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    Default Got a girls number from friend. How should I approach?

    Hey guys I need some advice on this situation.

    Quick story: Best friend texts me saying his girls friend thinks I'm cute and wants to talk to me. I'm just like ok cool and then proceeds to give me her number and tells me to text her

    Now here is where I am stuck. I mean I know this girl. We don't really talk. different circle of friends but she is pretty cute. We follow each other on instagram and twitter but havent done much talking in person.

    My question is how should I approach and text her without it being some boring text conversation and leading to nothing.

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    Default Re: Got a girls number from friend. How should I approach?

    ME: "I got toothpaste splashed all over my favourite shirt #FML"
    HB: "Huh, who is this"
    ME: "This is Topgun, I am sorry I sent my status update to the wrong place."
    HB: "Oh"
    ME: "So have you ever have that happen to you before?"
    HB: "What?"
    ME: "Get something spilled over your favourite shirt"
    HB: "Yeah like a lot Hahaha"
    ME: "So this is what happened ... "

    That my friend is how you do it.

    I actually love this scenario I might use it this weekend

    Quote Originally Posted by Despinoza91 View Post
    Hey guys I need some advice on this situation.

    Quick story: Best friend texts me saying his girls friend thinks I'm cute and wants to talk to me. I'm just like ok cool and then proceeds to give me her number and tells me to text her

    Now here is where I am stuck. I mean I know this girl. We don't really talk. different circle of friends but she is pretty cute. We follow each other on instagram and twitter but havent done much talking in person.

    My question is how should I approach and text her without it being some boring text conversation and leading to nothing.
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    Default Re: Got a girls number from friend. How should I approach?

    She's already attracted and is fairly open about it. I think you should go right to screening

    "Ok what did they tell you about me?"

    "Well they said you weren't crazy so I decided to take a chance."

    "You can text me all day if you like. Just make sure it's things that are funny."

    These are just off the top of my head. Must make sure that just because you decided to text her doesn't mean you're convinced she's an interesting person you want to get to know better.

    Overall just give her a vibe like "Why should I be talking to you?" without verbally saying this.

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    Default Re: Got a girls number from friend. How should I approach?

    Screening, sh*t test, cocky/funny. If you already have attraction it's hardly going to matter which route you take:

    "Hey, it's (your name here). (Your best friend's name here) told me that we should get to know each other. Tell me 5 things you like about yourself in 160 characters or less. Ready, go!"

    Notes: 160 is the max on the average text before it becomes a picture message. That's why I use 160. Also, it's a sh*t test, but an important sh*t test. If a girl can't tell me 5 things she likes about herself I walk away. Leave the LSE's to the AFC's.
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    Default Re: Got a girls number from friend. How should I approach?

    Quote Originally Posted by Cody View Post
    Screening, sh*t test, cocky/funny. If you already have attraction it's hardly going to matter which route you take:

    "Hey, it's (your name here). (Your best friend's name here) told me that we should get to know each other. Tell me 5 things you like about yourself in 160 characters or less. Ready, go!"

    Notes: 160 is the max on the average text before it becomes a picture message. That's why I use 160. Also, it's a sh*t test, but an important sh*t test. If a girl can't tell me 5 things she likes about herself I walk away. Leave the LSE's to the AFC's.
    LSE?

    (30 Characters)!!!!!!!!! !!!

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    Default Re: Got a girls number from friend. How should I approach?

    LSE - Low Self-Esteem
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    Quote Originally Posted by surferdude View Post
    LSE?

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    Default Re: Got a girls number from friend. How should I approach?

    Batman and Cody went right into the screening, and Sh1t Test. Would you guys do that in the middle or the very start? I would do that in the middle after a few laughs (comfort) so I can ease those in. What you guys think? Comfort then Screening/Sh1t Test?
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    Default Re: Got a girls number from friend. How should I approach?

    Its easier to screen once a woman is attracted. Since she exclaimed her interest and offered her number that pretty much takes care of some of it so he should be able to get away with screening. Plus it's an important step.

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    Default Re: Got a girls number from friend. How should I approach?

    Makes sense.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BatMan View Post
    Its easier to screen once a woman is attracted. Since she exclaimed her interest and offered her number that pretty much takes care of some of it so he should be able to get away with screening. Plus it's an important step.
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    Default Re: Got a girls number from friend. How should I approach?

    My game is highly type specific. I'm this mix of Sasha and David D & X to the max. If she isn't smart (and I mean really smart) things just aren't going to fly. I refuse to ever be a dancing monkey. The stupid "HB10" Barbies that I have to perform tricks consciously to hold their attention while subconsciously building attraction...well, I leave them for the other guys. If that's you I don't mean it with disrespect--even Tyler will say you can't rate the top PUA's because everyone specifies. I'm no shame direct. Others are indirect. Cool, because it gives newbies a chance to find out which they want to mimic before making it their own.

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