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    troublemaker837 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default how to reply non-defensively...

    ok...So this time around I used a long and funny opening message....but it wasn't custom tailored to her profile in any way...it's something that would have worked in any situation...and here's what she replied with....how should I respond to this??

    How about instead of a long generic message that appears it could be easily copied and pasted you make conversation from something on that person's profile. For instance, I liked the picture of you in front of the Eiffel Tower, and what did you think about Paris? It took two seconds, and you probably don't feel like you've been spammed via *****.com.

    And by the way... Congrats on being considered a match for me.
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    Default Re: how to reply non-defensively...

    Oh sh*t, Son. You just got schooled.

    "Haha, wow. I'll be honest I wasn't expecting that. You're right though and I had it coming. [Now insert the stuff you like about her profile]"
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    Default Re: how to reply non-defensively...

    yea, I haven't been having much luck with the generic openers. I have actually been getting over 30% hate mail, but part of that was because girls thought profile was offensive. I am speaking based on a large enough sample on Match.

    here is what I did..

    HB 7: I appreciate the unique email haha but do you just copy and paste that to everyone???

    Me: For sure, to some people.

    So no road trips for us? What do we do for fun, then? I guess that I can live with some pool/ billiards that you listed in your profile but that's not going to entertain me for too long. Who knows if you are even like pool/billiards. It's just so tempting to click everything. Cute little check boxes; who wouldn't want to just click them all? Well, maybe not everything. Like I don't know how I would date an 8'11'' woman...

    Ok, I am running out of breath, so we'll try to substitute the pool for the road trip for now and hope that I draw you out of your shell a little (I know that I will).

    Just one last question: so how many balls would I have to spot you in pool so that you would have a chance against me?

    Make it a great day.


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