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    Default Need help texting this girl

    Hey guys, first time posting. Been around a while but only lurking, still fairly new so don't want to give any bad advice off!

    Anyways I'm having trouble figuring out what to do with this HB8.5 who I met on a flight home a few days ago. Hit it off really well, loads of kino and friendly banter (I was being cocky funny), very sexually charged and number closed her. Started texting her a bit later that night and was going fairly well (note: although her replies are short, it didn't bother me because she was showing me texts from her friends when we landed and her texts were all really short)...

    Me: Was nice to meet you today loser! I'm guessing you are struggling with those crosswords big time without me tonight. That is what you're doing on a quiet Tuesday night in Adelaide, right?

    Her: Haha sorry ya walking dictionary!

    Me: Your jealousy shows. even through text. Shame!

    Her: No I have personality to fall back on :P

    Me: mmmm would you really classify "annoying" as personality though?

    Her: It made you laugh so yes!

    Me: Well you know thats why it was so annoying. I'm a very serious person, I don't like to laugh

    Her: Yeah, Mr boring!

    Me: Miss insulting! Don't worry tho, I know how you really feel about me

    Her: Haha hows that

    Me: I'm good at reading through your cute little insults and seeing the truth

    Her: Lol and what's the truth?


    Those texts were all sent quite rapidly. At this stage I fell asleep on my couch mid-reply (I had been awake for a loooong time travelling home from the USA) and woke up an hour later unfortunately. I really should have left it but ended up finishing it off:

    Me: You think I'm a charming fella who you oh so desperately want to see again. Right?

    And I didn't hear back from her. That was around a day and a half ago. I have a few other girls in my life right now so I guess it's no big deal, but the chemistry between me and this girl was something I haven't experienced in a while and I really want to set up a date/hang out with this girl, she was pretty special. I thought the texts were going ok so not sure why she just stopped. I have no idea where to go from here though? Any advice/criticism/help would be appreciated thanks!

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    Default Re: Need help texting this girl

    I think you had a great opportunity to create some intrigue when she asked what the truth was.

    You: Well I don't want to be wrong. So I'll keep it to myself.

    Her: No, tell me!

    You: If you remind me next time I see you I'll tell you.

    Always leave them wanting more.

    I think you should text her one night "What you doing?" After her reply of either doing something or nothing she will likely ask what you are doing. At which point you could either not respond at all to build some anticipation or set a meet up right then and there. She can't flake since it was planned at the last second. And you set your time up as precious by conveying "Hey I'm a busy man and you just missed a window of opportunity to see me."

    Hope this helps and good luck.

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    Default Re: Need help texting this girl

    Don't be worried about not hearing back from her. I do what you did all the time forget to text back or something and text the girl like an hour later. It's usually because they can feel a little bit offended, and just won't text back. But it's all good, texting her the next day wont hurt at all. Next time you accidentally fall asleep, or just forget to text her back just dont text her at all until the next day. Act like you didn't just leave her hanging, if she brings it up thats an ioi. I would suggest to just say hey i'm going to (someplace) with a couple of friends you should come by. or something like that
    Asking a question isn't a sign of weakness, it's a sign of wanting self improvement.

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    Default Re: Need help texting this girl

    Ok cool, thanks guys. I'm going to text her later today and try arrange a day 2. I'll just tease her a bit and ask what her schedules like. I guess if I don't hear back from her today I can assume the worst?

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    Default Re: Need help texting this girl

    if she doesn't repond to you asking her on a second date say " we'll i can see now that you only have confidence behind texting. It was fun while it lasted"

    should get a reaction to tease her
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: Need help texting this girl

    Quote Originally Posted by Tyrone1991 View Post
    if she doesn't repond to you asking her on a second date say " we'll i can see now that you only have confidence behind texting. It was fun while it lasted"

    should get a reaction to tease her
    I'm hoping to just get a response to my first text to start!

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    Default Re: Need help texting this girl

    yeah thats the back up plan

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    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: Need help texting this girl

    Hmm may have stuffed this one round a bit, not sure yet.

    Texted her today, followed a lot of stuff I read on here (which is unlike me but I'm really working on my text game and trying to be a ton more playful):

    Me: Hey dork butt! You been keeping out of trouble?

    Her: Hey loser! Sure have, how was wednesday?

    Me: For a night at that place*, it was actually pretty good! Haha, what are your grand plans for this weekend?

    Her: I'll have to give it a go for myself! Going out tomorrow night u

    Me: Yeah I'll be out tomorrow night too. What about tonight, I feel like chocolate and alcohol, I think you'd make a good partner in crime

    Her: Where you going? Oh yum what a combo! I'm at a friends today

    Me: Going to (bar) then will definitely be at a club after, you? Haha yeah come for chocolate booze delights after, we can go at like 8.37pm

    at that stage she didnt reply for like 2 and a half hours, so i tried to save face (maybe shouldnt of) and said

    Me: don't worry about tonight, I made other plans

    Her: Oh okayyy


    *Bar I went to that night is usually pretty shit :P


    She seems pretty keen to meet up tomorrow night somewhere, so I think the best cause of action is to just message her when out. I think I really should have given her a bit more time to respond to going out tonight but, I really hope I haven't messed it up!


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