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    Question am i too sexual and flirty

    so ive been texting this girl who is pretty chill and blunt about things. i felt like ive been too sexual and flirty with this girl. im finding it a little difficult to escalate things with this girl. and i want to get her to chase me instead of the other way around. ill show you examples of what i mean

    7/26/12

    her: what are you up to?
    me: sliding my fingers down her neck,and placing my fingers on the G-string. yea thats my bass for ya xD
    her: lol whats that from?
    me:i read something similar on the web,but made my own version lol c:
    her: oo lol its nice
    me:thank you, im the new shakesphere
    her: lmao like the sexual one
    me: you can buy my books at barnes and nobles. >u<
    her:lmao


    8/8/12

    me:
    her: (:
    me: tell me what you think
    her: about what?
    her: loll nice
    meont get too excited there. lol xD
    her:loll nahh im good
    me:im trying to be a story writer
    her: oo cool what kinda stories?
    me:erotic and horror
    her: oo cool

    8/15/12

    *i was making a joke about her being Dr.dolittle since she likes animals. i told her the animals would get mad if she ate chicken*

    me: can you keep a secret?
    her: yeaa
    me: i ate a big $%^$%^$ *implying a sexual reference*
    her: lol i eat meat too
    me:whoa whoa i dont go that far lol.
    her: -no response-

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    Default Re: am i too sexual?

    Yeah i think you are. I mean especially if this is done over text. I think you are trying to skip the attraction and comfort phases and go straight to seduction. Yeah you might not get friendzoned, but she prob thinks you are a bit of a perv. I would stop flirting with her over text, build comfort, flirt in person and see what happens man.
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    Default Re: am i too sexual?

    okay,but how can i bring comfort without being boring

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    Default Re: am i too sexual?

    Define boring?
    Once you build attraction, the conversation should flow naturally. I mean while asking her about herself and getting to know each other you should be flirting a lot, not exactly with what you say, but with your body language and how you say things. Trust me comfort doesn't have to be boring, I find it interesting to meet new people. Plus it is necessary so you can move on to seduction. I would also keep the texting to minimum also.
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    Default Re: am i too sexual?

    i think i screwed it up now. she isnt as responsive to my texts like before. help me

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    Default Re: am i too sexual?

    It is natural to be sexual, girls want sex as much as guys..they6 just want you to follow the steps so they don't feel like sluts!

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    Default Re: am i too sexual?

    My golden rule is: Whatever you say or do, remain aware that womens biggest fear is to look easy... And if you want a girl to run after you u have to make her think that looks is one thing but t'is not all...she must feel as if you are evaluating her (Use of negs) judging if she is worth your precious time and energy...

    Whatever happens now DONT BEAT YOURSELF UP...learn from your mistakes and move on...IMHO

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    Default Re: am i too sexual?

    Lol whoah this is intense. Definitely different from the usualy stuff.

    I will say that what you're doing is fine......if she is reciprocating. Which she CLEARLY is not. You can tell within the first couple of texts that she is not taking the bait.

    It takes practice to be able to read a woman and calibrate to her so that you know when and how much sexuality you can dish out and her like it. So don't beat yourself up. Just keep practicing.

    She may be thinking you are a perv and that's why she is not responding.

    Is there a way to recover? Not sure. The only way to find out is to cut contact for about two weeks then contact her again on a more casual note. Open with some basic teasing and flirting while IMPLYING sex at the right moments. If you notice she is resistant to anything, just take a couple of steps back and try again later. calibration.

    I like to help guys exhaust all options before cutting their losses, but also want them to realize when they are beating a dead horse. Because once the investment is off balance and she is just not contributing to any of the interactions, then everything you do will start to look needy, no matter how clever or non-needy you think your lines are.

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    Default Re: am i too sexual and flirty

    i need some good text openers to keep her interested. i need to work on building comfort and to get her texting me back which is the hard part. ill keep you guys posted.

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    Default Re: am i too sexual and flirty

    so i find out she just got a boyfriend yesterday. i want to get into her head before she establishes something with this guy


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