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    Default Sent a stupid text, what now? (over analyzing?)

    Hey,

    I met this chick the other day, had a good conversation with her and closed with her number. That same night she texted me if i wanted to go with her and meet her friends, but i couldn't as i was busy the next day.

    I then told her to come with me to a bar, but she had work till 9 and i was heading with my friends at around 6. (not a flake, she told me she couldn't go before i set a time or meeting place)

    then she started to say something about how she liked lollies. i then made a stupid comment "ill bring the unmarked van with candy to lure you in, you bring the alcohol haha". i just tried to make something funny of it, since at the time what i wrote sounded funny to me.

    the last text she sent to me was 'this all sounds a little tooo creepy'. i dont know if the 'tooo' was on purpose so i could understand that she took it as a joke or if she was actually serious.

    I then tried to play it off with "nah dont worry, ill play some good music. (best i could come up with) anyway, yeh ill call you on the weekend, we definitely have to hang."

    no reply yet.

    did i play it off right? im over analyzing this stuff, but it's better to learn from my mistakes.

    help would be appreciated! thanks!

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    Default Re: Sent a stupid text, what now?

    Sometimes it's hard to gauge a girl's sense of humor in the beginning. SOME girls would laugh hysterically over that! (I personally thought it was pretty good.)

    So, it could be that hers isn't wacky enough for that.
    Or.. it could be that your personality doesn't quite match that style of humor.

    It depends on how you presented yourself, as well as, how she interpreted you the day you were talking & got her number.


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    Default Re: Sent a stupid text, what now? (over analyzing?)

    I guess over a text to a girl i met pretty much a day earlier is a bit much, even though i thought it was funny myself. I'll probably wait till over the weekend to give her a call or text. Can i recover? It would be such a shame to let this babe go haha.

    When i met her i showed off my personality as sort of chilled and laid back. She seemed pretty down to hang out, since she asked me to come meet her friends that same day. And she knows i'm a first year college student (shes the same age), if that changes the perspective on anything lol

    Also, maybe i should have posted this in the ask an expert section? getting a bit off the text game subject haha

    More advice would be great

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    Default Re: Sent a stupid text, what now? (over analyzing?)

    I think you have a chance with her if you use your humor to Take Away the creepiness of luring a girl with candy scenario you burned into her noggin. Personally, I would never mention that again...and that is the last impression you left with her. I would use another "scenario" like that, but that is not pervvy, and then maybe she will see you just have a wicked sense of humor and it was all in good fun. Good luck.

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    Default Re: Sent a stupid text, what now? (over analyzing?)

    While I personally found that to be quite amusing, she might not have. If you represented yourself as chilled and laid back, that kind of comment might have thrown a red flag for her. The only way I can justify that comment is because when your texting someone, sometimes you sub-consciously project their voice onto the message. So if you're reading something from her that says, "I like ice cream" you might imagine her saying it versus just reading the text. If you were chilled and laid back, then the tone of it might have been misinterpreted at the start and its now burned into her mind. I wouldn't bring it up again, since she might have found it creepy but I'd use a different avenue of humor. If you can recall what she responded well too, like a joke or something funny from the night you met you'd probably have better luck on your next joking text. Just my two cents
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    Default Re: Sent a stupid text, what now? (over analyzing?)

    Quote Originally Posted by bankaiblade View Post
    Hey,
    then she started to say something about how she liked lollies. i then made a stupid comment "ill bring the unmarked van with candy to lure you in, you bring the alcohol haha". i just tried to make something funny of it, since at the time what i wrote sounded funny to me.

    the last text she sent to me was 'this all sounds a little tooo creepy'. i dont know if the 'tooo' was on purpose so i could understand that she took it as a joke or if she was actually serious.
    Would have replied with
    "And you're boring."

    On to the next one. If she doesn't share your sense of humor, then no matter how good she looks, it'll be tough to make it work imo. She's the one that made the creepy comment first, Please son.
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    Default Re: Sent a stupid text, what now? (over analyzing?)

    She sent you a text about lolli pops, where does she think that discussion is gonna go? LOL
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    Default Re: Sent a stupid text, what now? (over analyzing?)

    Same here.. different sense of humor?

    You know some girls just don't respond... and then you wait a week, text again, and they respond.

    So you texted her in the weekend, and she doesn't reply? imo, I'd give her another week and shoot her one more text--- if she doesn't reply this time--- forget em. lol

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    Default Re: Sent a stupid text, what now? (over analyzing?)

    I havn't heard any mention of this anywhere, so I'll throw it out there. A simple at the end of that sentence could have eliminated this whole mess. Make sure to use emoticons (just use them naturally, don't over do it)
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    Default Re: Sent a stupid text, what now? (over analyzing?)

    I'm sure this guy asking for advice in August is thankful for all the help


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