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Thread: She gave me her name but I can't find her on Facebook...please help!

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    Default She gave me her name but I can't find her on Facebook...please help!

    Need help quick for a good response text...

    Quick background - I hooked up w/ this girl at a bar over the weekend and had friendly chit chat with her...I texted her twice w/ no response from her either time so then I texted her this:

    ME: well it's obvious you've became a mermaid and have been living in the ocean...when you're done singing songs with new underwater friends shoot me a text I have a quick question for ya

    HER: Hahaha I'm sorry what's up?

    ME: What's ur last name?? We're gonna be facebook friends, as long as you promise not to stalk me.... haha :-)

    HER: Hahaha getting on a personal level here.. I don't think I'm searchable but my fb name is _______. Don't go wild on there

    ME: Hahahah do you also have you own "home living" magazine

    HER: Haha I truly wish I did


    From there I haven't responded and I can't find her profile on facebook...what can I text her to get her to add me on facebook without looking needy??

    Also, how do you guys think the interaction went?

    THANKS

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    Default Re: She gave me her name but I can't find her on Facebook...please help!

    go: Seriosly there is 200 (her name) out there. be Unique like me, look me up (your name) bet you theres only one.(wink emoticon)
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: She gave me her name but I can't find her on Facebook...please help!

    If you desperately need her Facebook connection you are being needy. You got her laughing with the mermaid banter. Don't pressure her, get her intrigued about you. You have her number that's all you need to get in her pants.

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    Default Re: She gave me her name but I can't find her on Facebook...please help!

    Quote Originally Posted by whitedragon View Post
    If you desperately need her Facebook connection you are being needy. You got her laughing with the mermaid banter. Don't pressure her, get her intrigued about you. You have her number that's all you need to get in her pants.
    I don't desperately need her facebook by any means, I just figured it would help build comfort w/ her and I'm interested to find out more about her without having to interview text the girl and possibly blowing all the work I already put in..

    I was thinking of saying something like:

    "I can't find you mystery girl..I guess mermaids aren't allowed to have facebooks...haha"

    what do you guys think? Is it AFC?

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    Default Re: She gave me her name but I can't find her on Facebook...please help!

    You're already finding out a bunch of things about her from your texts. Ultimately you want to ask her out and meet in person again yes? You don't need to know everything about her because you already like her and she doesn't need to know everything about you (she has met you at the bar and will have already determined if you are suitable physically and have a fair idea of what type of guy you are) - all she needs is a few emotional triggers to get her very interested in seeing you again in person. You have already started doing that and gaining comfort by making her laugh. This is not a complete stranger, you had drinks at a bar already, so I wouldn't linger around too long relying on text conversations or facebooking comfort zones. You have to aim to meet up again and IMO there's no reason why you can't do that fairly soon.

    You can continue the mermaid banter (lots of emotional and even sexual innuendo could be procured from that) but also keep seeding her with fresh inspiration so you keep her on her toes and wanting to converse again with you in real life. You want it to go forwards from the initial meet at the bar and not backwards into Facebook or texting buddies or that's all she will see you as.

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    Default Re: She gave me her name but I can't find her on Facebook...please help!

    Don't add her on Facebook! You're really overpursuing and you're driving her away. Let her add YOU if she's interested and she will. Let her text you also and she will if she wants to get together.

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    Default Re: She gave me her name but I can't find her on Facebook...please help!

    Thanks for the good responses...I WILL NOT keep pursuing the facebook because you guys are right...it comes off as somewhat needy...

    BUT, how do I carry on with the conversation now that she is somewhat expecting me to facebook her? Do I just drop it completely?

    Thanks again guys.

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    Default Re: She gave me her name but I can't find her on Facebook...please help!

    this ones yours white dragon

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    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.


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