ok...So this time around I used a long and funny opening message....but it wasn't custom tailored to her profile in any way...it's something that would have worked in any situation...and here's what she replied with....how should I respond to this??
How about instead of a long generic message that appears it could be easily copied and pasted you make conversation from something on that person's profile. For instance, I liked the picture of you in front of the Eiffel Tower, and what did you think about Paris? It took two seconds, and you probably don't feel like you've been spammed via *****.com.
And by the way... Congrats on being considered a match for me.