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Thread: Tell me where I went wrong.. if I did

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    Default Tell me where I went wrong.. if I did

    Okay first a little background info....

    I've been fairly close with this girl HB 9(almost but not quite best friend) for a long time now.. We can basically talk about anything!
    One boundary we have with each other is to never talk about our relationship problems haha(mainly because I told her I honestly don't give a shit! haha)
    So this isn't a usual friend zone story...
    We never actually went through the whole relationship thing... Though we flirted a LOT, and it got really steamy.. I mean highly sexual stuff..
    We've both been in a LOT of relationships but this didn't stop us... We still hanged out more (which drove my girlfriends and her boyfriends crazy), flirted like crazy plus sexting.. She told me she has feelings for me ( i also had some for her) but I was already going out with someone else so nothing happened..

    This was all while in high school(she was a year below me).. Boarding school by the way.. I even used to sneak her into my room to hang out... no really.. One of my friends, who was her boyfriend at one time hated me for a bit..

    I graduated and just before I officially left school.. She says she regretted never officially getting with me.. I felt the same.. She also told me she wants us to always remain in touch...

    A year later... We've grown a apart.. Not as close as we were before but we still text once in a while... She keeps giving me IOIs and now I'm actually thinking of giving it a shot with her...

    Problem is my last relationship was long term and I'm WAY off my game.. So I need help.
    This was the last texting convo I had with her After a long timid no contact... Tell me if I went wrong anywhere and help me improve...

    ME: Hey there :P
    HER: Hello Love !
    Me: what ya doing?
    Her: Chilling.. You?
    Me: back from work.. Tired as hell.. almost got arrested.. fun day actually.. How was yours??
    Her: huh?!?!?!?!! What happened?! I've been babysitting..
    Me: cops detained me coz they thought my truck was stolen... Still a rebel That's cute.. Who you babysitting? (working part time in my dads company so I'm learning the ropes before I inherit.. Part of the company deals with transportation so I deal with truck drivers and she knows this)
    Her: hahahahahahaha.. You were driving a truck?! Babysitting my little sis..
    Me: Imagine that!! You should see my truck.. I call it Optimus... Lol I remember u showing me a pic... Cute kid..
    Her: lool send me a pic!!! Trust u to name the truck?!?! Yep that cute baby!
    Me: I might send you one... Better plan.. I'll be free Thursday.. I can take you for a ride
    Her: u should.. We should definitely hang out..

    Then I stopped texting her coz I didn't want to seem too eager or anything..

    Was this okay? Did I go wrong anywhere? How could I have improved this??

    Plus how can I follow up??

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    Default Re: Tell me where I went wrong.. if I did

    well as of right now sorry man your in the friend zone and women always has a plan b and c...your the plan c she seeded you with the she still has feelings for you and that she regretted not getting with you. you have to get out of the friend zone. one of the ways to do that is not do or say typical things like...talk about your monster truck and how she should ride around with you in it...she hears that from everry guy if shes a HB. come up with a destination and tell her to meet up with you there if she wants to...quit asking her out she gets that from every guy. Next you gonna have to push an pull...call her out on some things and dont just always be laid back on all that she is...in a respectful and usually joking manner of course...thats something to start with...

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    Default Re: Tell me where I went wrong.. if I did

    i think you have a chance with her she seems still into you. you just have to put some sexual stuff in your convo
    im on a different level

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    Default Re: Tell me where I went wrong.. if I did

    I actually don't think you're that much in the friend zone. I agree with Hopeful33 in that you should start to flirt and become more sexual. Better in person obviously. Also avoid TALKING about a relationship. Just let things happen so to speak.

    I think you could've easily kept the text convo going, but its not a bad thing you left it on a high note. Hope it works out for ya.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: Tell me where I went wrong.. if I did

    i agree with batman. just sayin your picture should be batman lol
    im on a different level

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    Default Re: Tell me where I went wrong.. if I did

    Thanks guys.. Actually went well, even managed to kiss close! Then 2 days later f-close.. Okay I had my doubts at first about this forum but you guys are geniuses.. Used a lot of info from here.. Thanks a LOT.
    By the way, we ain't even exclusive! We're f-buddies!


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