Guys, really stuck here. What do you think of this idea (shown below)?
Any and all feedback would be greatly appreciated.
let's say you are taking me out for sushi. I am starving, haven't
eaten all day, and I am waiting. YOu just got home from the gym and
need to shower and get ready. How long does it take you?
1- 30 minutes and you look hot & I can't keep my hands off of you
2- 15 minutes and you look cute
3- 2 hours and I die from starvation
Haha well there are a few factors that we are incorporating in this
time spand. It all depends if I'm dilly dallying by singing Britney
Spears songs into my hair brush infront of my mirror in a towel, I'm
busy texting you beforehand because you are so exited to meet me, or I
could just take a few extra minutes in the event of a wardrobe
disaster. My usual time is about 45 minutes so you wouldnt be too
starved. How was your weekend?
Who said it was our first date?
45 mins, eh, I'd probably help myself to something in your house. I
like eating out of schedule, anyway. Let's see what's good in the
fridge... Never killed anyone to eat dinner 2x, right?
Weekend was good. Was out with some friends and one of them was
telling some really funny date stories. Great stuff, I was even
laughing about it today.
Haha well I guess it wouldnt hurt. They say your supposed to eat a
bunch of small meals a day to promote weight loss. Guess they never
saw the movie cast away. You can look in my fridge but I grocery shop
like an 8 year old so I hope you like chicken nuggets and string
cheese. My weekend was pretty awesome actually, one of my roommates
has a boat down at the marina in AC so we just partied pretty hard all
weekend. We actually pregammed to shower lol. So what do you do with
yourself from 9-5?
That sounds like a good weekend. Love the pregaming to shower part.
Even the old man that I am, I will still kick your butt in a drinking
I am all about small meals all day. It's just better that way for many
reasons, like I am a slow eater and this way some of the food on my
plate doesn't get cold before I get to it.
My day job is mortgage loan originator, so right up your alley. One of
our niches is financing for real estate investors (we are really more
focused on residential investment property, though, up to 4 units). I
actually also have some experience with managing rental property (many
years actually, but just one property).
That's awesome! Actually my roommate and BFF work in morgages lol.
Maybe we can do business sometime . So how has match been treating
Wow. We are all in the same general industry. We'll all have lots to
talk about, then.
I joined Match about a month and a half ago. It started by really
trying to have its way with me on the first couple of dates... sending
me emails about Chemistry and all kinds of nonsense. Now it treats me
better and sends me nicer emails, like ones saying that I have an
email from you.
I used to go to center city ('round the Rittenhouse area) a lot when
my friend lived down there. Was nice because I could crash there
sometimes. Are you in Philadelphia causing trouble much?
Aw well look at you making me blush. I'm in my 3rd month so it's
almost up. Its been an interesting journey none the less. We should
discuss business sometime
Ok, as long as it's just business
How about we meet up either tomorrow night or Tuesday night at either
XXXXX (bowling/pool/bar/has appetizers) or XXXXX (diner/
small club). Both are in Philadelphia.
Just noticed that you like XXXXX. Glad to hear b/c those are the
kind of classics that I grew up with.
I would love to but I'm actually leaving for a Miami vacation
tomorrow. I get back on the 13th and I'm totally down for a date...I
mean business meeting lol
Ok, so Tuesday is the 14th. I can't do any earlier than 8:30. 8:30 ok with you?
I shipped that out Thursday evening, and now Tuesday morning and I haven't heard back (she supposedly got back in town yeterday).
I think that tonight I proceed with this:
So are you actually an old man pretending to be a girl? I guess that's a good reason not to be able to meet up.
Good luck, old man. I will forgive you this once as long as you don't create any new profiles and have more conversations with me.
I was thinking also about using the flake buster (saying let's just be friends) but that's not good here because it's not like she actually flaked on date plans?
Right after her last message I think that she was offline for 3 days, but then she viewed me about 2 days ago.