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    troublemaker837 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default flaky girl I met at bar the other night

    ok...here's the convo....not sure where I could have handled this better...open to suggestions.....here goes:

    me:
    Cool deal...see you Saturday at **********!

    her:
    I am going to have to cancel tonight. I have had family show up in town last minute. I wish I wasnt contacting you via facebook. Can we reschedule?

    me:
    hmmm...my weekend is pretty booked...how about Starbucks on Monday?

    her:
    This week is going to be crazy for me. I have less than a week to get everything packed and ready to leave for Cancun this Saturday morning. Would you like to try and meet up for a drink or something when I get back?

    me:
    wow....a week's worth of packing and no time to stop for 30 minutes of coffee?? I hope you have time to eat and sleep while you're packing. If you want to get together after you get back you know where to find me, but I'm not waiting up for ya.

    her:

    Packing, working, sports, making arrangements for my dog and work while I am out of the country for 8 days? Yes, this will be a busy week. I have already cancelled on you once, and I would hate to do it again. I never asked you to do anything for me, especially wait. I have to go run errands. I hope you have a fabulous week. Im sorry I have dissapointed you.

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    Default Re: flaky girl I met at bar the other night

    You handled it well. But too much emotions on your end though. Always keep your poker face and reveal your card where necessary.

    Just couple minutes ago I message a girl HB10 model I met Thursday who was flaking on me and I told her what my plans are for the week and if she doesnt want to spend time with me it was fun meeting her but she should delete my number because I had other girls to talk to. She actually made dinner reservations for us on Tuesday and we are going to take a long walk through the city tomorrow. All of this she planned.
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    Default Re: flaky girl I met at bar the other night

    Hey boys,
    I believe both of you are showing too much emotion. You don't tell them you are super busy and have girls all around you, you show them. You shouldn't be making time for the girl, she should be making time for you. I think someone said this on another thread but if President Obama asked you to dinner would you make time for him? Of course you would. If you have established enough interest and comfort I would wait for them to contact you, then go to coffee, but when you go to coffee you bring another girl along. This girl will see first hand you have other girls that want you, so then she will begin to make time for you. Hope this helps
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