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  1. #1
    Silverthunder is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Date closed but no specific plans and girl flakes

    Guys, really stuck here. What do you think of this idea (shown below)?
    Any and all feedback would be greatly appreciated.

    Serious question:
    let's say you are taking me out for sushi. I am starving, haven't
    eaten all day, and I am waiting. YOu just got home from the gym and
    need to shower and get ready. How long does it take you?
    1- 30 minutes and you look hot & I can't keep my hands off of you
    2- 15 minutes and you look cute
    3- 2 hours and I die from starvation
    -XXXXX
    --------------
    Haha well there are a few factors that we are incorporating in this
    time spand. It all depends if I'm dilly dallying by singing Britney
    Spears songs into my hair brush infront of my mirror in a towel, I'm
    busy texting you beforehand because you are so exited to meet me, or I
    could just take a few extra minutes in the event of a wardrobe
    disaster. My usual time is about 45 minutes so you wouldnt be too
    starved. How was your weekend?
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    0000000,
    Who said it was our first date?
    45 mins, eh, I'd probably help myself to something in your house. I
    like eating out of schedule, anyway. Let's see what's good in the
    fridge... Never killed anyone to eat dinner 2x, right?
    Weekend was good. Was out with some friends and one of them was
    telling some really funny date stories. Great stuff, I was even
    laughing about it today.
    -XXXXX
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    Haha well I guess it wouldnt hurt. They say your supposed to eat a
    bunch of small meals a day to promote weight loss. Guess they never
    saw the movie cast away. You can look in my fridge but I grocery shop
    like an 8 year old so I hope you like chicken nuggets and string
    cheese. My weekend was pretty awesome actually, one of my roommates
    has a boat down at the marina in AC so we just partied pretty hard all
    weekend. We actually pregammed to shower lol. So what do you do with
    yourself from 9-5?
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    0000000,
    That sounds like a good weekend. Love the pregaming to shower part.
    Even the old man that I am, I will still kick your butt in a drinking
    contest
    I am all about small meals all day. It's just better that way for many
    reasons, like I am a slow eater and this way some of the food on my
    plate doesn't get cold before I get to it.
    My day job is mortgage loan originator, so right up your alley. One of
    our niches is financing for real estate investors (we are really more
    focused on residential investment property, though, up to 4 units). I
    actually also have some experience with managing rental property (many
    years actually, but just one property).
    -XXXXX
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    That's awesome! Actually my roommate and BFF work in morgages lol.
    Maybe we can do business sometime . So how has match been treating
    you?
    --------------
    0000000,
    Wow. We are all in the same general industry. We'll all have lots to
    talk about, then.
    I joined Match about a month and a half ago. It started by really
    trying to have its way with me on the first couple of dates... sending
    me emails about Chemistry and all kinds of nonsense. Now it treats me
    better and sends me nicer emails, like ones saying that I have an
    email from you.
    I used to go to center city ('round the Rittenhouse area) a lot when
    my friend lived down there. Was nice because I could crash there
    sometimes. Are you in Philadelphia causing trouble much?
    -XXXXX
    --------------
    Aw well look at you making me blush. I'm in my 3rd month so it's
    almost up. Its been an interesting journey none the less. We should
    discuss business sometime
    --------------
    0000000,
    Ok, as long as it's just business
    How about we meet up either tomorrow night or Tuesday night at either
    XXXXX (bowling/pool/bar/has appetizers) or XXXXX (diner/
    small club). Both are in Philadelphia.
    Just noticed that you like XXXXX. Glad to hear b/c those are the
    kind of classics that I grew up with.
    -XXXXX
    ---------------
    I would love to but I'm actually leaving for a Miami vacation
    tomorrow. I get back on the 13th and I'm totally down for a date...I
    mean business meeting lol
    ---------------
    Ok, so Tuesday is the 14th. I can't do any earlier than 8:30. 8:30 ok with you?
    -XXXXX
    RRR-RRR-RRRR
    ---------------
    I shipped that out Thursday evening, and now Tuesday morning and I haven't heard back (she supposedly got back in town yeterday).

    I think that tonight I proceed with this:

    So are you actually an old man pretending to be a girl? I guess that's a good reason not to be able to meet up.
    Good luck, old man. I will forgive you this once as long as you don't create any new profiles and have more conversations with me.

    I was thinking also about using the flake buster (saying let's just be friends) but that's not good here because it's not like she actually flaked on date plans?

    Right after her last message I think that she was offline for 3 days, but then she viewed me about 2 days ago.

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    Default Re: Date closed but no specific plans and girl flakes

    also, what do you guys think about me telling girls that I am going to kick their butt at _____?
    I am doing it a fair bit in the online game but it doesn't seem like I am getting much in the way of results on it (very small sample, though, so far).

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    Default Re: Date closed but no specific plans and girl flakes

    That message confused the heck outta me man, but props I think I read she wants a date somewhere, thru all your 'garble garble' haha jk man.

    Since 'business' was basically ur guys hook, or inside joke per se, use that to bait her back in.

    If she doesn't reply in a couple days, make up something like an auto msg almsot, "please confirm ur registration at the mortgage business seminar *Tuesday @ *such and such place"
    Best regards blah blah. I dunno lol that just seems like a funny, catchy thing to do.

    Cheers man

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    Default Re: Date closed but no specific plans and girl flakes

    I took the line that I advocate in my post. She gave me her number than I date closed her. Wasn't digging her on the date, tho (looked worse than the pics).

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    Default Re: Date closed but no specific plans and girl flakes

    Hey that's cool, good to hear u guys got out n stuff.

    Well ya, odds are you may go on several dates, before u find a girl u can at least 'connect with.'
    Most of the time they, and us, can appear differently than expected, u can only tell so much from those jpegs of girls on a screen haha.

    Well keep pluggin cheers man


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