What's up guys,
Ok, so first of all, I am pretty much a complete AFC/chode who has (mild?) social anxiety. I'm 19 and will soon be a college sophomore soon. As I have been doing nothing this summer sitting on my ass at home, I have decided I no longer want to be a shut-in loser and plan to actually learn something that will help with me getting more confident with girls (and life in general).
So I have a pretty basic idea of my goals for the next few weeks until school starts again, basically just to go on a few dates (I've never been on a date due to my anxiety and have never been in a relationship), and practice some really noob/basic day-game stuff. Mostly stuff that will kind of make me less awkward/more relaxed and used to social situations.
Anyways, I recently made a POF account with a template I found on these forums and my "ABOUT ME" goes like this:
"I'm a well hung, romantically gifted stud searching for a sugar momma who will lavish me with expensive gifts in return for giving her all of the amazing things her husband is too self-centered to make enjoyable for her. Car must be provided up front."
My interests are pretty random like: bodybuilding, sushi, karate, etc.
First date says: robbing a bank.
My pictures are decent I think (got 2 of em). I'm not a bad looking guy 5'7" or 5'8" asian and I workout 6 days a week.
I;ve been messaging the same messages to some of the cuter girls that in my area and I recently got this response within 3 minutes:
hey, so do you have a job? I need a woman who can support me while I play video games all day.
whaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaat ?? lmao I work hard for my money. warehouse general labor. and it all goes to school. sorry you're out of luck.
She is a pretty cute blonde chick (18 years old) with a nice body who is about to enter uni studying psychology.
Anyways, my game is pretty bad lol I basically just started this stuff..any help on what I should respond, any other tips on how I should proceed in the future to maximise my learning, etc.?