well.
Me: That's too bad, I liked what I did know . Enjoy your summer.
Her: Facebook me bro
Me: Not your bro. I honestly don't like Facebook. Prefer to get to know each other in person. More fun that way.
Her: So yur in a domestic partnership?
Me: Yeah, currently living with ------ and her husband.
Me: It's tough cuz we both have strong feelings for the husband, but we make it work.
Her: Omg sounds like a Bollywood film in the making
Her: Don't worry yur popular you'll find other fishes.
Her: C'mon dude you don't even know how old I am.
Her: I could be an undercover cougar.
Me: We can discuss where to bite me later.
Her: Oh that's not sketchy at all
Her: How many girls do you need in a week?
Her: Get yur TI-83 it's gonna be a big number
Me: This isn't gonna work out. I'm off to bed. Those last 2 texts were incredibly rude, you don't even know me.
Problem is I actually liked this girl, just really thrown off from what went to an "Excited to see you tomorrow" to that conversation. Lots of red flags, probably dodged a bullet, but how could I have handled this better?
Tl;dr: Girl cancels date. Girl freaks out and gets angry. I get annoyed and end things.